Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 16 Mar 2023 - Page 3

A single male can adopt a child in India, just that he can't adopt girl child.

And the thing is that, if court had decided in maaya's favour then he would have understood that he lost after putting up a good fight or atleast it would have happened without anupama's interference in it.

But here clearly, chhoti told anupama about how she loves them more than maaya and is happy with them but still choosing to be with maaya because she dont want to be the reason for their fights. How selfless that child is. If a child ever thinks like that then isn't it the duty of parents to explain that she is not the reason of their fighting, she shouldn't take it on herself.

Anuj was trying to do the same but what anuapama did, deviji let little child continue to think like that. Clearly she is implanting her mahaanta syndrome seeds in her, the very same disease because of which deviji has suffered her whole life.

Anupama didn't even let anuj try to convince back chhoti and now expecting he wont even say a word against her. This is plain stupidity.

As far as anuj's love is concerned. The famous saying comes true in their case, love is blind but marriage is eye opener.

Anuj loved her blindly. He barely knew her, yes he kept getting news from devika but its different comparing to seeing someone, living with her, knowing her habits. He may still love her with that intensity but he now knows that she sucks at being a life partner. She is a maid inherently, that too shah's maid.

Anupama already had three grown up children but anuj is experiencing fatherhood for first time. Vanraj goes on to threatening anuj whenever he feels anuj will take his place as father even after all these years. So just think about anuj, chhoti was snatched from her because anupama didn't even let him try to change her mind.

Yes, anupama may have done something remarkable in her life but mostly she has been a fool and doormat all her life. So as much as there is maaya's fault in this twisted case, as much as anuj's feelings come across as obsession sometimes, but still the fact that anupama has a big role in messing this up can't be denied. And she is answerable to anuj for this.

Wait I haven't watched the episode yet, but you're telling me Anupama just let CA go?? After hearing her say she's happier with Maan and knowing fully well that Maaya manipulated her? How can ANYONE defend this behaviour? She's allowing a SEVEN year old to sacrifice her own happiness and also letting her think she's the reason for all the fights between her parents? She didn't even tell her that's not true? OMG this is infuriating. yesterday I thought Anuj's behaviour in the promo was horrible but now it's so understandable, if this is the reason?

Please, where are the Anupama supporters who said Anupama is going to use this and expose Maya and Maya ki dhulai hogi and all that? Is what Anupama doing now correct? Please tell us how this can be justified. The kid told her the reason, she didn't bother correcting her or telling her that all of that is untrue and she also didn't tell Anuj?? This has nothing to do with the court or anything, this is about CA's happiness (which she claims was all she cared about, but we can see it's bullshit now) and misunderstanding. If she cared so much, she would never let her live with the thought that she caused problems between the parents and also knowing Maya is so manipulative. She never won the challenge fairly, she could've at least brought that out since Maya kept harping on the 15 day challenge thing. She could've patiently explained to CA or made Anuj explain. The fact that she did nothing shows she just wants to get rid of the child.

DISGUSTING. No words.

I have written in my previous post girl cannot adopt. By single male please read mu post carefully

I did not say child cannot adopt by single male I.clearly say thst girl child cannot adopt by single male

Anupama is right anupama chahe to sau baat maaya ko suna sakti hsi but anupama right at this point also ki agar choti ko.pata chalega ko uski khud ki Maa ne jhooth bola to uski beti choti ko Kitni taqleef hogi ki uski khud ki Maa ne aisa Kiya

Choti ko dhakka na lage apni Maa ki kartut sun ke isliye anupama khuch nahi bol paa rahi hai maaya ko

Other wise anupama maaya ko sau sunaye

aur yeh anuj mahashaye baar baar yeh keh rahe hain main. Choti ko kisi haal mein apne se door nahi jaane doonga

Anuj to doosra option rakh hi na rahe ki.court agar maaya ko custody deti hsi to choti ko jaane doonga but anuj Tod's was saying chahe legally chahe Jo ho jaaye main choti ko apne se door jaane hi nahi doonga

Anuj ne doosra option kahan choda hai

What a selfish mother/wife Anupama. Hid the real truth from Anuj that CA loves them more and confessed she would be happier to stay with them but is manipulated to believe that her parents are fighting because of that.

She locked Anuj to force him to let CA go. Did not even let him talk peacefully to CA one last time.

Anupama is more abusive than Vanraj Shah. What a toxic and heartless woman who forcefully separated a daughter and father.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama is right anupama chahe to sau baat maaya ko suna sakti hsi but anupama right at this point also ki agar choti ko.pata chalega ko uski khud ki Maa ne jhooth bola to uski beti choti ko Kitni taqleef hogi ki uski khud ki Maa ne aisa Kiya

Choti ko dhakka na lage apni Maa ki kartut sun ke isliye anupama khuch nahi bol paa rahi hai maaya ko

Other wise anupama maaya ko sau sunaye

aur yeh anuj mahashaye baar baar yeh keh rahe hain main. Choti ko kisi haal mein apne se door nahi jaane doonga

Anuj to doosra option rakh hi na rahe ki.court agar maaya ko custody deti hsi to choti ko jaane doonga but anuj Tod's was saying chahe legally chahe Jo ho jaaye main choti ko apne se door jaane hi nahi doonga

Anuj ne doosra option kahan choda hai

Only those should support Anupama today who will be okay if Anuj locks her up to forcefully convince her for anything! Rules don't just apply to women! Abusive and insensitive approach.

Surabhi, what will be your opinion if Anuj locks her up forcefully?

There is difference between locking and accepting the truth

Originally posted by: surabhi01

There is difference between locking and accepting the truth

Any married woman try this on her husband and come back here if he is happy with her locking him and forcing him?

If a wife is forced like this then there will be threads here calling her husband an MCP and what not! But Anupama is still a devi and sanatan satya! That is hypocritical.

Choti ko dukh hoga ki uski biological Maa ne jhoot bola? Aur ab kya dukh kam hain? Right now imagine she's going to grow up thinking she had to leave the family she was happy with because her parents FOUGHT because of her. Any kid's psyche gets seriously affected when their parents fight and they often blame themselves, even biological kids in any family. CA, an orphan who was finally adopted by a family after praying for a loving happily family and then CHOOSING to leave without being stopped by anyone because she thought she's the cause of their problems is even worse. She's going to grow up with so many psychological issues and trauma. None of this is for CA's benefit. She may be upset that her biological mother is a liar, but she clearly already seems to know she's manipulative and creates problems. She herself said that. So it won't be so impossible to digest for her and is always better for her in the long run.

Anupama keeps making all these decisions on her own, without consulting Anuj, how else will he feel other than suffocated? She didn't even let him talk to her properly the last time! Whether Anuj is acting obsessive or not, what CA told her is a very important factor that Anuj had every right to know. How could she hide such a huge thing from him?

And now Anupama stopped Maya from taking the DNA test and now let CA go with her in spite of knowing the truth, what happens if maya is proven a fraud like all the bhakts kept saying? If she has bad intentions, WHOSE fault is it then? Even then it won't be Anupama's fault, some illogical justification will be given right? Now I really hope Maya is proven a fraud. Can't wait to see the lengths they'll go to defend Anupama even though all this is her doing.

Abuse must not be glorified. Be it woman or man. NO double standards.

Anuj should take divorce from Anupama on the grounds of mental harassment and domestic abuse.