Devika would have been an ideal wife for Anuj - Page 2

Originally posted by: Historia

Isn't Anuj behaving like a srk Darr psycho lover . How come maan fans never questioned devika spy on anupama marriage life .

How come Gk kaka nd mukku are fine with Anuj spying on his crush marriage life??

How can devika give information to Anuj ,(who she considered as her best friend ) for giving.pirvste information on her marriage life .even anupama never questioned devika ?? But why??

Anuj is indeed a stalker like SRK in 1993 block buster Darr. Had Anupama come to know that Anuj was spying on her through Devika, Anupama would not have married Anuj. Any normal human being would forget Anupama and try to move on. Anuj should have found a suitable girl for himself but NO his obsession with Anupama ruined his life. Why did GK stood as a mute spectator when Anuj was stalking Anupama through Devika?

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Ravanraj was trying to manipulate Malavika aka Mukku against Anuj. Anupama even though she was aware of Ravanraj's malicious intenions did not do any thing to prevent Mukku from walking into his trap. Anuj was always against Ravanraj's and Mukku's partnership. Even though Anuj had tried to act his 26 saal ka pyaar took away his reason to act against. Ravanraj was constantly trying to steal the Kapadia Empire through Mukku. Whatever you have said is 100% correct. Even though Toshu knew that his father was wrong he chose to support his father. Finally, Malavika fires Ravanraj, Toshu and Kavya for trying to steal the Kapadia Empire by brain washing Mukku against Anuj. This happens when the preparations for the most immature, pathetic and useless wedding (Anuj weds Anupama) are in full swing.

No from what i saw in show in 2021 dec i think in christmas celebration anuj handed full kapadiya empie to mukku and said "I am sure you and vanraj will take it to greater heights" in front of all shahs

But mukku refused to take the kapadiya empire and burnt papers

Anuj knew vanraj was bad but to pls anupama he was always giving vanraj opportunity to use malvika and snatch kapadiya empire

Anuj never ever told malvika how bad vanraj is and that he had affairs with kavya married to anupama for 8 years etc etc

He always was half heated to handle vanraj as he knew if he act against vanraj, anupamma will leave him

Also anupama was laughing and talking to vanraj in office cafeteria and drinking coffes with vanraj in kapadiya empire although hes having affair with mukku that time

Anupama never informed gk kaka or anuj although she stayed with them about what was vanraj intentions with regard to mukku for very long till last

malvika herself never had family or love ever so vanraj sweet talked her always, he reminded her doctor appointments, brought her chocolates etc and even went to mumbai with her alone on business tour which anuj allowed never objected

I am not sure what vanraj did on that trip because after that malvika became very close to him and got brain washed by vanraj

Originally posted by: Historia

Isn't Anuj behaving like a srk Darr psycho lover . How come maan fans never questioned devika spy on anupama marriage life .

How come Gk kaka nd mukku are fine with Anuj spying on his crush marriage life??

How can devika give information to Anuj ,(who she considered as her best friend ) for giving.pirvste information on her marriage life .even anupama never questioned devika ?? But why??

Did muku or Gk kaka even know that anuj was spying on anupama thru devika

Muku said she knew bhai writes poerty for anupama last 26 years and tellls her

As far as GK kaka there did he know anuj was spying on anupam alife thru devika and never stopped him

I find GK kaka behaviour odd which father/mother will support son to be in love with a girl of 26 years back would they not force son to marry and forget her as shes others wife?

But GK kaka as opp he always supported anuj weird obsession with anupama and consoled him when he cried etc and went visiting shahs home often

No real father/mom will behave like gk kaka actually in 26 years

anuj may be immature but Gk kak had maturity if he wanted he could stop anuj obsession in USA only and marry him off at 30 years as anuj considered him mummy

Malavika i am not sure shes too small when parents died a kid and was married off at 21 and than divorced and than roaming world in depression next 10 years

She was small like 13-15 years younger to anuj almost so you think anuj will listen to her never

In malvika-anuj relationship, anuj is dominant one and controls Malvika

Like how he chased of her BF in college and married her off to a brute

Even in india anuj never treate malvika nicely he would shout at her and bark orders refused to join back kapadiya empire etc hes dominating her like how vanraj dominated anupama

Devika should not have given anupama info to anuj bt may be she had monetary benefits so did it (job in anuj company)

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Anuj is indeed a stalker like SRK in 1993 block buster Darr. Had Anupama come to know that Anuj was spying on her through Devika, Anupama would not have married Anuj. Any normal human being would forget Anupama and try to move on. Anuj should have found a suitable girl for himself but NO his obsession with Anupama ruined his life. Why did GK stood as a mute spectator when Anuj was stalking Anupama through Devika?

anupama would still marry anuj

a that time shahs needed anuj wealth and help

anupama married him so shahs benefit or kapadiya family relation would be cut with shahs as malvika hated vanraj for cheating her and would have not allowed anuj to keep any relation with shahs

only bec anuj was in love with anupama he supported vanraj and shahs and not malvika

if anupam arefused his marraige he would turn against shahs

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Did muku or Gk kaka even know that anuj was spying on anupama thru devika

Muku said she knew bhai writes poerty for anupama last 26 years and tellls her

As far as GK kaka there did he know anuj was spying on anupam alife thru devika and never stopped him

I find GK kaka behaviour odd which father/mother will support son to be in love with a girl of 26 years back would they not force son to marry and forget her as shes others wife?

But GK kaka as opp he always supported anuj weird obsession with anupama and consoled him when he cried etc and went visiting shahs home often

No real father/mom will behave like gk kaka actually in 26 years

anuj may be immature but Gk kak had maturity if he wanted he could stop anuj obsession in USA only and marry him off at 30 years as anuj considered him mummy

Malavika i am not sure shes too small when parents died a kid and was married off at 21 and than divorced and than roaming world in depression next 10 years

She was small like 13-15 years younger to anuj almost so you think anuj will listen to her never

In malvika-anuj relationship, anuj is dominant one and controls Malvika

Like how he chased of her BF in college and married her off to a brute

Even in india anuj never treate malvika nicely he would shout at her and bark orders refused to join back kapadiya empire etc hes dominating her like how vanraj dominated anupama

Devika should not have given anupama info to anuj bt may be she had monetary benefits so did it (job in anuj company)

Are you sure that Anuj had offered a job to Devika in his company? As far as I know Anuj was in the US and Devika was in India.

There is no ideal wife for Anuj - not Devika not any angel from heaven... The rich man that he was, it's not that he would have had dearth of options, who would have matched his stature. If he still couldn't get himself to get fixated at one, that means he should remain single. He could only commit to one woman that is Anupamaa. If he was capable of committing, he would have done to Shruti. What Anuj should realise, is his own mindset and stop giving entry to women in his life with whom he can't do any justice, just because they think he is too handsome to resist and are ready to lay their lives for him. Women can become ideal wives for him, but he can't become ideal husband to any unless it is Anupamaa, so what's the point. Better remain single. The 26 years of love was too much.

Moreover, I think Anupamaa should have had a character growth. The only reason we are saying all this that Anuj deserved another ideal wife is because Anupamaa's character never got elevated. She should have cut off from Vanraj and Baa, best would have been to put them in jail for what they did to her. The interaction with her children should have been better like preparing them for life's challenges, making them mentally prepared that she might not always be around to cater to all their problems, so they need to become independent and become responsible. Should have led by example and turned her life for good, so that her children feel inspired and respect her, which they don't because whole of their life they saw Vanraj and Baa being dominant and enjoying a powerful position in the household, so Tosu and Pakhi emulate them. Anuj's role should have been to help and guide her better so that she slowly let's go off the inferiority complex and years of conditioning, helped her set up business, may be could have taught her to better present herself, instead of her teaching him how to become a Shah servant...

Point is I feel Anupamaa and Anuj should have only gotten married with Anupamaa getting an exponentially rising character graph not what she got and what she became.

After that they could have taken a leap which they anyway have to take even with this worst storyline.

Originally posted by: InsaneDivine

There is no ideal wife for Anuj - not Devika not any angel from heaven... The rich man that he was, it's not that he would have had dearth of options, who would have matched his stature. If he still couldn't get himself to get fixated at one, that means he should remain single. He could only commit to one woman that is Anupamaa. If he was capable of committing, he would have done to Shruti. What Anuj should realise, is his own mindset and stop giving entry to women in his life with whom he can't do any justice, just because they think he is too handsome to resist and are ready to lay their lives for him. Women can become ideal wives for him, but he can't become ideal husband to any unless it is Anupamaa, so what's the point. Better remain single. The 26 years of love was too much.

Moreover, I think Anupamaa should have had a character growth. The only reason we are saying all this that Anuj deserved another ideal wife is because Anupamaa's character never got elevated. She should have cut off from Vanraj and Baa, best would have been to put them in jail for what they did to her. The interaction with her children should have been better like preparing them for life's challenges, making them mentally prepared that she might not always be around to cater to all their problems, so they need to become independent and become responsible. Should have led by example and turned her life for good, so that her children feel inspired and respect her, which they don't because whole of their life they saw Vanraj and Baa being dominant and enjoying a powerful position in the household, so Tosu and Pakhi emulate them. Anuj's role should have been to help and guide her better so that she slowly let's go off the inferiority complex and years of conditioning, helped her set up business, may be could have taught her to better present herself, instead of her teaching him how to become a Shah servant...

Point is I feel Anupamaa and Anuj should have only gotten married with Anupamaa getting an exponentially rising character graph not what she got and what she became.

After that they could have taken a leap which they anyway have to take even with this worst storyline.

Anupama could have become well educated after giving divorce to Forest King (aka Vanraj) with funding from Anuj. After that she could have got a good job in her own chosen field (Apart from dance). Even though Anuj got Anupama enrolled for a financial diploma course in Pakhi's college, there was no serious intention on the part of Anupama to learn. What they showed was Anuj acting like a lover boy dancing in front of Anupama.

No, nobody deserves Anuj. He should either be alone or with Anupamaa because family member in his life will be chopped up and sacrificed in service of Anupamaa. So please just get him married to Anupamaa and seperate him from Adhya so that the poor girl can have a better life than just being reduced to a sacrificial lamb for the people ApMaan really care about.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

No, nobody deserves Anuj. He should either be alone or with Anupamaa because family member in his life will be chopped up and sacrificed in service of Anupamaa. So please just get him married to Anupamaa and seperate him from Adhya so that the poor girl can have a better life than just being reduced to a sacrificial lamb for the people ApMaan really care about.

That cannot happen

adhya is minor 13 year old

Till 18 she cannot decide with whom she live

So she still has to stay with anuj and anupama no matter what abuse or force?

As far as i see anuj will never love or care for anyone over anupam aand shahs not his own adopted parents, not gk kaka, not malvika, not adhya, not ankush or sara or adhik

His full relatives are use and throw for anuj kapadiya

He and anupam aare similar by nature - that is why he loved anupam ain college may be

anuj use and throw his sister, brother, daughter etc all

anupama use and throw anuj and adhya and kapadiyas like malati devi, adhik for studies, barkha to stand against shahs for her etc

anuj and anupama rae two sides of same coin same by character