Originally posted by: KajalRai21
Hi,
After reading all this I completely agree with you but ofcourse i don't agree with the clothes thing and no don't take it as i am defending Abhira or something no i am not i am speaking as in general.
You mentioned that Abhira was wrong because she wore a dress in which she was not comfortable and went to a party even after being completely aware what's going to happen there. But a person when it comes to feed herself or her family out of helplessness will do anything. Ofcourse there was alternative was available for her she can easily move out of city and can go to Poddar yelling at entire family and telling them their so called fufaji kand which she didn't which was wrong but here I am not talking about Abhira let just say instead of Abhira there was a bar dancer who does this in daily basis do you think that she enjoying her job or doing out of helplessness and even a prostitute enjoy her job. They both are not wrong even though they are not doing the job willingly but to feed there family. When this episode aired i at that time as well stated that even if Abhira went there unwillingly nobody has the right to even touch her without her concent even if the dancer was there the boys was wrong to misbehave there.
And again here i am talking about it as general POV that if she went there wearing something which she is not comfortable the only culprit of the situation was the Armaan friend who misbehaved.
I totally agree that if a girl wear something or do something out of helplessness is wring but that is the sad reality of the world there are situation which force them to do so.
I mean if you have watched Rajkumar Rao trapped he was a pure vegetarian in the movie but to not die of hunger he eat a animal (i won't mention the animal as some people will puke if they read) that is again to survive his condition and Abhira condition was same.
Abhira went there as a dancer to perform that's it the men had no right to misbehave. And it will be disrespect to dancers and prostitute. They do something then also they deserve respect.
Sorry if anything hurt you or i have spoken too much bhavnao main beh gayi but yaa i think i know what and why other people coming to you.
Appreciate your civil response.
Let me make it clear thousand times, it's not at all about those creepy men or anyone. It's about only abhira. It no where means she got teased due to her dressing sense.
You all giving another direction to my point.
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No. Abhira was not in do or die or hungry kind of situation. She herself said she was doing it to get money to renovate her mother's farmhouse.
As u said there are many prostitutes and bar dancers who do it out of helplessness for money. They have their reasons and struggles.
But abhira? Let's say when she was starving on the road, or wanted money for anything she decided do such thing for money. That would have been still understandable.
But when a disgusting man like fufasa calls her , asks her to go to such party by giving certain dress code infront of creepy men only to humiliate her. She agrees to do it. Kind of letting such person win. Is it her core character?
Makers neither show that disgusting person fufasa getting punishment nor they addressed her post party trauma properly. It is them who made a joke out of such situation. The fd defending such problematic track because they got their leads content.
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