Faisal qreshi Dramas - Page 5

Originally posted by: cimba

WOW ... thanks. this day and age two wives with kids too probably... too expensive and headaches of keeping the peace .. what do women feel ? hope they live in the separate houses. fighting for attention and love. Feel of constant insecurities. I cant see my self in that mess. I always joke that next time around I want a wife not a husband but sure the stress of handling two wives is too much.

Originally posted by: pk14

yea u are right .. when a woman loves then she gives everything to her relation . And sharing is not an easy thning to do .When it comes to husband .then ofourse it is very difficult for any woman to b stable emotionally . but i have seen examples . i have seen in my neighouhood there is a family .Actually a joint family . The boy is rich and has two wives to my surprise i met his wives at wedding and when i got to know abt that they are sotans . But they were so good to each other . i was astonished . how come they are bearing each other and i asked them . How ? then they told me . both of them have equal kids . And husband is financialy strong He spends equal money on both of them . If he brings a gift for his 1st wife then he bring the same gift for the second one . both of them live in the same home under same roof . So there are examples .
This is the condition of marrying a 2nd woman in islam . u cannot marry the 2nd woman untill or unless u provide full justice to both of them .Islam allows it due the fact that women are more in number than men in the world . And secondly its is allowed some men begin extra marital relations (sexual ones ) And to prohibit the sin and it allows nikah for second woman . 3rdly islam asks that if u want to marry and have a second wife then prefer a divorcee or widow . So that u can protect them and b thier guardian .
But over all its not necessary to have 2 or 3 wives . It is all about conditions and niyat .