Meesha Shafi says Ali Zafar sexually harassed her- DTNpg14 - Page 6

Originally posted by: TheBoss

So going by this logic we should believe everything Kangana Ranaut has said? Like I said I have sympathies for everyone who go through this, and they should not ever have to suffer this, but irrespective of my feelings or emotions the burden of proof is still important. If I post here that AllThatCritique has borrowed 50k rupees from me, and have sent me sexually suggestive messages, and threaten to kill me with a shot gun then I better have something to back it up.

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Read what I wrote again. Chronic sexual harassment got to have proof because it isn't just momentary. Years of abuse will have proof but then there are child abuses cases where noone notices at all. Kangana's case had ample proof that she was lying. She wouldn't even give up the evidence herself. You can't equate that with this. And surely if I sent you sexually suggestive messages and threatened to kill you and borrowed money from you,thats a ton of evidence. But if I did grope you for a second without consent,thats gonna be traumatic for you but what evidence would you have against me.

Originally posted by: anonymous39

South Asia is a different place compared to the West. The average public never believes the woman in things like rape and sexual harassment especially without solid evidence.

I don't even know what solution there is. Let's say a woman claims she was fondled by in a man in an area no cameras, who do you believe? It's just her word against his. It's not fair to automatically blame the man either but it takes a lot for a woman to make this accusation usually. What solution can there be in situations where there is no proof?

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Read what I wrote again. Chronic sexual harassment got to have proof because it isn't just momentary. Years of abuse will have proof but then there are child abuses cases where noone notices at all. Kangana's case had ample proof that she was lying. She wouldn't even give up the evidence herself. You can't equate that with this. And surely if I sent you sexually suggestive messages and threatened to kill you and borrowed money from you,thats a ton of evidence. But if I did grope you for a second without consent,thats gonna be traumatic for you but what evidence would you have against me.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

None. Hence the benefit of doubt should go on you and be innocent unless proven guilty.

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

A loud NOPE again. The benefit of the doubt should lie with the one who had the courage to come out and say, 'yes, I have been assaulted' because that's 1000x harder than just keeping quiet. And idk how some people here are saying gender doesn't matter when your gender identity literally decides so much for you and how you are perceived in society. Its hard to come out and talk about abuse in a patriarchal society when your life is so much easier if you just keep your mouth shut.

Originally posted by: desigal90

A couple of my friends who have met Ali backstage described him as very flirtatious towards them. So I dunno. I feel more inclined to believer Meesha.

Originally posted by: anonymous39

There are other women on twitter saying he touched them inappropriately too. Also that his behavior is known in the Pakistani industry. 🤢