Originally posted by: nightingale1234
How is Rubab not responsible for Adeel's parents? They’re a couple now, and just as Adeel has responsibilities towards his parents, Rubab also shares that responsibility as his partner. Similarly, if Rubab's parents need Adeel in the future, it's his duty to be there for them as well. A relationship is a two-way street, never one-sided. If I expect my partner to accept my family, I must do the same for his.
While I understand that Rubab hasn't lived with or interacted much with Adeel's parents to form a judgment, when you know there’s a serious situation—like Adeel's father having a heart attack and possibly being on his deathbed—how could she be so heartless as to disconnect the call and ensure Adeel remains unaware, just to avoid canceling their Maldives trip? That kind of behavior is simply unacceptable and incredibly cruel.
I do not think a spouse is responsible for the in laws in any way, if any daughter in law sacrifices to take care of her in laws, that's solely out of love and kindness, there is no religious command on educational constitution that says that spouses have to take responsibility of their respective in laws. Societal pressure and criticism is a different debate, but Rubab not taking responsibility of Adeel's parents is not her fault, her fault is to be unkind and treat him like a middle class slave while he actually abandoned his parents, broke his marriage and came to her. Adeel is the one guilty here, he went with Rubab to get her name and fame and money, abandoned his parents, mistreats his brother, mistreated Sharjeena, he deserves a redemption arc good enough, and I hope we will have one soon.
Rubab is vile and unkind, selfish and mean, but that is how she is supposed to be.
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