Originally posted by: Adiandsid
Donon ka marital status is 'its complicated' and guess the writers want to keep it so, for as long as possible.
Ammu hasn't accepted the forced marriage for sure, but she does consider herself to be his wife. Probably in her mind her 'marriage' is in friendship phase which can turn out to be love later on, but not yet. But before it can turn into some serious relationship guess she will want things to be settled - say, wedding with proper rituals etc. She had mentioned to him 'It was you who wanted to figure out what's b/w i and u... I just waited'. [They / she has been silent on 'waited for what'?] (so... dialogue achcha tha... but exactly kyu bola samajh me nahi aaya.)
Ab woh ye kyu kar rahi hai with the background of mela wedding... I have no idea, and wont go into a rant about it. Dildaar ko bohot appropriate dialogues dete hein ye log... one was his 'kya farak padta hai?' and the other one relevant here is 'Amruta se shaadi karne ka tera decision sahi tha... lekin tareeka galat'. Seems like this is where she is, even though it was not her decision - I guess she wouldn't have minded it if he had married her in a better way.
Virat i guess is more aware about his big goof up esp after the shame he experienced after Nimmi incident. He is more into understanding feeling etc. Ammu seems to be approaching their situation / marriage as a 'commitment' she is willing to honour and is already doing it... but he will have 'lekin shaadi ke liye pyaar hona to jaroori hai' angle to it... and is also shown honouring it in some ways.
So for him 'love' hasn't clicked along with the now awkwardness of how he married, and for her the pain of the wedding - which she seems to have shunted out because it was traumatic - [God her response to it was so very underwhelming as with the characters' reaction to Babs' truth... but... but... I dont want to rant.]
Wanted to explore the annulment thing, never got to it. So going from what I remember. He wanted to apologise (because he was feeling ashamed... and I'd say not guilty... debatable)... when he talked about apologising, she mentioned ~ 'apno se apologise karne ki jaroorat nahi hai'... and he asks ~ 'aur apna nahi ho to?' At least at that she wasn't his 'apna' despite all the dialogues about 'meri biwi' etc. For her, he is her 'apna' but the forced wedding doesn't make her accept it wholeheartedly.
[Though he doesnt say it overtly, I wont be surprised if 'status' and 'level' thing also forms an obstacle... I may be wrong in this angle... But his relationship with her is like his relationship with Shekhar - bolne ko dost hai... but is he? .. something similar here... bolne ko wife hai... but.. is she? ]
[Phew... Is se easy toh bachpan me chemical equilibrium samajhna tha.]
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