Is Shruti delusional?

Isn't it so funny that she is trying to marry a man who is deeply in love with another woman? She is so conveniently emotionally manipulating Anuj to marry him. She is also using the enmity between a mother and a child in her favour. Instead of she trying to get Anupama and Adhya to get closer, she is creating more gaps in their relationship thus turning Adhya into a manipulative vile person. Adhya, when she grows up and realises that she was involved in separating her parents, will live with guilt forever. Also, this plotting against parents, being manipulative will translate into her other aspects of life.

Anupama never manipulated Aadhya against her mom, Maya even when Maya wanted to take Anuj away from her. In my eyes, Shruti is spoiling a thirteen year old to get a man who is clearly not in love with her.

I think nobody should try to get a person to marry him/her against their will. If you really love someone, you don't wear them down or suffocate them.

It's not Shruti's job to reduce distance btw upma n aadhya..Upma chose to leave behind aadhya n made her decision to leave that child so its fair enough that aadhya chooses not to forgive upma for the abandonment she faced.Upma already left adhya years back n never returned to see her so why is trying to become her mother she never was at first place ? Shruti was with aadhya in her delicate years not upma so what mother u r talking about ? Mother who abandoned the kid just because after 3 yrs of adjusting for her parents happiness that kid showed her disappointment yet that mother walked out n didn't even tried to clear her insecurities n ran away like a coward.No mother would abandon her child n years later on pretend as if nothing happened n never realise her mistake but only blame the kid.So no upma is not Aadhya's mother..

Yes, it isn't Shruti's responsibility. I agree. But she taking advantage of a child's trauma is not attractive.

To me, it doesn't seem Shruti is taking advantage of Aadya's hatred for Anupama. But she comes off as a very emotionally dependent person who fears losing Aadya & Anuj as she has nobody else in her life!

In general, in this show, which is supposedly an epitome of women empowerment, all females are weak regardless of their educational or professional status. Anupama is a self-proclaimed symbol of righteousness but in reality everything a woman shouldn't be!

Episode 1233:

https://youtu.be/fMAJyqXKpvc?si=_smK5w5KBZL0SpWe

Adhya ke outburst ko control karne apne Pops aur Anupama se maafi maangenge ke liye samjhati hain.

Yeh bhi manipulation hi hoga, nahin?

But theek hain, ab Shruti ko manipulative banaye bagair Anupama ka whitewash kaise ho sakta hain.

Anuj force kar sakta hain Adhya ko Anupama aur Shahs se milne se, interact karne se, saath rehne par. Yeh sab apne matlab ke liye kiya gaya manipulation thodi hain.

Anupama ke achche se jante boojhte ki Shruti Adhya ke liye kya hain aur yeh ki Anupama se use problem hain uska trauma trigger hota hain khud ko thomp sakti hain Adhya par. Khud ko Shruti se behtar prove karne ki koshish kar sakti hain, bina ijazat aur haq ke doosron ke ghar ke mamlon me taang ada sakti hain by cooking, cleaning, kadaai-bunaai karne me, Pooja paath me, yeh sab toh manipulation bilkul nahin hain.

Ghar se jaane ko kehne ke baad bhi wahi rehne ki zidd kar sakti hain. Yeh sab manipulation thodi hain.

It was Anuj and Shruti at the first place who asked Anupama to come. Plus Adhya needs and seeks comfort from Anupama when she is in pain. Anupama simply came to help Anuj and Shruti when Shruti was in sick bed.

Also, Anupama doesn't feed Adhya's mind with anything against others. But Shruti does that too against her own mother.

Also, for some reasons, Anuj is trying to reconcile Adhya with her supposed family. He isn't trying to manipulate her but he is trying to get Adhya close to her supposed family. He may be wrong in doing this. Maybe he doesn't understand her daughter but he is trying to help unlike Shruti who is trying to take advantage.

I don't understand why any woman will want to marry a man who is 20 years older than her, has a psychologically unwell kid, and still harbours feelings for his ex-wife. Anuj never even hugged her in these 4 years should tell her that he is not even an inch interested in her.

Originally posted by: Jefen

It was Anuj and Shruti at the first place who asked Anupama to come. Plus Adhya needs and seeks comfort from Anupama when she is in pain. Anupama simply came to help Anuj and Shruti when Shruti was in sick bed.

Anuj, yes, he asked Anupama to "cure" the child that she abandoned. Adhya needed the comfort that she got from Shruti in the last 5 years when Anupama was nowhere in the picture. Sure Anupama came to help Shruti, so when the lady of the house, Shruti asked her to leave very politely, she should have simply left instead of showing an attitude.

Besides, it is not her jurisdiction to involve in matters of THEIR house.

Also, Anupama doesn't feed Adhya's mind with anything against others. But Shruti does that too against her own mother.

Please share examples because the instances and clipping shown on the previous post describe otherwise.

If anything, she has corrected Adhya and asked her to apologise for her misbehaviour.

Asking the child to stop the father from doing the wrong thing is NOT Manipulation.

Also, for some reasons, Anuj is trying to reconcile Adhya with her supposed family. He isn't trying to manipulate her but he is trying to get Adhya close to her supposed family. He may be wrong in doing this.

First of ALL let us define the scope of manipulation. Because even if Shruti or any one in her place states the obvious, it will be termed manipulation or incorrect because that is the only way to justify the leads.

Maybe he doesn't understand her daughter but he is trying to help unlike Shruti who is trying to take advantage.

What do we call doing ANY actions against their will or forcefully trying to exhibit how their preferred choice or person is better and moreimportant in their life than what they already have?

Again, please share instances where Shruti has taken advantage of Adhya's dislike for Anupama.

If anything, Anupama went out of line and overstepped her boundaries to constantly come face to face with her with a drooping act of innocence, perform Pooja and cook as though she is the lady of the house, mend her dress and show off that she knows and does household chores better than Shruti.

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Besides ALL this, Anupama toh Anuj aur Adhya ki Khusi ki khatir Bina peeche mude bhaag gayi thi na?

Agar itni taqleef ho rahi hain use khud ko aur Adhya ko, toh unki ki khusi ki khatir hatt jaaye peeche.

Agar aisa nahin karti toh

1. Anuj ko Adhya ki khushitaqleef se koi matlab nahin, use sirf Anupama chahiye

2. Anupama 5 saal pehle kisi ki khusi ke liye nahin gayi, apni marzi se, poore hosh me uspar Jaya sawaal uthaya jane par gayi, aur abhi bhi Adhya ki khusi se uska koi matlab nahin.

Anuj-Anupama ka bhi ek tarfa pyaar hi hain.

There was a song: "Kitne ajeeb rishte hain yaha ke, Do pal milne hain, saath saath chalte hain, Jab moad aaye toh, Bache nikalte hain".

Shruti herself is obsessed with Anupama and that is why she wants her to be in all the functions, work for her wedding and even invited her to the wedding. She does all this when she clearly knows Anuj and Anupama love each other. After calling her, when she sees Anuj and Anupama together, she gets jealous. She must first make the boundaries. Yes, Shruti asked her to leave her house when Anupama was there, but she didn't leave immediately but she did leave even though Anuj wanted her to stay.

Also, what Shruti is doing to Anuj is also "against his will." Now you may say Anuj proposed her but she clearly sees that Anuj always shrugs off and ignores her "advances" but he she never understands. Anuj literally expresses verbally and non-verbally that he is not interested in her.

And Shruti very cleverly manipulated Adhya to keep an eye on Anupama and Anuj during the wedding functions of Dimpy so yes, she is taking advantage of a daughter's hate for her mother and turning Adhya into a manipulative woman. This trait will surely be translated into other aspects of her life and relationship.