Ash: Thank God for give me the best in laws ever - Page 3

That was when she was newly married. The first 1-2 years are always(in normal non-physical abusive in-laws cases) happy and all fine between the bride and in-laws. The real drama between them starts after 1-2 years of marriage.

Woh sab theek hai, but what is this expression on Big B's face

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She's buttering her in-laws in that video because she got that award due to Amitabh's influence since he was IIFA's brand ambassador at that time. Aishwarya has always used people. Around 2012-2013, Bachchans realized that they were used by Ash and tensions started showing in public.

As much as Bahurani fans want to blame Bachchans, Aishwarya's behavior changed after she became a mother. She started ignoring everyone and shifted all her attention to her daughter. She only allowed her parents to bond with her precious angel. Amitabh and Jaya aside, she didn't even let Abhishek hold Aaradhya. Her behavior of not letting Aaradhya have a relationship with the paternal side of the family and her decision of not giving Bachchans another grandchild must've added to the deteriorating relationship.

Ash's parenting style seems extremely suffocating and it looks like she wants to be the only one controlling and dictating her daughter's life. Her own mother was extremely controlling so Ash is repeating the same behavior.

This interview of Abhishek was posted on India Forums 12 years ago. He mentions that Ash didn't let him handle his baby, Ash shut him out of the bedroom for months, Ash told him to move out temporarily and find a new place to sleep because she and her daughter's comfort was more important. Abhi also said that Ash relegated him to the background after Aaradhya's birth.

Aishwarya then started giving interviews that "I only love my parents and Aaradhya the most", "My parents and Aaradhya are my world", "My daughter comes first, everything else is secondary".

She made it clear that Abhishek is not a part of her world, only her daughter and parents are. She made it clear to the Bachchans that she and her daughter matter, no one else does. In many interviews, Ash said that she's raising her daughter with her mother. Whenever she had to shoot, she'd allow only her mother to pickup Aaradhya from the school who would then bring Aaradhya to the sets.

Aishwarya got away with saying and behaving like this (just like she got away with everything) but when Bachchans give her the same treatment that she gave them (ignoring them, saying they don't matter, keeping her daughter away from them), her fans get angry and call Bachchans toxic, regressive, and patriarchal.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

May be bachchans thought marrying ash will make abhishekh super star

But they never thought abhishekh will be compared to super star ash and trolled etc and flop so badly

So they are not happy with what happened to abhishekh career after marrying ash

You know in india they say bahu is lakshimi once she comes prosperity comes

But if hubby starts flopping they blamed ash for it

That may also be reason ash not working after marriage in 2009 frequently as she do not want to steal limelight from abhishekh

abhishekh told that i will go and work as husband ash take care of home etc

Also in a patriarchal country like india giving a male heir matters how bahu is treated

Look at navya naveli she may be Shwetha daughter, yet a girl so not allowed in movies. Shes the most pretty among all 3 grand kids of AB and with best chance to be an actress

A daughter is a daughter and a son always a son and superior even if its a educated rich family

@bold: Bachchan tag, their family couldn't make Abhishek a superstar. Marrying Aiswarya would make him a superstar. What?

Navya shouldn't have any career aspiration outside hindi cinema.

She should be in hindi film industry. Nepotism, damn if you do damned if you don't.

These fictional writers still exist in IF in 2024.

Originally posted by: Sparkling_Wine

She's buttering her in-laws in that video because she got that award due to Amitabh's influence since he was IIFA's brand ambassador at that time. Aishwarya has always used people. Around 2012-2013, Bachchans realized that they were used by Ash and tensions started showing in public.

As much as Bahurani fans want to blame Bachchans, Aishwarya's behavior changed after she became a mother. She started ignoring everyone and shifted all her attention to her daughter. She only allowed her parents to bond with her precious angel. Amitabh and Jaya aside, she didn't even let Abhishek hold Aaradhya. Her behavior of not letting Aaradhya have a relationship with the paternal side of the family and her decision of not giving Bachchans another grandchild must've added to the deteriorating relationship.

Ash's parenting style seems extremely suffocating and it looks like she wants to be the only one controlling and dictating her daughter's life. Her own mother was extremely controlling so Ash is repeating the same behavior.

This interview of Abhishek was posted on India Forums 12 years ago. He mentions that Ash didn't let him handle his baby, Ash shut him out of the bedroom for months, Ash told him to move out temporarily and find a new place to sleep because she and her daughter's comfort was more important. Abhi also said that Ash relegated him to the background after Aaradhya's birth.

Aishwarya then started giving interviews that "I only love my parents and Aaradhya the most", "My parents and Aaradhya are my world", "My daughter comes first, everything else is secondary".

She made it clear that Abhishek is not a part of her world, only her daughter and parents are. She made it clear to the Bachchans that she and her daughter matter, no one else does. In many interviews, Ash said that she's raising her daughter with her mother. Whenever she had to shoot, she'd allow only her mother to pickup Aaradhya from the school who would then bring Aaradhya to the sets.

Aishwarya got away with saying and behaving like this (just like she got away with everything) but when Bachchans give her the same treatment that she gave them (ignoring them, saying they don't matter, keeping her daughter away from them), her fans get angry and call Bachchans toxic, regressive, and patriarchal.

Your posts are usually so absurd that there's no point in responding to them but I can't help myself here because the actual pics you posted as "proof" go completely against your assertions.

You said Aish kicked Abhishek out of her bedroom because she wanted to be alone with her daughter. Abhishek's own interview you posted has him say he struggled with Aaradhya's sleep schedule and could not go back to sleep after waking. How Aishwarya advised him to sleep in a separate room so he would not be disturbed because he would need a good night's sleep for shooting the next day.

This is very common for new parents, particularly if one parent is working and the other is stay-at-home. Obviously you are not married and lack a child if you don't know this, or you very much know this but disregard it as it doesn't fit your narrative. I just have to laugh at your audacity for making up words in Abhishek's mouth when he said something else completely.

You also said Aishwarya never let Amitabh hold the baby. There were entire articles about how when the family left the hospital after the birth, it was Amitabh walking out holding Aaradhya. Not Aish or Abhishek.

https://bollyspice.com/abhishek-bachchan-i-hope-beti-b-realizes-the-joy-she-has-brought-with-her/

In a wonderful tradition, Amitabh was the one to carry the baby from the hospital, “Carried her from the hospital as per tradition. My Father carried her father home”.

You can also see hear that Abhishek admitted it took him a while to get used to being considered a father as part of his identity.

At the press conference he said, “I’m still getting used to the fact that I’m a father now. I am still getting use to being referred to as dad. Whenever I read in the paper and anyone referred to me as ‘her Pa’ I would think it is my dad whom I call Pa that they were writing about, so yes it is going to take a little for me to get used to being referred as a father because for me there is only one Pa — that is my father. It would take some time for the feeling to sink in, because for me the definition of father is Amitabh Bachchan.”

Mothers will generally always have a closer bond to their child because they gave birth to them. The same reason why some fathers cannot connect to their unborn child until after the birth. It's an actual hormone that mothers get during birth to make them bond. Rani also had an interview where she said she didn't believe in the unconditional love from a mother to her child until she had her own.

Originally posted by: Rangaaa

@bold: Bachchan tag, their family couldn't make Abhishek a superstar. Marrying Aiswarya would make him a superstar. What?

Navya shouldn't have any career aspiration outside hindi cinema.

She should be in hindi film industry. Nepotism, damn if you do damned if you don't.

These fictional writers still exist in IF in 2024.

I can see the Bachchans thinking that. Think of how many star wives are relevant in the industry only because of who they are married to. Gauri has so much power and influence because she's SRK's wife. Similarly, people say Suzanne has no power anymore and is completely irrelevant now that she's left Hrithik.

And think of how Jaya Bachchan was a huge star when Amitabh was not when they got married. Their real life story was the inverse of Abhimaan. She gave up her career and helped him build his, making him a superstar.

Media also likes to capitalize on power couples, especially now with Deepika/Ranveer, Sid/Kiara, Ranbir/Alia, Virat/Anushka, Katrina/Vicky, etc. Many people attack Anushka online, saying she was a nobody actress until she married Virat for fame. Similarly, I saw people saying online that Aish/Abhishek failed to paint themselves as a power couple. They didn't capitalize on the momentum of their wedding, which was also the era when Abhishek had a little stardom.

I personally don't think Navya will ever enter the film industry, not as an actress anyway. Family is still very patriarchal. Abhishek could be launched but not Shweta. Some people say it's because she lacked looks so maybe that was a factor. But now Agastya has been launched but not Navya.

Originally posted by: RaniPreityAish

I can see the Bachchans thinking that. Think of how many star wives are relevant in the industry only because of who they are married to. Gauri has so much power and influence because she's SRK's wife. Similarly, people say Suzanne has no power anymore and is completely irrelevant now that she's left Hrithik.

And think of how Jaya Bachchan was a huge star when Amitabh was not when they got married. Their real life story was the inverse of Abhimaan. She gave up her career and helped him build his, making him a superstar.

Media also likes to capitalize on power couples, especially now with Deepika/Ranveer, Sid/Kiara, Ranbir/Alia, Virat/Anushka, Katrina/Vicky, etc. Many people attack Anushka online, saying she was a nobody actress until she married Virat for fame. Similarly, I saw people saying online that Aish/Abhishek failed to paint themselves as a power couple. They didn't capitalize on the momentum of their wedding, which was also the era when Abhishek had a little stardom.

I personally don't think Navya will ever enter the film industry, not as an actress anyway. Family is still very patriarchal. Abhishek could be launched but not Shweta. Some people say it's because she lacked looks so maybe that was a factor. But now Agastya has been launched but not Navya.

Nobody becomes a superstar by marrying a popular figure. I am sure then 60 year old Bachchans, veterans in the film industry knew this. Their IQ levels are not of teens.

Even before internet, before marrying Aishwarya, Abhishek was criticized as an actor. He is Amitabh Bachchan's son. He would be attacked either way.

Does it ever occur to you that they must not be interested in movie industry?

Navya is interested in business management. Why should she be an actor? Yeh kya zabardasti hai?

So actors/actress kin should be in movies. It's a compulsion. They don't have / shouldn't have any interests in other fields.