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OnlyHope

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Posted: 11 years ago

#861

The scene where Kiran signs her divorce papers and has flashbacks of signing the Nikah papers touched me like no other. I can't even begin to put it into words...I was literally in shivers and tears..

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Hammad&Imaan (KAM)

Posted: 11 years ago

#862

I thought you dont watch the show :S

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Sania Fatima

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Posted: 11 years ago

#863

Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.
Omggg he married Arzoo so fast? Abhi to divorce hui thi

I think next episode mein kiran aur adnan ki shadi bhi ho jai gi 😳 dono hi super fast hain 😆

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OnlyHope

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Posted: 11 years ago

#864

Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.
I thought you dont watch the show :S

I haven't followed all through, but been in the AT throughout :P
And aaj, I wanted to see that scene..so ended up watching it..and.. *sigh*

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Ajnabee

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Posted: 11 years ago

#865

Originally posted by: 2direct.

One example would be her post marriage rights, when a woman gets married and shifts to her Husbands home, if it is a joint family setup and the wife demands to have a seperate home, it becomes obligatory for the husband to fulfill that demand, nor is the wife obliged to take care of her husband's family i.e parents, siblings etc. That's the son's duty. If she does it on her own accord her own will then that's her own choice otherwise she isn't required to do anything of the sort.

The husband is also obligated to spend his earnings on his wife first and then his own Mother. She has the first right to his salary. Now you see so much of cultural invasion/influences, that people infuse it with our Deen and the lines subsequently blur.

Those are some examples, my knowledge of Islam is very limited so I have a lot to learn myself 😆

That's okay, I'm in the same boat, so just trying to get more input on what people think - even limited knowledge is still knowledge. :)

Referring to your example above, however, how does that qualify as an "upper hand" for women? It would be an upper hand if a man was held accountable for his wife's parents but she was not responsible for his parents. In this case, Islam says your parents are your own responsibility and not your spouse's. Fair enough - but I see equal treatment here.

In the second example, we're comparing wives and mothers, and since most women end up playing both roles at some point in their lives, it doesn't really mean much.

I was specifically asking about women having an upper hand over a man's rights in Islam. If you think of any, do share! Same goes for everyone else. :)

I liked your writing, you should keep at it. Thanks for the translation! My Urdu is really weak when it comes to poetry especially.

@Heavenly Bliss: Thanks for the translations as well! :)

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starstruckk

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Posted: 11 years ago

#866

Originally posted by: OnlyHope

I haven't followed all through, but been in the AT throughout :P
And aaj, I wanted to see that scene..so ended up watching it..and.. *sigh*

I think you're missing out on a great show though. That scene would've been another thing altogether if you were following the drama thoroughly.

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Ajnabee

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Posted: 11 years ago

#867

Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.
I always thought a husband has to keep it balanced between his wife and mother with his earnings and everything. I never knew if she demands a seperate home, then hes obliged to get one. Who takes care of the parents then? :S Since daughters leave their home after marriage, and if the son also moves out...wouldn't the parents be left alone?

You can take care of parents without living with them, although I do realize it can be difficult. I could counter your question with what about a girl who has no brother and marries - who takes care of her parents?

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starstruckk

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Posted: 11 years ago

#868

@ Woh Ajnabee: heyy! did you watch this week's episode?

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Ajnabee

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Posted: 11 years ago

#869

Originally posted by: starstruckk

ahah yeah I know, I know..the right hair products plus a great straightener always helps. 😆

I completely agree with your posts above. I'm not too sure why there's always this obnoxious obsession with that ONE guy which can never be yours, in particularly in the desi society? lol..I mean Arzoo really is delusional but her mother is worse. Your analogy to Humsafar's Sara is perfect because Arzoo and her mother are quite similar to Sara and her mother. Though I have a feeling whenever Sikandar does marry Arzoo, he may just become a better person as in not be abusive? however, he'll just never love her. I'm not too sure how this show will end which is intriguing. I just hope to see Kiran being happy and satisfied in whatever space she chooses to live in...hopefully it all makes sense too.

and oh yes, I think I can see a few actresses attempting Kiran in their own ways, but none would justify it as much as Sanam Baloch. Sanam Baloch is playing Kiran so beautifully..you feel sorry for her but at the same time you're rooting for her. She's such a phenomenal performer. I like the synonymous fangirling! 😆

@red: It's the obsession with finding a good "rishta" - that's where life begins and ends for a girl in desi society. Of course things are changing, but the obsession is still prevalent. I don't know about a guy that can never be yours, but mothers purposefully place these obsessions in their daughters so they don't fall for another guy, so they repeat and repeat and repeat that you will marry this boy and only this boy throughout their lives. It doesn't take much to create an obsession at a young age. They get distracted from everything else and only focus on this one dream.

I don't think Sikandar will physically abuse Aarzoo either. The unique thing about this show is that Sikandar truly fell in love with Kiran. This is not one of those shows where a "bechari" girl marries a villain who ruins her life. Sikandar falls in love with Kiran and Kiran does the same, but Sikandar has a problem handling his anger and has been raised with a certain mentality when it comes to women and marriage. He's not a complete villain, there is more than one occasion where I truly feel for him (but I guess it doesn't take much for me to get angry again 😆).

Sikandar still has a few redeeming qualities - his love for Kiran will change him and make him into a better man. She will leave him, but he will realize his mistake and change himself. He will grow as a person, realize his mistakes (which he's already doing) and change. I think that's the point of the show that he loves her but his actions don't translate his feelings. That's the catch. Aarzoo's devastation will be a result of his distance and lack of emotions in this marriage. He will most likely confess how he physically abused Kiran in their marriage. But despite everything, Aarzoo will lose Sikandar to Kiran again, even if only metaphorically.

Also, SB was awesome once again. Her scene with her mother was phenomenal! I cried in that scene. Every mother should tell her daughter that she is extraordinary and teach her to stand up for herself in life no matter what happens. Respect yourself. That is the only way others will respect you.

I always say I'll write less but I end up writing an entire essay every time. Sorry! 😆

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Ajnabee

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Posted: 11 years ago

#870

Originally posted by: starstruckk
@ Woh Ajnabee: heyy! did you watch this week's episode?

Aapko hi reply likh rahi thee. A really long one at that! :)

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