What significant lesson did you learn from a Pakistani Drama? - Page 4

@ grey ..not that old just 42 years young...😉 (technically aunty) lol ...now almost 21 years happily married...
that is why ...i am speaking from an experience .. who ever says that they dont want to do the dirty the first night , they r dammn liars and hypocrite... i can say that because i am not shy or have nothing to hide...nor anyone to impress with my pure mind... haha
there is nothing wrong with feeling that way. its human nature and most of us never felt that way about opposite sex pre marriage so naturally you want to feel the closest to someone you love and will have whole lives to gather to live. it is giving most cherish gift to each other is your self with lots of love and high hopes for bright future. its exiting and is a good feeling not necessarily lust.

Originally posted by: -shabz-

Cimba, I think everyone goes out before arranged marriage IMO or if parents are strict then they chat on phones.

Originally posted by: cimba

@ grey ..not that old just 42 years young...😉 (technically aunty) lol ...now almost 21 years happily married...
that is why ...i am speaking from an experience .. who ever says that they dont want to do the dirty the first night , they r dammn liars and hypocrite... i can say that because i am not shy or have nothing to hide...nor anyone to impress with my pure mind... haha
there is nothing wrong with feeling that way. its human nature and most of us never felt that way about opposite sex pre marriage so naturally you want to feel the closest to someone you love and will have whole lives to gather to live. it is giving most cherish gift to each other is your self with lots of love and high hopes for bright future. its exiting and is a good feeling not necessarily lust.

I forgot to mention the main thing I learned is NASHTA. Seriously I am feeding everyone good breakfast since started watching TV shows. Another thing , sipping more tea personally. It's crazy but they show charactes eating and drinking tea so much that now every time there's a tea time on TV , I feel like getting a cup myself. I am not making no paratha but definitely things have gotten better than milk and serial days for kids. Hope not over doing it and making them fat. Lol

Guys, don't talk disparaging about people who go to dargahs and all... It's not on us to decide if it's unislamic or not...

Originally posted by: -shabz-

Good Topic, I dont learn anything as I know it all, been there done that kinda thing😆...

Here is what You should not learn from it

1. Not everyone marries their cousins or falls in love with them.
2. All men do not have multiple wives.
3. Jahaiz is not demanded, its upto the parents khushi, its just tradition now.
4. men do dont hold hands and make promises on wedding night, They usually jump on the bride the first chance they get😆, holding hands=kissing, yaad rakhna next time you see it.
5. Going to a Dargah is not part of Islam, it actually take you out of the folds of Islam, but sadly its very common for Pakistanis with weak Iman to go to fortune tellers and Dargahs.

I will add more when I remember.

I am happy that paki drama"s don't show elaborated wedding nights as well. These days India drams have gone beyond half way x rated with that. I remember one in particular where Ram Kapoor"s drama was unrolling sari and all. OMG cant watch that with any family members around you. Another where guy has bindi n his back after the wedding night on the roof top... comes down wearing no clothes and that was also disgusting to watch with family around...
I do appreciate not making a big deal of the wedding night on TV for sure.

Originally posted by: Arwen.

Guys, don't talk disparaging about people who go to dargahs and all... It's not on us to decide if it's unislamic or not...

The way i see it, many of these saints(for lack of a better word) were instrumental in the spread of Islam here in subcontinent... So nothing wrong in celebrating there lives or whatever...

Majority of Dargah going people go there and raise there hands up and ask dua's, In islam you only ask God, that buzurgh needs dua, he cannot fulfil any ones wishes, he was a Human. Associating Partners with God is Shirk, and when people make that buzurgh equal to the ranks of God that is shirk. Only God knows the unseen and no one grants wishes other than God.

Loved your post
I have learnt making dough n rotis n azaan ki dua.
Learnt patience n fashion designing for my dresses as I see some Kurtis they are wearing I sketch it on my note book. Reading books. As I m watching Pakistan dramas from childhood so I learned many things don't remember.