What matters to sai? - Page 5

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I mean if she gets back to him...as in marriage...for the sake of the kids..as a compromise...but does not give him a place in her heart as a life-partner...that will be a too-good-to-be-true scenario for me. So thanks for such a positive prediction 🤣. I am imagining far worse scenarios in my head 😆.

But tell me, what does Sai make of his attempts at flirting...the holding her hand & asking for maafi. Is he confused? And what exactly was he apologizing for?

Thats the quintessential classic SaiRat... aka deal marriage which they can drag some more. 😆

Virat Sir aisa kyun kar Rahe Hai? Unke dil main to Pakhi didi ke liye feelings hai...

On the other side...

Sai tum Kab meri feelings ko samjhogi ...

Good enough??? 🤪

Originally posted by: LadyD

I think Virat has said multiple times that P has married a guy who is can't be her husband, Vinu is only think she has. But not sure if its registered in Sai's mind. She has also heard how Virat suffered in her absence but still Virat putting P above her is what hurts her. She doesn't trust his loyalty in that respect for good reason. He will have to earn it. Right now he is not making enough efforts.

BTW why wasn't Sai surprised when Virat stopped P throwing Sai out of CN when she arrived with her bags? Does she trust him standing up for his daughter?

Not sure. She was determined that she will stay in CN till Vinu comes out of trauma..come what may...no matter who opposes her. I don't think she was banking on Virat's support. But somewhere she isn't surprised...because he has promised to help her regarding Vinu. Maybe she is prepared for his pendulum behaviour...he may or may not support depending on his mood...so she expects nothing from him?

For Sai, more than her feelings V's feelings are important, not like P who will thopo her feelings on him. And V time and again proved that that he loves P and she is important for him more than anyone else in the world. Sai took 5 years pre leap to accept V, again she will take time to understand, and she will not till the time V doesn't mend ways. She started trusting him regarding Vinu's truth before the truth was out but he betrayed her in worst possible way for P. She time and again says you don't seey pain but hers, so for Sai being truthful is required... V is jhoota of the highest order.

Originally posted by: -honeydew-

I think most people did pretty much say what I wanted to but I’ll share my thoughts as well.

- I think from word go Sai was always aware of the presence of this third element in her and Virat’s life and never sadly could get that out of her mind. And Virat also never tried to do anything to prove her wrong, at times when he had to assure her, he went and confessed his feelings for Sai in front of Pakhi boldly but never clarified or categorically stated to Sai that Pakhi stopped existing between the two of them. Had he used the same energy to opposite places things would have been diff for the couple i . e ignoring Pakhi and her overt gestures openly and boldly telling in front of the world that Pakhi was a closed chapter in his life and she is all that mattered. All his assurances to her were in private that too in a very unconvincing manner while his support towards Pakhi was always out in the open in front of the family ! So why would Sai, ever want to gain that faith- with time though she fell in love with him she learnt to love with despite the presence of Pakhi, making her own place , hoping deep down inside that when the time comes her partner would bestow her the respect she deserves ! Unfortunately that never happened so Sai never really got a chance to believe or think she was ever no 1 in his life.

- when she returned after the leap as well though she was shown extremely hurt that Virat had moved on; never bothered looking for her or even married Pakhi IMO it was hurtful but never shocking or surprising, because her worst fears had only come true, the times when she screamed her lungs out and said to him that she knew he would side Pakhi didi, he should admit his feelings for Pakhi didi, the times when she said Virat May have been upset that Samrat came in between Virat and Pakhi and he was upset, though Virat was upset she was over reacting, his subsequent actions only went on to point towards her logical deduction that she was always right about her assumption when it came to Pakhi and Virat. Like Virat was her first love, in her head Pakhi was Virat’s first and if he took this decision it was not totally unexpected but it was heartbreaking to know her subsequently being in his life perhaps held no significance in his life. That’s why she became cold and detached towards him because she was upset with herself for loving a man so much when he couldn’t return her love in the same magnanimity.

As far as her knowing about them consummating their marriage, I don’t think it really mattered to Sai so much then nor does it now because like everyone else here is saying physical consummation hardly could erase the insults and accusations and rock solid support he gave to Pakhi during all times when he should have actually been with Sai. Even if he decided to support his family and it’s honour before the leap and stand by PL despite all the proofs against her and Sai begging him to see reason, after knowing she was dead, he didn’t do anything to show his solidarity to Sai. It became evident to Sai once again that even her death didn’t evoke enough love in him, in wanting to see all the wrong she had committed. Had he really been right he would have married PL for Vinu, but continued to punish her for Sai leaving the house and subsequently dying. Instead he married her, and continued to have a happy life with her, and even after Sai returned he went out of his way to show how he was not just grateful to PL for standing by him all those years he would never leave her no matter what.

When she broke down in front of him two times once in the cafe and once in a state of trance, she never meant for him to come back to her. She was simply venting because she didn’t have anyone else to share her feelings with and it just meant her letting off some steam , while to Virat those two meltdowns gave me clarity about the pain he put her through and guilt of making the mistake he had committed. That’s why he softened towards her after seeing her emotional state, because knew and very well knows he is solely responsible for her being in the condition she is today while he is still in a happier space. He continues to be mild on PL citing mental health as a reason, because in his head he is this mahaan being who is born to endure pain at the cost of his happiness. But Sai constantly bursts that bubble for him by making him time and again realise, his actions have taken her far away from him, she will not show externally that him being seen with his wife will effect her- though he very well knows her feelings as she admitted them herself in her unconscious state. His ego isn’t ready to accept that a woman he is so drawn to and is so madly in love with will not openly admit she wants to be with him, instead she reminds him time and again that it was he who ruined their relationship and he will never be loyal to her - and she is aware of it. In that sense the presence of Sai is still a challenge in his life because he is with a woman who loves him and wants him but he doesn’t want her, for the want of being with a woman who he left himself and now when he doesn’t want her to think badly of him, she is maintaining a I don’t care attitude towards him. That’s why he time and again tries to remind her of the past hoping she will melt, but she shows him if she is around him it is because of the children that bind them.

However very soon there will come a time when he will want her to love him the way he loves her and he will want to be the right man in her life; and do the right things by perhaps going out of his comfort space and taking a few calls as heart wants it as opposed to it being his duty or responsibility. He is almost there, but Sai has moved far far away, and that is the biggest challenge in front of him. If they reconcile and it is for the sake of the kids it will be just like him

Marrying Pakhi for Vinu, and Virat surely wants more than that from his union with Sai. He is a weak and imperfect man working towards finding a comfort zone without ruffling too many feathers but this time he has to face his karma head on and Sai won’t let him have it easy either !

Originally posted by: Moor278

Sadhika... We have discussed this many times... you know my thoughts...

Still putting out a few more based on recent episodes.

I feel Sai will accept V for the sake of kids... as their father but not as husband or lover for a long time.

They are showing her accommodating him for either Saavi or Vinu's sake... so much that she has moved into CN in spite of suffering so much and vowing not to return. Also she is cordial to V... they do slip into familiar territory once in a while but its mostly on V's prodding.

Anyway, theirs wasn't a clean break up and there are lot of residual feelings. It is bound to come up, especially when talking about kids.

The other thing that you mentioned is the celibacy... Till the accident, she heard it from many, including BK... there was an eye contact initiated by V when BK accused him of ignoring P when she was missing.

Sai probably knows V was celibate till that point.

But then came the HM and pheras.... V doesn't know yet Sai saw it... but P has shown it to her. Sai imagined them getting cozy and post that there has been no mention of physical intimacy of VP.

Sai is still influenced by P in one way or another... P knows how to push which buttons... so as per your original theory... only P vouching for celibacy will convince Sai I feel ...

More importantly and it may trouble you and other SaiRat fans... I don't think we will get a proper apology from V.... BK might ask for forgiveness even ... but not V.... Vanku has never made V apologize to her honestly... it is always laced with regret. It is never for repentance.

V will gain forgiveness through his actions... bringing back Vinu and Sai together and Sai will forgive just based on this. In other words, white wash or doormat behaviour like few people term it.

As for accepting him, she will be pressurized by kids and BK, they know her soft spot is kids... kids making her forgive V, get back with him will be the solution. It may also happen that kids will start hating V, Sai wont be able to tolerate that as thats not her upbringing... so in order to create a good impression for their father, Sai will be made to be extra casual and soft on V... advocating for him in public.

Sai V may then go back to deal phase again in priavte and V will struggle to break that ice. If Vanku is intent on keeping P alive and in CN, they may then make her truly positive but Sai would be too hurt to accept V wholeheartedly, dragging the situation for few more days.

I hope I am proved wrong on the P part and that she is redundant by the end of this. Have had too much of her. 😔

This might seem depressing but I am not keeping high hopes on V's redemption and repentance...

If like you say, this is broadly Ujanpur... then maybe something worthwhile will happen.

Fingers crossed.

Yes, I don’t see Vankar showing V repent or even realise. And that’s purely because of the offscreen bias he has. That and the fact that he is one miserable romance writer! Bet we can write better than him any day, in our sleep - Without Bias.

This show has no balance of content and the toxicity & Porky are beyond tolerance now. If I wanted to see a mad cap,I would go to visit an asylum instead of watching this witch!

It's Trust in Virat. They say Trust takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to rebuild.

Preleap even after surrogacy debacle, Pakhi’s blackmail Sai's trust remained unbroken. He not only took p alone for check ups ,also ice-cream dates in the night. Sai knew he was totally loyal as a husband and he was. But after Vinu's snatching and bailing P, V lost it forever. Sai is still there. The scars on her soul by Virat's choice darkened n got afresh post leap. That HM debacle probably made Sai stone to V's feelings. Deep down she knows he is not physical with P, but it doesn't change anything. He acknowDEledges her as his wife like in today's episode, Sai has accepted it. Currently, she doesn't expect anything from V other than cordial relationship with the father of her children. Though as per itv, sairat moments are there, but sadly no connect.

To get back into Sai's life as her lover n husband, first V has to stop prioritizing others before her. If in her life, he is the first and the last man....why not vice-versa be expected. Having heart eyes for Sai n eating from P's hands is damaging everything. That trust that she will be his priority....before their kids or even before his own life has to be established.

There are no shackles now, it's V who has to start now as it is his duty towards his love.

P.S. Makers though will bring dramatic twist to bring them together, still wish they maintain n present a man-woman relationship like it should be....like Sai Virat are. Sai should get her Virat, not Pakhi's left over pati or any deal for kids....NO. THIS TIME IT SHOULD WORK SAI AS A WOMAN DECIDING FOR HERSELF 👍🏼

@sadiltl Thanks for the tag to a beautiful post

Originally posted by: Nirip

It's Trust in Virat. They say Trust takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to rebuild.

Preleap even after surrogacy debacle, Pakhi’s blackmail Sai's trust remained unbroken. He not only took p alone for check ups ,also ice-cream dates in the night. Sai knew he was totally loyal as a husband and he was. But after Vinu's snatching and bailing P, V lost it forever. Sai is still there. The scars on her soul by Virat's choice darkened n got afresh post leap. That HM debacle probably made Sai stone to V's feelings. Deep down she knows he is not physical with P, but it doesn't change anything. He acknowDEledges her as his wife like in today's episode, Sai has accepted it. Currently, she doesn't expect anything from V other than cordial relationship with the father of her children. Though as per itv, sairat moments are there, but sadly no connect.

To get back into Sai's life as her lover n husband, first V has to stop prioritizing others before her. If in her life, he is the first and the last man....why not vice-versa be expected. Having heart eyes for Sai n eating from P's hands is damaging everything. That trust that she will be his priority....before their kids or even before his own life has to be established.

There are no shackles now, it's V who has to start now as it is his duty towards his love.

P.S. Makers though will bring dramatic twist to bring them together, still wish they maintain n present a man-woman relationship like it should be....like Sai Virat are. Sai should get her Virat, not Pakhi's left over pati or any deal for kids....NO. THIS TIME IT SHOULD WORK SAI AS A WOMAN DECIDING FOR HERSELF 👍🏼

@sadiltl Thanks for the tag to a beautiful post

Don't know what Vanku ki Sai wants, but she should get her share of happiness. No terms no conditions this time. Though, it's too good or practical to be true😭

Originally posted by: Moor278

I would love P in a photo frame immensely... but I am highly skeptical of this....

And looking at BKs flip, he may bring up another positive P situation... where she might have really changed but going by precedents Sai would be doubtful. Again something which can be nicely dragged

Sai should not risk herself .. and believe them anymore

she’s better off right now .. Virat will only put her in expectation bracket ..so stay stuck with that she gorilla

Also when her kokh got removed .. P was crying like a banshee she won’t be able to gave virrrrattt ka bachha

That time she forgot that the old bat had married him for vinu with no expectations .. zindagi ka koi maqsad nahi tha

She had lost that maqsad for years

Even viraat cried as if he was expecting more kids with her in front of Sai .. maybe he was crying for vinu bit why wouldn’t Sai assume VP are a couple

You have put it very well agree with justly everything