Originally posted by: ItvDrama
Donāt know if itās intentional or unintentional by makers, but I seem to find lots of parallels and role reversals.
There are 2 couples, each with a partner who has a history of abandonment issues. Ruhi, who despite having the love and support of family, unable to overcome it due to proper guidance. Armaan, who despite having a huge family, suffering his whole life with fear of abandonment by his family. Each have a partner who have had quite a happy, safe and stable childhood, yet been victims of their partnersā past. Rohit, who couldnāt handle his wife and brotherās past and ran away from the situation. Abhira, who endures constant abuse due to her husbandās inability to take stand for himself or her.
KP, who wanted Rohit to handle the firm by giving half of Armaanās cases to Rohit, yet Rohit himself handing over the case to Armaan and validating him as the best lawyer.
Abhira tried to make Rohit understand Armaanās point of view when he was angry with Armaan. Today Ruhi tried to make Armaan realize how he is taking Abhira for granted. I also liked how it was Ruhi, the person who had done everything to separate Abhira-Armaan finally accepting how futile her efforts have been. It also meant if a person like Ruhi who has always been against Abhira can see her pain, how oblivious and ignorant Armaan has been.
Another parallel was how Abhira set up the whole kabbadi match by faking the gravity of Aryanās wounds to bring Armaan-Rohit close. Similarly today Ruhi faked annoyance towards food to take Abhira to GH to cheer her up.
Finally, the biggest parallel was how one couple who struggled so much to be together finally are so apart from each other emotionally. On the other hand, thereās another couple who didnāt have any emotional connect who finally seem to have found each other.
Iām not going to get into the past behaviors of any characters. Iām not going to validate who deserves more happiness and who less. Iām not going to get into who is more wrong and who is more right. Iām not going to get into why Rohit-Ruhi deserve all the happiness without any real effort and yet why Armaan-Abhira endure all the misery after all their genuine efforts. Iām willing to look past them not because I donāt recognize them, but because these are not going to yield any results for any of the characters. Armaan-Abhira realize bringing Ruhiās marriage stunt is going to only cause more pain to Rohit and the family. Throwing Ruhi out isnāt going to make Abhira be accepted into the family. I would like to believe a person like Ruhi, who was so obsessed with breaking their relationship and Armaan, could only reach the current stage in her life if she genuinely moved on. Ruhiās humiliation for her past deeds isnāt going to lessen Abhiraās by this family. Rohit-Ruhi having or not having a child isnāt going to change the status quo for Abhira-Armaan. Would I like Ruhi to be honest with Rohit, yes, but why would she? She lived in this house for 1 year without letting anyone know her real intentions, she came back to this marriage under deceit, all based on a hope that she knew might never be fulfilled. Now when she has finally realized she has that one person in her life who might be with her forever, with whom she can finally find peace and happiness, why would she want to jeopardize that. When the person who suffered the most because of Ruhi, Abhira is willing to forgive her and care for her, who is still willing to form a sisterly bond, itās only logical for Ruhi to take the first steps towards that relationship. Will Ruhi go back to hating Abhira again after the identity reveal, most likely yes, but I would like to believe itās not because itās Abhira this time, but because she is reflection of the source of her pain, Akshara. Itās only natural for her to show her hatred towards Abhira as Akshara herself is no more, after harboring a lifetime of hatred and fear that she will once again lose her dear ones because of Akshara. Does Abhira deserve this, absolutely not, but she is the one who is going to face the consequences of a decision her mom made.
The makers chose the right time to do 2 things. Make Rohit aware of Ruhiās childhood, to see how he handles her. Most importantly, make Armaan realize Abhiraās pain, so that he can support Abhira during her time of identity crisis. If the makers refuse to show Armaan support Abhira, then their relationship really was never meant to be.
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