Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona
Yes. Catering to the likes of Vidya and Ruhi is not right. ABhira is making all the wrong decisions
I would love it if she stopped caring about them. But she will not. Ruhi and Vudya are always going to part of her life
But Abhira has always, always. Done the right thing eventually
Whether it leaves PH after the Deal reveal
Or Deciding to marry Armaan in the temple.
So, she will come around it is just a matter of time. Maybe not completely detach herself from pyaari behena and Maa. But she will definitely learn to maintain distance
Also, I keep forgetting that this place to Abhira is like X is to Armaan
Armaan is allowed to have vulnerabilities. Its ok for Armaan to take his time to get over his millions of obsessions because of childhood trauma. But Abhira who has always carved family love being happy about her new found family is a strict no-no. That's not allowed.
How dare Abhira have normal human emotions such as vulnerability and weakness. Only Armaan is allowed to have those.
My bad
I get where you are coming from and I agree with you đź’Ż
As I have written before as well - Abhira can no longer be that Spitfire she was when she first came to PH in a deal shaadi with Armaan. At that time she had no relations & her only focus was to get her degree & walk off, coz she did not sign up to be a bahu of P house.
Then she made rishte in that house and fell in love with Armaan. She wanted those people to become her true family since she never had one & had always craved for one. She fell in love with her 1 yr deal husband & hoped he 2 would reciprocate. During Charu reveal, she was quiet as she felt she was wrong to have kept this secret from Armaan and the family & did the same even during deal shaadi reveal. Abhira never talks back if she feels she is wrong, but will never take it if she or her mom's parvarish was being insulted when it's not even her fault.
Yes she has made a lot of mistakes & I get that she is allowed to make them as much as anyone else.
A lot of us here are sensitive to the imbalance in the story. Armaan making a mistake will call for his head, while Abhira doing one is okay coz she is vulnerable - this is both here & on X.
For the 1 week Armaan did "maa" jaap. Only Armaan was called out, but Abhira still allowing Vidya to walk all.over her was okay. Now Abhira allowing Vidya to behave horribly with her & running behind Ruhi is okay, but Armaan will still be penalized for shouting at Abhira for something he was blaming himself.
FL's are supposed to be mahaan & try to patch up everyone in the family, even if they have to listen to taunts & shraaps. We get that. But just like we called out Armaan, we get to call out Abhira as well. And just like we love Armaan, we love Abhira as well. Many of us here watch the show for only those 2 as a pair. Together. Not one without the other. I am talking as a neutral fan, hence saying this. Baaki we can always agree to disagree
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