Originally posted by: Nhikia
Oh then why did anuj listen to adhya he literally divorced anu if I remember clearly + for Choti Anu he left anu two times , anu left her dream and came back to anuj and ca she tried to reunite anuj with malti devi also plus even now she's leaving anuj
Anupama did misplace her priorities 100% for someone like toshu baa and pakhi urggh I can't even -- but yeah what's done can't be undone either ways they are already middle aged people now one more leap what will be their age after this?
Sorry, but this shows you have probably not seen the episodes before.
What made you think that Anuj divorced Anupama because Adhya told him so?
Anupama left Anuj and Adhya without a backward glance and became incommunicado because she went into hiding Even after several attempts by Anuj to reach them. This is called absconding. it was during this period that they divorced (how did they get the divorce remotely, well similar to how she landed in US. We only believe what is shown).
Adhya's condition owing to this abandonment became worse and they had to do a change of residence and they wound up Everything in India to move to US. None other than Devika knew about her whereabouts.
Now coming to the first two times
Agreed, at that time, Anuj was comparatively more rational and sane. He had on atleast 3 occasions pointed out Anipama's carelessness and neglect and her over involvement with Shahs which was conveniently overlooked by Anupama. He truly loved Adhya and could see through the problems, he shielded her from the drama by sending her to summer/winter camps. Anupama, on the other hand, very cleverly hid the real reason of Adhya choosing to go with Maaya, she did not even care to explain to the child that she was not the reason for fights between her parents. She even forced him to forget the loss of his child and celebrate Holi with Shahs, not just that, she left him to deal with the loss and went to Shahs, Wow. Unable to handle ALL this, he went to Mumbai to bring his child back.
He has now realised, that if he questions Anupama on even legitimate things, Anupama will forsake him. He wants Anupama in his life. So, he has to keep mum and let Anupama do whatever she wants, however she wants to. Right or wrong, agree or not. That's it. I don't think we can call it love.
Anupama "sacrificing" her udaan. Malati Devi asked her for a commitment which she agreed knowing her situations well. Just days before the child lost the birth mother and why? In trying to save her. Not just this, she even promised a dying woman to take care of the child she adopted. Even after this, Malati Devi asked her about her decision, what prompted her to say yes? Had she told about the circumstances and her inability to go, Malati Devi would have been prepared to deal with everything else.
OK, even if we say, she left going with Malati Devi. What did she do after that, again left an ailing Adhya and went to serve Shahs merely hours after the so-called sacrificed Udaan.
If the timelines stay intact, she is supposed to be in her 50s. Act like 16, be that as it may.
They are no fit to be parents to anyone and no fit to be each other's life partner.
Edited by Bodhianveshika - 1 months ago
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