Originally posted by: suma_yudkbh
If Naina got the slap because she held his collar and initiated the abuse then why didn't anybody talk about the previous episode in which Sameer jerks her, roughly holds her hand and mishandled her while taunting her for being middle class.
He asked her several times to leave his home. After 4years of love and just 6month old marriage a husband is asking his wife repeatedly to leave his home. Wasn't this as frustrating as Sameer's office frustration?
I think in the particular episode it is Sameer not Naina who was the initiator. Actually, I felt very sorry for Naina who was waiting all day to make amends for the earlier night's fight and instead she got marginalized and demeaned. Verbal abuse is domestic violence too but it just does not garner enough impact because it is not as visible as slap and in most cases is downplayed as spat between quarreling couple. But how is it OK to nullify a wrong by wrong? So husband verbally abuses wife, wife scuffles his collar and verbally insult him in return with the speech of abandonment, he slaps her in anger and she slap him back in retaliation. What kind vicious cycle is that? I don't see any good in any of the action. If these kids still are interested in saving their marriage,they have to do better than getting even.
Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil
I think in the particular episode it is Sameer not Naina who was the initiator. Actually, I felt very sorry for Naina who was waiting all day to make amends for the earlier night's fight and instead she got marginalized and demeaned. Verbal abuse is domestic violence too but it just does not garner enough impact because it is not as visible as slap and in most cases is downplayed as spat between quarreling couple. But how is it OK to nullify a wrong by wrong? So husband verbally abuses wife, wife scuffles his collar and verbally insult him in return with the speech of abandonment, he slaps her in anger and she slap him back in retaliation. What kind vicious cycle is that? I don't see any good in any of the action. If these kids still are interested in saving their marriage,they have to do better than getting even.
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