Originally posted by: mili9
Love everything you wrote here, my friend Can I give infinite likes to this?
May be unpopular opinion, I am very salty with Armaan still. I didn't get any warm fuzzies after that episode, Armaan is still the same clueless, like he said matlabi and selfish guy when it comes to his emotions, his pain, his bechargi, his maa, his angst as Abhira distanced herself from him.......To be honest, I didn't think he would react even this much seeing her pain today. The way he was going about, it is like, if you look OK and together, you are having a time of your life. If I am crying and walking around not caring about people, surroundings, responsibilities, I must be the one who is shatteredWhat he did is not a silly mistake for which he can hold her feet and repent. Instead, it is an extreme betrayal of her trust as you mentioned. She seems to be having trepidation whether she can really count on him in her hard times.
I got very peeved when within 2 min of his pain from Abhira distancing herself, he got counselLike Indira said below, I hated it that he started discussing their marriage with Ruhi again. He couldn't discuss or acknowledge the pain of a girl he claims to love, not make one gesture to show her that he cares, humiliate her in front of everyone bringing down whatever dignity she is trying to maintain, BUT can regurgitate his pain to his SIL Ewwww.......... him asking Abhira for forgiveness and him discussing Abhira and him with Ruhi is giving me the creeps and dejavu Haan...... I will give credit to Ruhi on one line...... when your mom is right, tareef karo, but when she is wrong, you can't bend over backwardsI wish this line is spoken by somebody else and not Ruhi
Exactly, Abhira is looking up to him for support, not delegating his responsibilities to others to make her smile. Ek smile se kya hota hain, when she doesn't even know why her husband abandoned her in the first place and now wants to be intimateEven if you are under extreme duress, you can laugh and smile when you watch a funny scene etc,. doesn't mean it solved anything. I liked how you drew parallels to gifting the car and this. I feel the same way, they hold no meaning to her
I am so glad to see the composure Abhira showed in the whole thing. It is not about the cold shoulder, but her realization somewhere that he may not be someone she can lean on during her hardshipWhen you think about it, that truly breaks your heart. Especially after pouring her heart out to him that he is really the only one left for her in this world and she thoroughly vetted out her relationship with him from her endAt least so she thought. She thought about all possibilities and gave him a way out every step of the wayHer crying by herself brought tears to my eyes, hope no girl is that position with no one to lean onAs you said above, she is too consumed by the husband's pain and means to alleviate that, to even recognize her own painShe is even giving consideration of the maa ka sapna, recognizing that everyone has a right to have their own dreamsI hope the guy understands the depth of this young girl.
I am starting to like Kaveri-Abhira dynamics again, as much as a dictator she is, she seems to be kind and compassionate towards Abhira when compared to the husband who claims to be the only familyIf only Kaveri didn't announce why she wants Abhira in the firm Why didn't nobody say one kind word or one nice gesture to Abhira. May be they are afraid of Vidya. But, when they saw Armaan tearing into Abhira, couldn't Rohit have taken her out for a coffee or Manoj take her out for a walk or the pyaara paapa take her out to a movie, instead of standing in the crowd and nodding his head. Something, anythingOnly Manisha tried and gave her the support in actions.While Armaan gets comforted within 2 min of a setbackI have no hopes on this guy
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