The day of accident and where Anuj went wrong - Page 4

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

This pathetic Bapuji, good for nothing Samar and useless Devika had forced Anupama to marry Anuj. Anupama and Anuj should not have got married. When Samar had very well knew that Anuj is just a good friend to Anupama why did he ignite that feelings in Anupama for Anuj? Samar should have explored other career options which would have given him good salary instead of getting obsessed with dance. Samar should have minded his own business rather than igniting feelings in Anupama for Anuj. Anupama and Anuj's wedding was most immature, useless and pathetic wedding.

the original samar even though got them married had warned Anupamaa multiple times to focus on Anuj & her new marraige,the second Samar was useless .Well u can only take the horse to the pond,right?

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

the original samar even though got them married had warned Anupamaa multiple times to focus on Anuj & her new marraige,the second Samar was useless .Well u can only take the horse to the pond,right?

When Samar knew that Anupama had wanted Anuj to be only as a good friend to her, why did he ignite feelings for Anuj in Anupama? Samar ignored career options which would have given him good salary. Samar had turned a holy and sacred bonding like wedding to a joke by getting Anupama and Anuj married. Anupama should have slapped Samar straight away and asked him to mind his own business.

anupama wanted to control the shah house even after her divorce , in one of the earlier episodes where the ravanraj upma divorce under process she said one dialogue "divorce ke baad apni maa ke ghar mein hoongi lekin saare ghar ke banaye paapad, achar, masale sab kuch bhej doongi baa babuji ke liye khana main hi banakar doongi " agar shah house ka peecha nahin chhodna hai, toh divorce kyun kiya she wanted to be their bahu even after the divorce,she was not ready to leave vanraj and shah family it was just an eye wash anuj was only a convenient ATM to fund the bhikari shahs anupama is worst cheater than vanraj usmein kum se kum himmat toh hai that he was seeing kavya par ye toh dhongi ashram ke swami ji ki tarah apne aap ko bahot pavitra divine project kar rahi hai neech aurat

Originally posted by: lesh85

anupama wanted to control the shah house even after her divorce , in one of the earlier episodes where the ravanraj upma divorce under process she said one dialogue "divorce ke baad apni maa ke ghar mein hoongi lekin saare ghar ke banaye paapad, achar, masale sab kuch bhej doongi baa babuji ke liye khana main hi banakar doongi " agar shah house ka peecha nahin chhodna hai, toh divorce kyun kiya she wanted to be their bahu even after the divorce,she was not ready to leave vanraj and shah family it was just an eye wash anuj was only a convenient ATM to fund the bhikari shahs anupama is worst cheater than vanraj usmein kum se kum himmat toh hai ye accept kar ne ke liye that he was seeing kavya par ye toh dhongi ashram ke swami ji ki tarah apne aap ko bahot pavitra divine project kar rahi hai neech aurat

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Originally posted by: prachetas2211

When Samar knew that Anupama had wanted Anuj to be only as a good friend to her, why did he ignite feelings for Anuj in Anupama? Samar ignored career options which would have given him good salary. Samar had turned a holy and sacred bonding like wedding to a joke by getting Anupama and Anuj married. Anupama should have slapped Samar straight away and asked him to mind his own business.

slap him for what?for wanting his mom to finally get the love which Vanraj couldn't give her for 25 years?Poor lad just wanted his mom to be happy,have a good husband who takes care of her & fulfill all her wishes which she couldn't previously do and when did he tell her to not pursue her career?If Anupamaa didn't do anything great with her career then it's on her and he didn't force her to marry Anuj,it was her own decision,so why blame others for her wrong doings!Whatever blunder she did with her career and second marriage is on her,if she had used her brain she shouldn't be where she is!!

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

slap him for what?for wanting his mom to finally get the love which Vanraj couldn't give her for 25 years?Poor lad just wanted his mom to be happy,have a good husband who takes care of her & fulfill all her wishes which she couldn't previously do and when did he tell her to not pursue her career?If Anupamaa didn't do anything great with her career then it's on her and he didn't force her to marry Anuj,it was her own decision,so why blame others for her wrong doings!Whatever blunder she did with her career and second marriage is on her,if she had used her brain she shouldn't be where she is!!

Anupama and Anuj could have been better off as good friends. This serial has made a sacred and holy bonding like wedding a joke by getting Anupama married to Anuj. Anuj was a fool to have ignored all the red flags and marry Anupama. Which sane human being will marry a woman who is a divorcee, a mother of 3 children and about to become grand mother to 1? 26 years of love. My foot. It is impossible to tolerate Anupama even for a minute. I agree that Anupama should be happy. That does not mean she should take a hasty decision to marry Anuj. A woman who has children from her previous wedding should not marry. And after marrying Anupama what did Anuj get? Nothing but insults and abuses from Baa, Forest King and Toshu. And the shameless Anupama stands muted to the humiliation of her 2nd husband. The blood of any woman will boil when she sees her husband being humiliated like that. Anuj and Anupama should not have got married. After getting married Anupama treated Anuj like a door mat and nothing else. Anupama has ruined Anuj's life by marrying him.

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Anupama and Anuj could have been better off as good friends. This serial has made a sacred and holy bonding like wedding a joke by getting Anupama married to Anuj. Anuj was a fool to have ignored all the red flags and marry Anupama. Which sane human being will marry a woman who is a divorcee, a mother of 3 children and about to become grand mother to 1? 26 years of love. My foot. It is impossible to tolerate Anupama even for a minute. I agree that Anupama should be happy. That does not mean she should take a hasty decision to marry Anuj. A woman who has children from her previous wedding should not marry. And after marrying Anupama what did Anuj get? Nothing but insults and abuses from Baa, Forest King and Toshu. And the shameless Anupama stands muted to the humiliation of her 2nd husband. The blood of any woman will boil when she sees her husband being humiliated like that. Anuj and Anupama should not have got married. After getting married Anupama treated Anuj like a door mat and nothing else. Anupama has ruined Anuj's life by marrying him.

Anupamaa has a thousand flaws but her being a mother to 3 children and a grandmother is definitely not one of them,and saying a women with children shouldn't remarry?I'm sorry but this the 21st century and if your saying this based on your judgment of a fictional character, I'm sorry your taking this show too seriously.And it was Anuj who was relentless to marry Anupamaa,he knew she was obsessed with Shahs and still got into the mess,if anything it is on him for living such a miserable life.

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

Anupamaa has a thousand flaws but her being a mother to 3 children and a grandmother is definitely not one of them,and saying a women with children shouldn't remarry?I'm sorry but this the 21st century and if your saying this based on your judgment of a fictional character, I'm sorry your taking this show too seriously.And it was Anuj who was relentless to marry Anupamaa,he knew she was obsessed with Shahs and still got into the mess,if anything it is on him for living such a miserable life.

Anupama and Anuj's wedding had turned into a catostrophical disaster thanks to Anuj's foolish decision to marry Anupama. When he knew that Anupama was so attached to the toxic Shah's why did he not give her sufficient time to think over her decision to marry him? Anuj literally pushed Anupama into marrying him. Anuj knew very well that he was going to face abuses, insults from the toxic Shah's when he wanted to marry Anupama. Anuj had set up his own company in the US. Why did he not ask GK to find a suitable girl for him who is well educated, who was really caring for him and who has a good job. Both Anuj and Anupama are equally responsible for their wedding turning into a catostrophical disaster after 3 years.

Now we saw that it was Anuj who was more attached to the Shah's. Otherwise why will he bail out Forest King's darling son Toshu who had caused fraud in his company with the goons? Anuj offering a job to Toshu is like inviting him to commit more fraud in his company. And we saw how Toshu shamelessly charged Anupama for the theft of most expensive necklace from Anuj's event. And when Anupama puts Toshu in prison for his henious crime, he shamelessly gets Forest King's darling son released from jail inviting the wrath of Anupama.

And he invites the Shah family who had insulted, abused and manhandled him so many times to his sangeet with Sruthi. Anupama has no self respect. She shamelessly attends her ex husbands sangeet with Sruthi, even cooking in his sangeet. Anupama in fact should get more hatred from Aadhya as she had left her. In fact it was Anupama who had turned a well educated girl like Kinjal to Anupama 2.0. Not satisfied with that she turns Kinjal as an enemy to her mother Rakhi ji.

Anupama is the worst and disgrace to womahhood and humanbeing wo insaan kehlaane ke laayak nahin hai, do tareeke ke log hote hain ek jo zulm karte hai doorse jo zulm sehkar zulm aur zulmiyon ko badhawa dete hain, anupama 2nd category ki hai jisne first category ke zulmiyon aur kameene shahs ki har gandi aur neech karkat ko cover up kiya aur use encourage kiya, she is a bad omen jo kabhi kisi ka achha nahin soch sakti wo sirf baa jaisi chudail aur vanraj pakhi toshu jaisa jaanwar aur kinjal aur dukhmukh jo mooh mein raam bhagal mein chhoori ka kaam karte hai, bus inhi logon aur inki kartooton ko encourage kiya hai, the worst criminal above all is one andonly anupama jisne achhe logon ke never ending anyaay kiya hai, thats why she is suffering and her suffering is never coming to an end

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

Anupamaa has a thousand flaws but her being a mother to 3 children and a grandmother is definitely not one of them,and saying a women with children shouldn't remarry?I'm sorry but this the 21st century and if your saying this based on your judgment of a fictional character, I'm sorry your taking this show too seriously.And it was Anuj who was relentless to marry Anupamaa,he knew she was obsessed with Shahs and still got into the mess,if anything it is on him for living such a miserable life.

I agree that Samar had always supported Anupama no matter what. Samar should have urged her to think about it (The decision to marry Anuj) twice. Anuj had married Anupama who was always attached to the toxic Shah's even after her divorce. Anuj created this mess for himself. I would blame Anuj for his hasty decision to marry Anupama. Anuj should have given Anupama some more time to think about her decision to marry him. Because if you take hasty decisions when it comes to a sacred and holy bond like wedding, you or for that matter any 1 will suffer. And you saw the final result Anuj and Anupama's wedding was a catastrophical disaster leading to divorce after 3 years.