The day of accident and where Anuj went wrong - Page 2

Anuj has dug his own grave by marrying Anupama. Will any sane man marry a woman who is a divorcee, a mother of 3 grown up children and who is about to become grand mother to 1? Anuj should not have married Anupama when she was so attached to Shah family. Both Anuj and Anupama are equally responsible for their wedding ending in a divorce. Shah's never let her live peacefully after marrying Anuj. And for every small problem, the Shah's kept calling Anupama. Anupama shamelessly defended her decision to marry Anuj. I agree that Anuj had cared for Anupama. Anupama and Anuj could have chosen to remain as good friends instead of getting married.

And Anupama pampered Samar so much that he also shamelessly supported her decision to marry Anuj and even gave the name #MaAn. When Anupama did not have any feelings for Anuj, why the hell did Samar give the name #MaAn. Anupama and Anuj's wedding was the most hasty, immature and useless wedding that I have ever seen.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Give anuj a slack ok - hes lost everything to anupama

Malvika left to USA because anupama refused to not keep relationship with vanraj who is her abuser and shahs who tried snatching kapadiya empire from her(toshu, vanraj) 

GK kaka left as he understood nowew anuj will give pripority and respect only to shah elders haskumk and leela not him 

Anuj left his self respect and got abused servral times by shahs for anupama sake

His child CA got abused by shahs for anupama sake 

Such a  man when he sees the only family who loves him unconditional CA about to die in car accident and saved last will go insane in anger only 

Anuj knows this anupama will never care for him ever she cares only shahs 

Only CA is his real family for remaining life - if she would have died in accident anuj would be orhan angain no family

Anupama is just name sake family she never care for him 

So his reaction is justified bec of anupama past behaviour and current US behaviour 

As soon as he released her from jai madam made food for baa and reached toshu home who had stolen anuj client jewels 

Last para of yours. Anuj didn’t release Anupama from jail, he went to India to be with Shrew. Yashdeep and his mother got her bailed.

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Anuj has dug his own grave by marrying Anupama. Will any sane man marry a woman who is a divorcee, a mother of 3 grown up children and who is about to become grand mother to 1? Anuj should not have married Anupama when she was so attached to Shah family. Both Anuj and Anupama are equally responsible for their wedding ending in a divorce. Shah's never let her live peacefully after marrying Anuj. And for every small problem, the Shah's kept calling Anupama. Anupama shamelessly defended her decision to marry Anuj. I agree that Anuj had cared for Anupama. Anupama and Anuj could have chosen to remain as good friends instead of getting married.

And Anupama pampered Samar so much that he also shamelessly supported her decision to marry Anuj and even gave the name #MaAn. When Anupama did not have any feelings for Anuj, why the hell did Samar give the name #MaAn. Anupama and Anuj's wedding was the most hasty, immature and useless wedding that I have ever seen.

They are allowed to marry - both mature adults. He wanted to marry her in an extension of his so called puppy love phase. She married him cos she was grateful for his friendship and loyalty in the face of the betrayal she had been through. 

Anuj wanted to keep up that farce of living in that young puppy love phase, he adopts choti, runs away behind Maya, scarce is his so called love for his wife then (if he wanted a kid he could have adopted one without marrying Anupama), she gives up her dream of coming to the U.S.of A. For the sake of choti, yet he blames her for not saving choti first, she leaves, he moves on, gets into a tangled live in relationship with Shrew, this man if he cannot commit long term and cannot stand through thick and thin with his wife, is better off divorcing her. Wait, they are already divorced, he should then not make puppy eyes at her now and stay out of her life and not make it more miserable for her. 

On another note, Anupama is over the top as well, the wailing today got on my nerves. Why not dub some actual American accent over the voices of the cop and the two gun toting villains? It is some weird accent all through, the lady cop in the jail with Anupama, and all of them today, even the ruffians that accost Toshu. All black heads no blondes or brunettes in the school crowd either or at the restaurant today when Anupama ordered Coffee and a muffin. News casters were all Indian too. Is this school in New York or India or in Russia or Uzbekistan given the accents? 

Anupama’s way of speaking English is grating, but okay she doesn’t does the language, what about her Hindi? Why is that so out of sync? Her mother spoke shudh Hindi, Ba does too, Anupama did go to school at least till the 12th grade and apparently was an A student, why then make her speak in a fashion that makes people’s skins scrawl?

I end up taking a break when things are irksome so with the next few episodes of Aadhya threatening suicide and Anupama blaming herself for Shrew’s condition, better to read the synopsis and not watch the actual episodes. 

Who is Lord Sathyanarayan going to listen to? Shrew’s prayer to keep Anupama away from them or Anuj’s prayer of keeping Anupama safe in the competition? Or both of their prayers? Inconsistency thy name is this show. 

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Last para of yours. Anuj didn’t release Anupama from jail, he went to India to be with Shrew. Yashdeep and his mother got her bailed.

Wasn't it shown, Anuj's lawyer got the bail papers and he had instructed on next steps which Yashdeep confirmed with Anuj when they met after he returned?

He left for India because Shruti collapsed and Adhya was alone in the hospital. He came to India only to return the following day and ensured the formalities.

Yashdeep went to take her after she was released since her phemily never cared.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

They are allowed to marry - both mature adults. He wanted to marry her in an extension of his so called puppy love phase. She married him cos she was grateful for his friendship and loyalty in the face of the betrayal she had been through. 

Anuj wanted to keep up that farce of living in that young puppy love phase, he adopts choti, runs away behind Maya, scarce is his so called love for his wife then (if he wanted a kid he could have adopted one without marrying Anupama), she gives up her dream of coming to the U.S.of A. For the sake of choti, yet he blames her for not saving choti first, she leaves, he moves on, gets into a tangled live in relationship with Shrew, this man if he cannot commit long term and cannot stand through thick and thin with his wife, is better off divorcing her. Wait, they are already divorced, he should then not make puppy eyes at her now and stay out of her life and not make it more miserable for her. 

On another note, Anupama is over the top as well, the wailing today got on my nerves. Why not dub some actual American accent over the voices of the cop and the two gun toting villains? It is some weird accent all through, the lady cop in the jail with Anupama, and all of them today, even the ruffians that accost Toshu. All black heads no blondes or brunettes in the school crowd either or at the restaurant today when Anupama ordered Coffee and a muffin. News casters were all Indian too. Is this school in New York or India or in Russia or Uzbekistan given the accents? 

Anupama’s way of speaking English is grating, but okay she doesn’t does the language, what about her Hindi? Why is that so out of sync? Her mother spoke shudh Hindi, Ba does too, Anupama did go to school at least till the 12th grade and apparently was an A student, why then make her speak in a fashion that makes people’s skins scrawl?

I end up taking a break when things are irksome so with the next few episodes of Aadhya threatening suicide and Anupama blaming herself for Shrew’s condition, better to read the synopsis and not watch the actual episodes. 

Who is Lord Sathyanarayan going to listen to? Shrew’s prayer to keep Anupama away from them or Anuj’s prayer of keeping Anupama safe in the competition? Or both of their prayers? Inconsistency thy name is this show. 

If Anuj had really loved Anupama, why did he wait for 26 long years? Why did he not confess his feelings for Anupama? Agreed that Anupama is a shy girl and shy to reciprocate but Anuj should have expressed his feelings for Anupama in front of Kanta Ben (Anupama's mother). 

Had Anupama married Anuj instead of Forest King (Vanraj) before itself, Anuj would have funded Anupama's education as he is a rich business man. And after completing her education, Anuj would have encouraged Anupama to pursue a career in a different field (Other than dance) or Anuj would have opened Anupama Dance Academy and would have encouraged her to pursue her career in dance by becoming a dance teacher. But after 26 years due to the following factors, the timing of Anupama Anuj's wedding was horribly wrong.

01. Divorcing her cheater husband whom she worshipped blindly.

02. Mother of 3 kids with cheater husband (2 of them are spoilt brats)

03. About to become grand mother of 1.

04. Adopting CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage.

Anuj's hasty decision to marry Anupama inspite of the latter inspite of the above factors meant that Anupama and Anuj's wedding ended in a divorce after 3 years.

If Anuj had really loved Anupama, why did he wait for 26 long years? Why did he not confess his feelings for Anupama? Agreed that Anupama is a shy girl and shy to reciprocate but Anuj should have expressed his feelings for Anupama in front of Kanta Ben (Anupama's mother). 

Had Anupama married Anuj instead of Forest King (Vanraj) before itself, Anuj would have funded Anupama's education as he is a rich business man. And after completing her education, Anuj would have encouraged Anupama to pursue a career in a different field (Other than dance) or Anuj would have opened Anupama Dance Academy and would have encouraged her to pursue a career in dance by becoming a dance teacher. But after 26 years due to the following factors, the timing of Anupama Anuj's wedding was horribly wrong.

01. Divorcing her cheater husband whom she worshipped blindly.

02. Mother of 3 kids with cheater husband (2 of them are spoilt brats)

03. About to become grand mother of 1.

04. Adopting CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage.

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

If Anuj had really loved Anupama, why did he wait for 26 long years? Why did he not confess his feelings for Anupama? Agreed that Anupama is a shy girl and shy to reciprocate but Anuj should have expressed his feelings for Anupama in front of Kanta Ben (Anupama's mother). 

Had Anupama married Anuj instead of Forest King (Vanraj) before itself, Anuj would have funded Anupama's education as he is a rich business man. And after completing her education, Anuj would have encouraged Anupama to pursue a career in a different field (Other than dance) or Anuj would have opened Anupama Dance Academy and would have encouraged her to pursue her career in dance by becoming a dance teacher. But after 26 years due to the following factors, the timing of Anupama Anuj's wedding was horribly wrong.

01. Divorcing her cheater husband whom she worshipped blindly.

02. Mother of 3 kids with cheater husband (2 of them are spoilt brats)

03. About to become grand mother of 1.

04. Adopting CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage.

Anuj's hasty decision to marry Anupama inspite of the latter having the above baggages meant that Anupama and Anuj's wedding ended in a divorce after 3 years.

Yes Anuj was wrong accusing Anupama just after she survived an accident- period

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

If Anuj had really loved Anupama, why did he wait for 26 long years? Why did he not confess his feelings for Anupama? Agreed that Anupama is a shy girl and shy to reciprocate but Anuj should have expressed his feelings for Anupama in front of Kanta Ben (Anupama's mother). 

Had Anupama married Anuj instead of Forest King (Vanraj) before itself, Anuj would have funded Anupama's education as he is a rich business man. And after completing her education, Anuj would have encouraged Anupama to pursue a career in a different field (Other than dance) or Anuj would have opened Anupama Dance Academy and would have encouraged her to pursue a career in dance by becoming a dance teacher. But after 26 years due to the following factors, the timing of Anupama Anuj's wedding was horribly wrong.

01. Divorcing her cheater husband whom she worshipped blindly.

02. Mother of 3 kids with cheater husband (2 of them are spoilt brats)

03. About to become grand mother of 1.

04. Adopting CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage.

Yes Anuj did rush for adoption he should have been clear to anupama on what he wants tand what expectations he has to anupama 

Originally posted by: Muskie

Yes Anuj was wrong accusing Anupama just after she survived an accident- period

Yes, but should one do when Anupama keeps on inviting accidents on herself like every few months. Earlier she ran like mad on the road and Maya was killed saving her. Then Anuj supported Anupama ki nhi tumhari Galti nhi thi. Again she ran like Mad during this school shoot out episode. And there were so many instances jab Durga Maa aajti hai ismein and she becomes chandi inviting danger like when she reached at restaurant to capture Samar murderer without any safety and Anuj ran to get police to save her. Her baar Anuj supported her. This time after shootout when Shruti is shot he is supporting her. When will this lady accept that she is not God but a human being and stay in her limits? Kabhi to insaan ko ghussa aayega. Kabhi to koi isse sunayega.