Originally posted by: lostmymusic.
And really, what Wali said made sense as well. All his life he has lived surrounded by love only. The love between his parents, or Agha Jaan's love for his grandchildren. The haveli only had love in it. Wo tou when he met Ruhi and Farah tou he came across this blind hatred which refuses to see logic or even give someone a chance. Wali always treated Farah with love and affection. He wished to make her comfortable around him by showing her the loving and caring side to him. So how could Wali agree to live a life of compromise? From the beginning he made sure to tell Farah that whatever the circumstances behind their nikaah were, he has accepted her for himself by his own will than just what their fathers' wishes were. So now years later when Farah did agree to accept him, she did so by saying the compromising words..
"Agha Jaan ko dukh nahin dena chahti..."
"Ye tumhare Baba, mere chacha, aur mere Baba ki khwahish thi.."
That was bound to hurt Wali more than her blatant rejection of him. At least she rejected him from her own free will cuz that's what she wanted. But she was accepting him by defying her own wishes and for the sake of someone else. Even if Wali did accept her acceptance of the nikaah..this thing would've always lived between them that their relationship is always a compromise rather than a relationship formed on mutual love.
Wali is a mix of his parents in this regard. The Suhaib in him readily accepted the proposal Behroze put in front of him cuz Baba ki khwahish. The Arjumand in him wants a relationship formed on mutual love and acceptance than a zabardasti ka rishta imposed on him which has to be fulfilled via compromise.
Yes exactly. Thats what Wali thinks. He does not want their relationship to be based on compromise. Farah's wishes are important to him, he used the words like zabardasti during the conversation and it obvious that he was hurting deep down. His expressions said it all!
Oh yes, there is a bit of both of him parents in him. Suhaib jaisa dil aur family ke lyeah pyaar hai to Arjumand jaisi pride and gairat bhi hai. He wants to live his life on his own terms and conditions..
Mais, amazing gifs as always!! π
Edited by mary78613 - 9 years ago
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