I want to ask something from you guys.. I have read many comments regarding Arnav that they wanted redemption track for Arnav but that never happened.. I am unable to understand what more redemtipn they wanted? What do they mean by this? Because once Arnav realised his love for Khushi, he completely changed into a different man altogether for her.. Also, what further redemptionthey wanted ..that ultimately in the end…he trusted khushi, regarding shyam, without any proof… During kidnapping track, even before they met…and he saw her risking her life for him…the first scene…they showed of Arnav, during kidnapping, he was shown regetting his behavior, with Khushi, that how she came at the airport and explained to him and how he treated her…he had already believed her by then… infact during airport scene his heart had realised.. later, when all the drama happened, atRaizada house, afterArnav khushi came back , there were so manythings going against Khushi, esp Maami had heard khushi ..asking ashyam to divorce Anjali, and khushi had no proof for her innocence,, but still he believed his heart.. infact even if we say thAt he thew shyam out of the house, more for khushi, rather than Anjali..it wouldnt be wrong.. because if all that had not happened…and shyam had not charactr assasinated Khushi, he wouldnt have thrown him out of house, as he atleast already knew of shyam’s unfaithfulness, and he was already tolerating him for months, for Anjali because of her pregnancy.. Infact, during this whole scene, when he saw Anjali condition, he said we will discuss all this latr.. still didnt throw him out.. only when he charactr assasinated khushi, he threw him out…Also, he still didnt doubt khushi, when she brought back shyam without even informingArnav, which was sooo stupid of her..yes..he got mad at her, but didnt doubt her …
Then he always stood up for khushi…esp in front of his daadi.. never let daadi or anyone disrespect her.. ..and ofcourse..when they finally get married.. it was huge redemption for him..considering he was always traumatised by his past, and to get to know khushi’s maasi was the other woman in his mom’s life and to get over that.. was huge.. it was biggest redemption…for him ,,in my eyes.. that it happened on his wedding noght…and he had very less time to think all about it and still come to the conclusion and marry her..was big …Plus..he became a completely changed man later.. changed his whole personality for her.. Man who would never say sorry..became more compassionate and empathetic generally and especially for her..would say say sorry to her and manaofy her, even if he wasnt at fault..like his birthday.. he also said sorry to her for all he did earlier..just before their shagun….So what do people actually mean by redemption track for Arnav? I am really curious to know
Also mostly whenevr IPKKND is discussed..esp on forums like reddit.. ppl say how Arnav khushi relation was toxic.. and khushi was spineless, who tolerated shit from him… yes.. I agree initially Arnav was toxic, when he was in denial phase..he was really mean, rude and toxic…but even then khushi almost always gave him back…i dont think khushi was spineless….…. once he realised his feelings, he had mellowed down a lot.. Infact even during forced marriage..thee were moments where he was rude to her, but on most instances, was still soft to her, and wasnt as rude/mean as he was shown in the begining of show… for a person like Arnav who doted his di, and to think khushi was having affair with shyam, he was still lot less mean, considering his past personality…but esp during and post kidnapping..we can never say he was toxic or abusive…..by the end of show..he was totally a changed man..so why do people say their relation was toxic? Atleast post kidnapping, as I said, he always stood up for her, and wasnt a toxic husband at all… Infact ….I would say he became a green forest…eventually….
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