Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 17th Sep 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 13

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

That's why Abhira's parivaar rant was getting on my nerves. Parivaar doesn't mean bunch of manipulative and immoral oldies keeps constantly dancing on your head and getting clean chit from all their Karmas just because they are elders. Buddhe hain toh galati karte rahenge kya??

See before she was in love with Armaan and fell prey to their manipulations and got conditioned the way Armaan has been conditioned, she used to ask valid questions ki buddhe log galti nahi karenge kya. but now she is also stuck because Armaan is their khoon and if she wants Armaan, she has to accept these pathetic people only as family. so its actually a coping mechanism to deal- tell yourself that things will be better, hai toh family hi toh sab theek hoga etc etc and soon the lies they tell themselves will reach a level where they cant fight it .

If only these two would leave PH now and elope to go live far away

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

Armaan acting like having kid by blood related is his childhood dream

Everyone dreams of having their own child .. but even if someone is perfectly healthy.. they end up not having a child.. such is the way of the world ..

Armaan and Abhira have had a relationship for now 18 months .. 1 year of marriage and then 6 months of dating phase ..

What is the guarantee that Armaan himself has a perfect medical record.. let’s say something happens to him . Then Abhira should leave him because she wanted her own family .. she has no one in this world

These things weigh on the minds of people when you are considering strangers in an arranged marriage set up .. Savi in Ghum 2 had a bullet in her stomach to save her the uterus was taken out at the beginning of the season

So strangers were calling of the relationship at the beginning of marriage talks .. when they are not emotionally involved at all ..

Armaan and Poddars are backing from the relationship after 18 months of knowing Abhira .. then I can say they are worse off than Chavans .. who started considering other medical alternatives to have a kid when Sai miscarried her baby .. which was natural .. which most couples do

The triggering over there was what pakhi did .. she should not have been the surrogate.. otherwise things were going ok as they had arranged a family who had agreed to be the surrogate mother for Sai n virat ..

Abhira is better off from backing out of the wedding which looks more created by Kaveri Poddar.. she wanted to put Abhira in a situation that this is what your place will be if you fail to give birth to a child in this house .

I don’t think Ruhi is responsible for this fake medical condition if it is fake .. this can only be done by Kaveri Poddar .. Ruhi is enjoying the situation

This Kaveri and Vidhya is worse than previous seasons Mimi and Manjri

As crass as this show is, I’m surprised and disgusted by how this whole issue is being made all about the ML and his dreams of a kid. Do they even realize that by making this all about the ML, they are degrading the character by giving dialogue like what to choose between pyaar and sapne? What difference is between the ML and his family then? It’s like just because the FL wanted to wait 2 years after marriage for kids, her feelings are irrelevant. The way a woman’s autonomy/anatomy is being mocked is pathetic. Do they even realize violating a person’s medical records without their permission is punishable by law and these people are supposed to be lawyers? I don’t expect FLs to be realistic in ITV, but the FL should at least get a wake-up call that she is never going to get unconditional love by anyone in this pathetic family.

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

That's why Abhira's parivaar rant was getting on my nerves. Parivaar doesn't mean bunch of manipulative and immoral oldies keeps constantly dancing on your head and getting clean chit from all their Karmas just because they are elders. Buddhe hain toh galati karte rahenge kya??

Totally agree. This is a major problem I have with television - they try to push down our throats this concept that pavivar/bade-buzurg/parents kuch bhi karenge to it’s ok -no it’s not. Just coz someone is older their mistakes cannot be instantly and silently forgiven . If you need to talk back you need to talk back - if you need to leave you need to leave. Unfortunately not everyone is fit to be a parent - some are toxic. In those situations you have to live separately-I’m not saying throw them out of your life - absolutely not. Be near so you can visit frequently , help them whenever they need you - but not be in their faces 24x7.
This Poddar family is severely toxic and Armaan has no other option but move out with Abhira.
Absolutely nothing else will make sense. Vidya/Kaveri/Madhav characters are way beyond redeemable at this point.

Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

This Kaveri and Vidhya is worse than previous seasons Mimi and Manjri

Sorry but they were also as pathetic as poddars

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

If Vidya's today's behavior is emotional outburst and justified fir toh Ruhi can actually go ahead with spiking armaan's drink and do ONS. Kya galat hai?? Abhira ki galti hai she should be careful of Ruhi. Uska dil kiya sambhog ka toh kar liya galat toh kuch bhi nahi kiya... What's your thoughts in this????

According to Vidya,

Abhira deal marriage kar diya toh galat hain .she and her mother is characterless then

Ruhi EMA kardiya toh galat nahi hain.Ruhi proposed her marriage with bilaw with Vidya,Vidya dint get offended on that.Ruhi is not characterless then

So If Ruhi do something like this,tab bhi Vidya ke liye galat thodi na hogi.kyu do do bahuon ko jhelna hain.Dono beton ke liye ek hi biwi kaafi hai .I am damn sure Vidya and Kaveri will be ok with Ruhi after that too .That is poddar family's standard .

I usually don't talk like these.This Show and it's pathetic characters made me say this.

Last time a ITV mother I hate isNyonika Malhotra.She hates her son and manipulates him to lead on to see him suffering.But now I feel she is a better mother than Vidya.She throw hate on him but never fakes love .She actually knows her son well.

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Sorry but they were also as pathetic as poddars

Yeah probably! It’s just we saw the whole thing and saw them being nice at some point later when they became grandparents 😂

But still, they were rude and stuff but it often involved a persons close to them death. Did they ever made fun of a sensitive issue like women’s health, family and pregnancy like this?

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

If Vidya's today's behavior is emotional outburst and justified fir toh Ruhi can actually go ahead with spiking armaan's drink and do ONS. Kya galat hai?? Abhira ki galti hai she should be careful of Ruhi. Uska dil kiya sambhog ka toh kar liya galat toh kuch bhi nahi kiya... What's your thoughts in this????

Vidya, KP and Ruhi r all complete pieces of pathetic horrible shits.Such cruel insensitive behavior .And the worse is they call themselves as women. What kind of writing is this??? Forget about shaadi, if I were in Ab's place I would have never seen their faces for the rest of my life. Adopting concept ko bhi nahi choda cvs ne

Writer pls spare us from ur future forced behena bond. Ruhi is simply not.. I repeat simply not..

Originally posted by: elizamerin

According to Vidya,

Abhira deal marriage kar diya toh galat hain .she and her mother is characterless then

Ruhi EMA kardiya toh galat nahi hain.Ruhi proposed her marriage with bilaw with Vidya,Vidya dint get offended on that.Ruhi is not characterless then

So If Ruhi do something like this,tab bhi Vidya ke liye galat thodi na hogi.kyu do do bahuon ko jhelna hain.Dono beton ke liye ek hi biwi kaafi hai .I am damn sure Vidya and Kaveri will be ok with Ruhi after that too .That is poddar family's standard .

I usually don't talk like these.This Show and it's pathetic characters made me say this.

Last time a ITV mother I hate isNyonika Malhotra.She hates her son and manipulates him to lead on to see him suffering.But now I feel she is a better mother than Vidya.She throw hate on him but never fakes love .She actually knows her son well.

Ikr I bet if Ruhi was infertile - they wouldn’t have been this insensitive