I was watching ep 25, and realised walima was not the only place he humiliated her, he did the same in her qatar wala nikah, then sent phone and car, without caring for the consequences, and at that time he was just trying to get over his guilt of destroying her life over a misunderstanding(maybe deep down inside he was in love with her but he ignored how she would have felt as she lost her self respect which was one thing that was her own. He repeatedly in a bid to clear his conscience did a lot of thing taht ultimately had a nefative impact on her and her image. She even pleaded in the restaurant to bring back her relations( i no way support her relatives, but i kind of understand how important a family even for namesake is for an orphan) but he said that wo toh main nahi kar skte. So sitara's mistrust for salar is goes deep down, and deal and zid wali baat was just expanded that distrust. So people berating her for her actions should watch earlier episodes as well to understand what a broken person Sitara is rn.
Exactly. I have said this before too. Salar is very lucky that he is the ML. Otherwise what he had done would have in any other drama ensured that he never gets into a radius of 50 km of Sitara ever again. He said that he saved her from the do bachhon ka baap but the truth is had he not interfered with her wedding with Qasim, she would have never landed up in that position. I think yesterday's episode was the first time he actually realised the position he had put Sitara in. There is also the factor that I think his possessiveness regarding Sitara went back to Hyderabad days, the way he reacted, with so much aggression, to Saba telling him to cancel Qasim's transfer and conditions, it was very clear that he was doing that because he was getting territorial.
A lot of people on X are saying that Tahir is a horrible father for not trusting his son but the way the events have played out, even to Tahir it seemed that Salar became obsessed over Sitara and had essentially trapped her into marrying him. It is at least good that Tahir is able to be neutral to his son like that otherwise had this really been a case of Salar forcibly marrying Sitara, she would have actually needed support and he would have given it to her. Right now, to Tahir, Sitara is holding herself up OK but he is waiting for things to fall apart and Sahiba incidence would have become that if it were not for Sitara genuinely trusting Salar.
He took his reputation for granted and while it is true that one should not pay too much attention to what people are saying, the context in which he was saying to Sitara was absolutely not conducive to it.
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