Part 3
Dear Abhira,
It’s hard to believe how quickly everything has come together, and now you’re about to embark on this exciting new chapter in your life. Finding Mr. Right is such a significant milestone, and I’m thrilled to hear that you’ve found someone who seems to be just perfect for you. It’s a little sad that your dad and I can’t be there in person to celebrate with you, but please know that we are with you in spirit, cheering you on.
I’m sure your Mr. Right understands just how incredible you are—full of energy and charm. I hope he’s ready for all the wonderful and vibrant aspects of who you are. You’ve always been a dynamic force, and I’m confident that he will appreciate and adore that about you.
As you enter this new phase, keep in mind that marriage will bring significant changes. Life as you know it will shift, and you’ll find yourself taking on new roles—wife, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, and more. Each new relationship will come with its own set of joys and challenges.
Embrace these changes with the same strength and grace you’ve always shown. It’s natural to feel a bit overwhelmed at times, but remember that each role you step into is an opportunity for growth and for creating something beautiful together with your partner.
There are few things I want you to keep in mind for your married life.
1. Communication is Key: Emphasize the importance of open and honest communication with your partner. Encourage him to share his feelings, thoughts, and concerns, and to listen with empathy and also share but you feel about things
2. Respect and Understanding: Always show respect and understanding towards you partner's family, traditions, and viewpoints. Mutual respect forms the foundation of a strong relationship.
3, Balance and Compromise: Marriage involves give-and-take. So find a balance between your own needs and those of your partner's need. Compromise is a crucial part of maintaining harmony.
4. Support Each Other: You should be supportive towards your partner’s goals and dreams, and also expect the same in return. A marriage thrives when both partners support and uplift each other.
5. Maintain Individuality: While marriage is a union, it’s important for you to maintain your own identity and interests. Pursue your passions and hobbies, which can contribute to a fulfilling life.
6. Handle Conflicts Wisely: Disagreements are natural. So address conflicts calmly and constructively, without letting issues fester. Avoid raising issues in the heat of the moment.
7. Financial Management: It’s important to discuss and agree on financial matters. Be transparent about finances and work together on budgeting and savings.
8. Build Traditions: You and your Mr. Right should create own traditions and rituals. These can help in strengthening your bond and making your relationship uniquely yours.
9. Health and Well-being: Take care of your physical and mental health. A happy and healthy individual contributes positively to a marriage.
10. Seek Help When Needed: It’s okay to seek advice or counseling if you both encounter challenges that you both can’t resolve on your own. Professional guidance can be very helpful.
11. Cherish the Moments: Savor and appreciate the small, everyday moments with you Mr. Right and your family. These moments often become the treasured memories of a relationship.
12. Family Dynamics: Abhira I know I was your only family but now you will have a family, where you will be get lot of new relation create positive relationship with everyone and try to get adapt their life, their ways their environment.
13. Forgiveness and Patience: I know you get mad very easily but now you need to stay clam practice forgiveness and patience, both with yourself, my SIL and your new family. Every relationship has its ups and downs, and a willingness to forgive and be patient can help navigate challenges.
14. Celebrate Achievements: Celebrate milestones and achievements, both big and small, together with your Mr. Right with your family. Celebrating successes can strengthen their bond.
15. Self-Love and Confidence: Always believe in yourself and maintain your self-worth. A confident and self-assured partner can contribute positively to a relationship.
I wish I could share with you in person, but I want you to keep them in mind as you start this new chapter in your life. Always be open and honest with your family and your husband. Today, you’re transitioning from being a daughter to becoming a wife, a daughter-in-law, a sister-in-law, and eventually, a mother. This journey from girl to woman will bring many changes and new experiences, so remember to embrace each role with love and sincerity.
Like any parent, I’ve had many dreams and wishes for your marriage. While I can’t be there in person, I’ve left something special for you at the Udaipur City Bank. I know Udaipur might surprise you, but it holds something important. I also remember how curious you’ve been about our family’s history. When you visit the bank and open the locker that’s in your name, you’ll find answers to many of your questions. The key you got is of the bank locker.
"Abhira, there are two letters: one for my son-in-law and the other for your mother-in-law. Please don't read them; they are meant for them to read. I repeat, do not read them and no cheating."
Yours
Mumma
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