Heartbreaking episode... neither Sai nor Virat is wrong... - Page 4

Originally posted by: msin

Beautifully expressed but I feel a big jolt is needed for them to come out of this jalebi trap .. just like Sai’s outburst against pakhi virat was needed .. another big one from virat us needed .. if Sai is not getting that virat cares for her like a husband..

Today’s one also had a jhatka I think. She had to know that he wouldn’t look behind. I am yet to watch the scene. But I hope that what he said makes her understand that she shouldn’t leave and would lose him once and for all if she plans to. Also, it was a good indication, conveys that Pakhi also doesn’t mean anything to him now. It also means that he is not looking behind his past “Pakhi” too at the moment.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

This was the best part of the episode. Sai as usual saying I will leave and Virat clearly telling her she needs to stop saying this and he doesn't like it. I also liked Virat telling Sai he will never meet her if she leaves him. Atleast he cleared it that he doesn't want her to leave. Hopefully it registered in her brain. Somehow like Virat said none of these register in her brain except for the deal part since it already full with the Vaadas and deals handed out by Vaada boy during the wedding 😂

She looked quite shocked and terrified at his words. For some reason, I feel as if something clicked in her mind today...at least about Virat not wanting her to leave.

Originally posted by: tptwi

You know, for once, I felt as if the inconsistency within Sai, no matter how hard it was to understand, actually captured the state of her mind in an ironically clear way. I don't know if the makers intended to do this or not (probably not given their laziness), but it really did show how confused Sai is between Virat's actions and his (lack) of words/the vaada in the background.

I have felt that always. I was talking about it in today’s episode about what Rdigest had commented. Those inconsistencies were to show the battle within her between her heart and brain.

Will confirm what is it that Sai was trying to do today after I watch. The episode doesn’t get uploaded in hotstar until 6pm my time which is 14 hours from now 😞. I had started to watch it in a website where it gets uploaded. I wait for them to upload for me to watch.

Originally posted by: laksh

Today’s one also had a jhatka I think. She had to know that he wouldn’t look behind. I am yet to watch the scene. But I hope that what he said makes her understand that she shouldn’t leave and would lose him once and for all if she plans to. Also, it was a good indication, conveys that Pakhi also doesn’t mean anything to him now. It also means that he is not looking behind his past “Pakhi” too at the moment.

I agree with both of you. Msin- I agree that some sort of jhatka is needed. My dream scene is for Sai to push Virat to collapse and yell that this marriage is real. What I wouldn't give to see that fight. Anyways, we are not getting it...so I'm going to make do with what Vanku gives us.

And, I completely agree with you about Virat telling Sai he never looks back being a jhatka. Had she been in the state to comprehend the true meaning of his words, she would have understood that this is yet another way of Virat saying that Pakhi is now irrelevant to him. But, the harshness with which he said those words really seemed to have made something in Sai click. She looked extremely shocked and horrified. It was as if she finally understood that he wasn't just trying to stop Sai from leaving because of some zimidari. It actually made him furious... he himself does not want her to leave because he cannot bear the thought. I wish they could have shown us some internal monologue or dialogue from Sai afterwards, but the silence also spoke volumes. Sai always has a response to everything, and this time, she was silent...as if she finally understood.

You broke my heart with this🥺

The episode is going to break it even more then😭

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Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

You broke my heart with this🥺

The episode is going to break it even more then😭

❤️❤️❤️

I am in the minority here, but I truly loved the episode 💔

It is hightime they show monologue of SaI Reg this episode. We all know by now how Virat completely moved ahead from his past. But Sai’s exact thoughts and confusions should be conveyed to viewers otherwise she will be the target of criticism for being insensitive and harsh . We have many monologues of Virat but hardly they gave any for Sai. Looking forward to hear her inner voice.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Thank you for your responses! I really loved reading your take.

You have written that it basically does not make sense that Sai would be falling in love with her husband, since she clearly rejected his gesture. But, I wanted to flesh out my thoughts a little more regarding this. It also relates to your point about Sai's inner monologue about the ring being for Pakhi if it was one of a husband-wife's love.

I think that there is a lot to be Sai about the numerous times that she has said she does not understand Virat. This is because she can see that he is treating her more than just a zimidari. His actions are showing her just how deeply he cares for her... and not just in this birthday track. But, in the back of her mind, is the vaada. So, every time she starts to acknowledge the reality of this relationship, she backtracks, thinking that it cannot be real...that she must be making stuff up...thinking wrongly. I might be in the minority here, but when she asked Virat about the ring today, it is almost as if she wanted him to say that it was between a husband and a wife...and the reason I think this was her reaction afterwards. She scolded herself, saying she was dumb for thinking otherwise. Because, a part of her did think otherwise. This was the same thing that happened during the college-fest fight. You could see the desperation in her eyes when she asked Virat what he is to her. This is the tragedy of the point they are at today...they both are going in circles. Virat is unable to understand that what Sai needs is not a confession, but an assurance in words that this marriage is real so that she can give herself permission to accept her own feelings and his. And upon seeing Sai's confusion, which is not able to clearly state, he gets scared of losing her, so decides to take the easy way out instead.

@bold this pretty much sums up their relationship at the moment.

@bold - nope looks like the way I wrote was confusing. Definitely not. I feel we need more scenes from sais perspective to understand why she was shutting off Virat in today's episode considering her care and liking for Virat. The only thing I could think was Sai might be going through so many emotions with Virats care, concern, jealousy that she doesn't want to hear more about his feelings which she may not be able to handle or answer at the moment. Coming back to today's episode

In the ring scene she did not even let Virat utter a word beyond no this is not a birthday gift. She clearly said if this is a gift a husband gives a wife as a token of love I cannot accept it. Virat was so terrified he just said what else could it be other than a birthday gift. Sai registered this part of the conversation but not the earlier part where he said it's not a birthday gift. The next moment she says why would you give it to me for anything bother than birthday, you would give it to p.

I don't say what Virat said during the wedding is correct that was the stupidest thing ever but sai not letting him talk is not going to help either of them. Anything which virat says seriously she pretty much laughs it off. So unless Sai realizes her feelings i don't see her valuing or registering any of Virats words related to their relationship other than the deal part which is already engraved in her brain.

I really wish the scene continues tomorrow after Virat said I will never meet you. I want to hear sais response and hoping we might get insight into her feelings after today's Jalebis served by both mia biwi😂

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

It is hightime they show monologue of SaI Reg this episode. We all know by now how Virat completely moved ahead from his past. But Sai’s exact thoughts and confusions should be conveyed to viewers otherwise she will be the target of criticism for being insensitive and harsh . We have many monologues of Virat but hardly they gave any for Sai. Looking forward to hear her inner voice.

I was just writing this on another post. I completely agree with you. I feel as if a lot of the criticism Sai gets is because people are not able to understand things from her perspective...and a lot of that blame goes on the makers for not showing us her thoughts. I have always found Sai to be relatable and understood where she is coming from, but I have a tendency of overanalyzing people's actions and trying to make sense of the words that they do say...so I don't know if that's just my bad.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold this pretty much sums up their relationship at the moment.

@bold - nope looks like the way I wrote was confusing. Definitely not. I feel we need more scenes from sais perspective to understand why she was shutting off Virat in today's episode considering her care and liking for Virat. The only thing I could think was Sai might be going through so many emotions with Virats care, concern, jealousy that she doesn't want to hear more about his feelings which she may not be able to handle or answer at the moment. Coming back to today's episode

In the ring scene she did not even let Virat utter a word beyond no this is not a birthday gift. She clearly said if this is a gift a husband gives a wife as a token of love I cannot accept it. Virat was so terrified he just said what else could it be other than a birthday gift. Sai registered this part of the conversation but not the earlier part where he said it's not a birthday gift. The next moment she says why would you give it to me for anything bother than birthday, you would give it to p.

I don't say what Virat said during the wedding is correct that was the stupidest thing ever but sai not letting him talk is not going to help either of them. Anything which virat says seriously she pretty much laughs it off. So unless Sai realizes her feelings i don't see her valuing or registering any of Virats words related to their relationship other than the deal part which is already engraved in her brain.

I really wish the scene continues tomorrow after Virat said I will never meet you. I want to hear sais response and hoping we might get insight into her feelings after today's Jalebis served by both mia biwi😂

I agree about us needing more scenes from Sai's perspective. I guess I am in the minority about this, because I have said this in a lot of there posts at this point, but when Sai interrupts Virat and says that she cannot accept this ring if it is from a husband to his wife, I almost felt as if she was wanting him to say otherwise. Her disappointed inner monologue afterwards spoke volumes to me. She basically told herself that she was stupid for thinking otherwise. It's like she wants to hear Virat say that this marriage is real, but at the same time, she won't let him speak, because she has already convinced herself that despite what she is seeing from Virat, the vaada supersedes all of his actions.