this is indeed an interesting take on things - but I feel even when she lost her first pregnancy in a miscarriage and was accused by Pakhi of killing samrat, she continued to nurse Virat’s disturbed state of mind while she was still to come to terms with her own pain. Infact she was the one who encouraged Virat to either consider adoption or surrogacy to heal from the wounds of losing the baby. Virat himself confesses he finds it so hard to believe that a woman who needs consoling is being so strong while he has become such a weakling. She takes him to therapy and gets him out of the pain. But when after all that Patralekha cheats her way into the whole of the surrogacy drama and Virat silently supports her- goes to the extent of snatching away the baby from her and gives him to PL does she lose faith and trust in the man she loves - especially because she goes on to tell Virat that PL had warned her she would make Virat give him the baby in her hands on his own. When he does that her trust in him breaks as she finds herself all alone against a family that is standing against her to forgive a woman who always betrayed her. Virat even goes to the extent of saying he forgave her even when she was responsible for his brothers death and even if he said it in a fit of rage it was not done. How could she then feel safe in this environment after all that she endured to bring this child into the world ? She even agrees to stay away from PL throughout the pregnancy while trusting her husband to be with the woman he once loved- bur what does he do in the end ? He proves her wrong by siding his family and the woman who is instrumental in causing all this distress in her family and love life. That’s why she chooses the baby over the husband
Ma'am this is not right take, just remove a common element in all your sentences you will get to know that you have got back to the state of sentences what you have counterviewed of the guy who really poured practicality in the viewer's view and that element is hate for Virat. Let me tell you that after Samrat's death I was not watching ep fully so for me Virat is the 550 episodes wala Virat and not that surrogacy yeah I also started following it after leap so let me tell you on your views and let's conclude the toxic understanding that this show has emerged people into it I will gonna explain it but it depends whether you really take a taste of this or not, first thing when your husband's brother died in saving you and he was very emotionally attached to both his jeeva and his forecoming child that he used to always dream about his savi and share it with sai and even he did a lot of preparations for it like the room where he designed everything which was meant for his daughter's childhood ,etc the only lady who was and always present in all those situations was sai so if she had taken care of her husband when he really got detached from both these positive energies of brotherhood and fatherhood taking care was her farz chalo sai ne bhi farz nibhaya it's not always a man to take care of his wife sometimes in life you should be the one as Virat has taken care of you many times before I don't think so it needs special mention because she performed her duty as wife but the main game comes ahead when she plans for surrogacy, Virat didn't wanted that, he wanted to live 9months of you and him and cherish being in the zone of parenthood but sai enforced him for that because she wanted to be mother but this way wasn't initially acceptable by Virat he did it only for sai and then with time he started joining the wavelength with sai you will always get mention about this in the show that he wanted to be with sai during her pregnancy so after all this I don't think so it was favor of sai on Virat to heal his wounds of becoming father it was more of Sai's wound that got healed with that procedure and yeah when talked about all those surrogacy drama sai was the only one who were aware about Pakhi's intentions because she wanted her to get known to it and Virat didn't knew anything about Pakhi ki panchayat so if he favoured a widow woman of his brother who served as a helping hand in surrogacy because of which Virat and sai was gonna be parents and delievered the child, a sense of motherhood or it may be said as a bond between the mother and child generates and this was the only right thing pakhi possessed that time then being in joint family giving your son to that woman for some days not pakhi you are aware about(because we have seen it) what Virat was seeing I don't think he had done anything wrong he just returned the favor with this small deed as per his perspective and if sai can live with his vinu by residing in Pakhi's room till then also this all situations in perspective of Virat was right he wasn't able even not a single family member was aware about pakhi's intentions that completely though sometimes they have supported in some instances so Virat wasn't the wrong he was just reacting to what it was shown .The ultimate aspect and the most important one is that after knowing Pakhi's truth why family supported her, let me give my take on this if they would have not supported her, was Pakhi in jail really not in grief of whatever she did? Or pakhi was from then really got back to his old avatar I didn't find that pakhi again what about you all? So for sai it was more important to get revenge and see pakhi in pain then pakhi realising her mistakes and live a normal life she wanted badla everyone knows and fun fact is that the day sai and Virat got in a fight it was the first time I have really seen Virat being the big mouth and not sai and Virat should not be forgiven for that because this has got sai really hurt and he took vinu with her I don't know about this but is this crime really normalised in itv drama? that a mother can show monopoly what show its like she has monopoly on her child the confidence with which they abuse father and his children's relationship and is the only one who has the right to take the decision of her child's life I don't know but this is by my logic is one of the biggest crimes that a parent can do that can cost you your child's custody if prioritized with the chronological events in your relationship's disturbance because one can see it like this that sai wanted a child but she wasn't able to conceive so she took the help of medical science and with fertilisation got her baby there was an incident when the couples got in a fight and the mother without analysis of the situation took her son and blackmailed his husband even though his badi mami/kaku was previously emotionally blackmailing him for the thing he didn't wanted to but he did only for his family's reputation and the mother snatched baby from his life( this is what really get snatched means) and in their fight used his baby(though a parent is not legally allowed to show monopolistic rights of his/ her child on their own) for her desire to be satisfied she was stubborn as always and the whole family even sai also , can prove it ,then the child died, sai was missing she went to kankavli because she found herself pregnant and that child belonged to both sai and Virat but here also she decided on her own what is right for her baby she should be admired by not only Virat but everybody else for how strong she is and also everybody includes judge also she declared herself as single mother on her own ( single mother is a woman who has been left over by a man after making her pregnant and the other case is when a man's presence doesn't matter in nurturing the child because his presence and absence are the same it means he drinks, domestic violence, ) so by this decision which further lead to a lot of actions absolutely prove that she without the permission of court has hidden the fact of the baby with whom Virat was having very deep connection normally a dad has and not even with the view of informing him for the next 5-6 years also further but couldn't that is what a childhood of a daughter is and I think so it matters a lot in his father's life and specially when he was in a mental state where he would have died with the pain that he would have stopped his wife and child from leaving(this was just a thought of virat nobody means nobody can stop sai in this world) , special mention:she leaved the house because of a lady who got changed and gave her daughter to a man, who is the biggest enemy of his husband she knew everything about him but as you know that sai can sense person's innerself just by looking at their eyes and this is evident from Sai's past also she sensed love in the person of an eye his pulkit for devyani tai that he was told that devi tai got married and the next 10 years literally 10 years he wasn't able to find her but the lady was nowhere else infact inside the mansion chavan niwas she sensed love in their eyes that she decided to make them together forever and arranged their marriage secretly with pulkit without family's permission and not even Virat's her husband but after marriage she wanted her husband to know her perspective she was like Virat didn't allowed me to enter CN I will gonna make this whole families reputation her foot she went, luckily sai was right and Virat was needed to apologise though having reasonable side I don't want to uncover the past but funfact is that the girl who sensed lover in another man's eyes wasn't able to see love in her own husband's attitude change it was seen by many family members it was even said to her about that but sai being the most desirable woman on this earth bhav kha rhi thi and she even fought with Virat for calling pulkit dhokebaaz though he didn't knew about him because sai naa to galat hote hue dekh sakti hai na to sun sakti hai but bol to sakti hai na as sai's logic says she was the same woman who said this to Virat when he planned a wedding anniversary for her and wanted to propose her but sai is sai she insulted him like who the hell are you to think of a woman like me it can be seen by the lines she said