KARISHMA WAS SMARTER THAN AISH...REAL REASON GOT REVEALED - Page 5

Tanya ji....I don't know if you are married or not.....but never ever trust a man who will be ready to leave his parents and siblings for you......Just an advise based on my experience.....My husband loves his family and is committed to them and he is equally committed to me and our kids....

Any girl or boy who can give up their relationship with the parents who raised them and the siblings who they grew up with.....can leave anybody and move on....that was my only point which was taken out of context and the perspective was lost in the feminist jazz....and I was called regressive and what not.......These feminists never fail to amuse me...because they miss the actual point someone was trying to make...

I have made myself clear more than once and now I am out of this thread....

Originally posted by: Outlander22

. I had a problem with how you said, "kal ki aayi ladki ke liye ma bap ko chhodna" . As if kal ki aayi ladki doesnt matter, someone who you just vowed to love and protect.

I know and I can understand what Blue ice is saying , as her intentions are pure and good backing this statement...

But at the same time agree with you as well for the girl....

You both had a valid point..

We need some balancing ground in complex human relations based on emotions... It cannot be a blatant black or white.

Originally posted by: e1t53e

One of those pieces of writing where you forget the gist of first 3 by the time you reach the 4 th paragraph and then you give up.

Haha yeah ! It's so ridiculous I want to frame it.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Tanya ji....I don't know if you are married or not.....but never ever trust a man who will be ready to leave his parents and siblings for you......Just an advise based on my experience.....My husband loves his family and is committed to them and he is equally committed to me and our kids....

Any girl or boy who can give up their relationship with the parents who raised them and the siblings who they grew up with.....can leave anybody and move on....that was my only point which was taken out of context and the perspective was lost in the feminist jazz....and I was called regressive and what not.......These feminists never fail to amuse me...because they miss the actual point someone was trying to make...

I have made myself clear more than once and now I am out of this thread....

I agree with what you have said Blue Ice Ji about the loyalty of the son for parents, and it makes sense and is based on logic...you have a valid point..

Having said that, I think it depends case to case , and person to person as well... I am giving you my real elder sister's example...

Her father in law was against the marriage, he didn't attended my sister's marriage and her saas and nands were also stopped by him to attend, only her bro in law attended as he was independent.

My sister lived independent and he left his parents ...but after a few years with her consistent efforts now her in laws loves her more than a daughter, my sister and her husband are living in uk a best and most content full of love n peace life for the last 18 years, and been a biggest confidant in me, I know she is most happy among all of us siblings and has great bond with the inlaws as well...

So imo, it all depends on your destiny, efforts and the person you are involved with.

Having said that, no denying your point as well, as this can also help and should be kept in mind before proceeding.

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M sure I read Sunjay Kapur’s side of story somewhere in detail..cannot find it now. He is happily married to Priya Sachdev, who gets along with Karisma’s kids.

Abusers don't just abuse you and leave it up to you to take it or leave it. They make sure you are available to be abused . They trap you. At least they try for sure. This Sanjay fellow probably recorded explicit videos of them having sex ,or got somebody to R word her and recorded it. Having money doesn't make things easy. It only makes things easi-ER. The aftermath of a such a scandal follows you all your life when you're a famous person. Can you imagine the mainstream news media in India dealing with this story ? Being 'sold' during your honeymoon can disorient you completely. The insanity of it. So its not just the physical abuse that you have to process. Somebody who tries to 'auction' his wife can be capable of murdering her. Another thing to remember is how they turn everyone against you before you realise it. You'd think all you need to do is seek help but there'd be a lot of dismissal and downplaying waiting for you.

HE had family support. We don't know if she did. Randhir Kapoor later said he wasn't keen on this marriage but both him and Babita probably told her to 'try and work on things ' because they thought it would be a huge loss of face for their older daughter to cut ties with her wealthy husband and come back to her maayka ,especially after the issue with the Bachchans. Indian families can be quite unreasonable with the log kya sochenge thing. I can absolutely picture a mother telling her daughter " But beta he has promised he wouldn't try to sell you again ".

So its not a question of Karishma being smart or dumb. Now with hindsight we could say she should have just given into the tantrums of the Bachchans ,that her life would have been way better but it's not as if she knew beforehand what was gonna happen.

Originally posted by: Kyahikahoon

M sure I read Sunjay Kapur’s side of story somewhere in detail..cannot find it now. He is happily married to Priya Sachdev, who gets along with Karisma’s kids.

What was his side of the story ? What are his accusations ?

Karishma's honeymoon story was recently discussed here, someone mentioned it[me] and people were shocked said, they were hearing it for the first time.

the divorce details revealed that she accused him of not fulfilling his financial promises he made and he came back with "that proves she only married me for money"

Anyway it's clear the reason or one of the reasons she married him was for finances

And if he made that promise, if that was one of the conditions (I feel THE condition) for nuptials, then he should've fulfilled it

Originally posted by: TotalBetty

Karishma's honeymoon story was recently discussed here, someone mentioned it[me] and people were shocked said, they were hearing it for the first time.

the divorce details revealed that she accused him of not fulfilling his financial promises he made and he came back with "that proves she only married me for money"

Anyway it's clear the reason or one of the reasons she married him was for finances

And if he made that promise, if that was one of the conditions (I feel THE condition) for nuptials, then he should've fulfilled it

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Originally posted by: TotalBetty

Karishma's honeymoon story was recently discussed here, someone mentioned it[me] and people were shocked said, they were hearing it for the first time.

the divorce details revealed that she accused him of not fulfilling his financial promises he made and he came back with "that proves she only married me for money"

Anyway it's clear the reason or one of the reasons she married him was for finances

And if he made that promise, if that was one of the conditions (I feel THE condition) for nuptials, then he should've fulfilled it

The story was out long ago. I'll be the bad guy here and say somebody who is as unattractive as this guy finding somebody like Karishma in an arranged marriage has a LOT to do with money and financial status. There's no beauty for any beholder to behold. But what does 'financial promises' mean here ? If she meant promises made to her it sounds like an allowance. Which if it was promised ,should have been given but eeks ,it's tacky to go to court about it. I assumed it meant he defaulted on commitments made to others and it made her feel threatened ( risk of seizure bankruptcy etc ).