What significant lesson did you learn from a Pakistani Drama? - Page 3

Originally posted by: cimba

Shbz is on the point with #4
all men and i mean all...jump on the wife on the wedding night and if he doesnt wife will be highly annoyed/disappointed. More or less girls want the same. No one thinks of any hand holding to making promises . That is for all the dramas.lol

serious note on lesson
If you dont value your self and dont raise voice for your own advocacy , no one will. very imp to know self value , pride and teach that to children. trust is very important in relation.

Alhamdullilah no one from my family has had two wives. And I agree with the Dargah part, and I also don't believe in all this superstition crap that some people have supposedly added in the dramas because whatever happens is in Allah's hands. Although dramas that portray black magic are to an extent correct in some of the things that happen in reality some of the things that they showed were probably some of the things my 2nd/3rd cousins mother's had done but going to their "Pir" who are very into black magic which is wrong.

@shabz on the 4th part...🤣 actually in my case, that's not always the case because I personally have asked a few people in private ( i.e. girls I mean) and I think nothing actually happens on the wedding night as much because I think the wife husband just spend time talking to each other, because I know someone who spoke about it and said nothing to do because in case she had a chance of getting pregnant LOL..😆 and trust me I think some girls are not always ready for these kind of things in my case. Oh gosh I just a bit too much oh well :P

I haven't learnt anything, some instances are relatable I just watch dramas for the acting and good subject and how actors bring it all to life.

About point number 4, I know there are civilized couples out there, who hold hands and make promises😉...but please even the most civilized couples who talk all night do not only resort to talking, there is light flirting, touching, pecking going on...its just not normal to sit miles apart.

Originally posted by: -shabz-

About point number 4, I know there are civilized couples out there, who hold hands and make promises😉...but please even the most civilized couples who talk all night do not only resort to talking, there is light flirting, touching, pecking going on...its just not normal to sit miles apart.

So whoever told you guys that they did nothing only talked all night is telling you A BIG FAT LIE😆.

😆 You are a 100% accurate here, there is always some physicality, it's only natural that instinct just comes into play for all of us. This whole civilised thing doesn't fit into the scenario, sex is a natural urge it's not uncivilised behaviour it's an expression of affection. Who'd waste the whole night just doing pyar ki baatein lol. Except this one guy I knew after his first night of marriage we teased him, and he said he didn't adorn the lonely bed with her out of respect for her, he didn't want people to get the wrong impression, ajooba 😆

Originally posted by: Gujar

😆 You are a 100% accurate here, there is always some physicality, it's only natural that instinct just comes into play for all of us. This whole civilised thing doesn't fit into the scenario, sex is a natural urge it's not uncivilised behaviour it's an expression of affection. Who'd waste the whole night just doing pyar ki baatein lol. Except this one guy I knew after his first night of marriage we teased him, and he said he didn't adorn the lonely bed with her out of respect for her, he didn't want people to get the wrong impression, ajooba 😆

^ exactly, its natural, when boy friends cant keep their hands to themselves on dates to woh to phir legal wife hai😆,us say kya sharmana

now clarify one thing ...
in arrange marriages.. me an indian 20 years ago was allowed to go out before marriage and after the engagement. dont they do that in Pakistan? i am sure in that case enough of chit chat happened during the outings..?? what is wrong with jumping in the bed ... i mean really that does not equal to uncivilized..then again most of the indians go out and are very much comfortable with their significant other by the wedding day.
If couple does not go out then its a diff story...
dil mein gubbare phut teh hain... kya hoga but tv has limitations.

Originally posted by: cimba

now clarify one thing ...
in arrange marriages.. me an indian 20 years ago was allowed to go out before marriage and after the engagement. dont they do that in Pakistan? i am sure in that case enough of chit chat happened during the outings..?? what is wrong with jumping in the bed ... i mean really that does not equal to uncivilized..then again most of the indians go out and are very much comfortable with their significant other by the wedding day.
If couple does not go out then its a diff story...
dil mein gubbare phut teh hain... kya hoga but tv has limitations.

sorry off topic...but just wanted to know omg u r married for 20 years!! It doesn't feel like that at all..wow :) urs and my tastes match a lot in case of liking dramas..

Cimba, I think everyone goes out before arranged marriage IMO or if parents are strict then they chat on phones.