Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 03rd Oct 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 13

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Vidya getting crazy about juices

ye haath humein.de de thakur 😏

Who's hand is it anyway

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

ye haath humein.de de thakur 😏

Who's hand is it anyway

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Originally posted by: Aadi04

Actually woh bhi bura option nahi hai ..

She can just tell Armaan we are not meant to be .. let’s stop destroying each other .. we will be better off away from each other .. and just leave a message to manisha to say . Thanks for Always supporting me . But pls stop armaan from following me ..

By staying together we are destroying ourselves.. and I want to live

Yeh ek stunt to usne karna chahiye. Armaan ko bhi akal aayegi. But I really want someone to knock some sense in Armaan and his Mata. Jiske reports pe itna kalesh Macha rakha hai uske bare mein bhi soch lo thoda.

Originally posted by: fantasyshowfan

I don't understand this whole situation at all. The writes are trying to suddenly take inspiration from kabhi Khushi kabhi gham where Shahrukh's adoptive Mom loved him more than her bio kid. This sudden revelation that Arman always got preferential treatment over Rohit and the first piece of cake from Vidya doesn't make sense as we were shown that it was Abhira who fixed mother - son relationship in usual FL style. Why was Armaan lonely before, why he said he found home in Abhira if he always got so much love from his Mom?

And I absolutely hate that Abhira jumped into making cake for Vidya. She is not Armaan's reflection, has her own persona. Let him miss his mom as he might have a lifetime worth of memories that makes him overlook Vidya's current behaviour and crave for her. What does she have, why does she crave acceptance from someone who has kind words for her intermittently but is always quick to curse, accuse, abuse her? She was cursed so much but she doesn't hold all that against Vidya? That's mahanta next level which I can't relate to

@red In KHKG Rahul never forgot he is a husband too. Here Armaan is getting emotional over "main bohut bura beta hoon" "main kaam bhi sahi sey nahi kam paa raha". What about being a husband? Does he think he is a good husband? Or he doesn't even want to think he is a husband too? Armaan skipping his relationship with Abhira, from his usual guilty self-talk is concerning tbh, they aren't even giving him a monologue "main Abhira key sath bhi agey nahi barh paa raha usse bhi takleef dey raha hoon" as he is not even feeling guilty for avoiding & being rude to Abhira. For not keeping her happy in his own distraught state after so many promises. He never stopped feeling guilty for not being a good son even in majnu phase when Vidya was angry before but here who is Abhira? Husband and his responsibilities. Woh kya hota hai? Armaan kya ho gaya hai?

@bold Abhira delusional Sharma thought it would mend their relationship. Did she really switch off her brain completely? Vidya is not a normal MIL who got angry over a minor issue she has cursed you and Armaan & hates your existence. If Abhira truly want to mend mother-son relationship she must stay away from Vidya mata. She should've listened to Armaan and stayed away from preparations. Abhira desperately want Armaan to be back normal & she thinks he will be normal or back to being the "loving and caring Armaan" whenever Vidya will forgive him. But what if Vidya again start ignoring him or start treating him like that again? Will Armaan gets back to "Abhira give me space & don't expect anything from me" phase? Will Abhira be fine every single time he switch? Abhira's character lack self-worth, as any other FL would have an outburst or breakdown after all this even considering ITV standards.

It is interesting how 2 people who went through so much to break free of the deal marriage are once again stuck in a conditional marriage, where their happiness is entirely dependent on family’s approval.

Armaan - contrary to the popular belief that he is a weak and emotionally vulnerable character, I believe he is one of the strong and stubborn characters in the show. He is a replica of his grandmother to a certain extent when it comes to that. Just like KP, when he sets his mind on something he gets it, but he also makes sure he has exhausted all the normal avenues before he resorts to ultimatum. When he broke marriage with Ruhi, he knew very well the family wasn’t going to accept Abhira, despite that he declared he was going to bring Abhira back in his life. When he decided to leave the house, he knew other than KP the rest of the family would be heartbroken, yet he still decided to leave. When he convinced Abhira to marry after infertility track, he knew there was no way he could convince Vidya or KP, so he took the decision to get married with or without their permission. It was never about his ability to make strong decisions or go against his family, his biggest flaw is his belief and expectation that people would and should accept his decisions without any rebellion even after they have clearly expressed their opinion.

It would be so easy for him to pacify Vidya right now. What caused Vidya’s reaction now, it’s not anger or ego, it’s the sense of betrayal by her son. Even when KP has always reiterated Rohit is the heir to the house, it was only her relationship that tied Armaan to this family. She was the one who always tried to convinced Abhira to keep Armaan tied to this family. She supported him to the point that she didn’t hesitate to betray her presumed-dead son’s memories by getting his wife married to Armaan. Even when she repeatedly claims she can’t be a grandmother, it’s indirectly Armaan’s wish for a child. When people feel betrayed they go into revenge mode, which is exactly what Vidya is currently doing. Reasons why Armaan is and never will be angry with her. He knows exactly how he can convince Vidya, all he has to do is accept that she is right, his decision to marry Abhira is wrong, that’s all he needs to do to get her forgiveness. Armaan wouldn’t do that because he knows what will happen next, he will lose Abhira forever, either by Abhira leaving him by herself or Vidya will do the honors. Armaan is okay with dealing with all the pain Vidya is serving him, yet in his own stubborn way is waiting for Vidya to accept his marriage with Abhira rather than give into her demands.

Abhira - I honestly don’t believe she is trying to compensate for Vidya’s place in Armaan’s life. She has tried to talk to Armaan, has tried to both emotionally and physically connect with him, all of which has earned her no results. She is trying to connect to him with the only relationship he understands now, Vidya. Other than the initial days of the marriage, I don’t believe she directly tried to engage with Vidya to pacify her. All of her efforts have been for Armaan to connect with her. Honestly at this stage I feel she is scared. She is scared to accept that her marriage is hanging by a thread, with a nonexistent husband metaphorically. She is scared her fears that Armaan might eventually regret his decision is coming true. She is scared if she too gives up on their marriage, there’s no going back and their marriage could be truly over. The first time she accepted this marriage, it was her individual decision. The second and third time, including the infertility track, she convinced herself to give this relationship another chance against her best judgement. She knows in her heart all her chances are exhausted. There’s only thing that can break her free of this pain, Armaan, either when he decides to finally come back to their marriage or finally free her from this marriage.

Originally posted by: ItvDrama

It is interesting how 2 people who went through so much to break free of the deal marriage are once again stuck in a conditional marriage, where their happiness is entirely dependent on family’s approval.

Armaan - contrary to the popular belief that he is a weak and emotionally vulnerable character, I believe he is one of the strong and stubborn characters in the show. He is a replica of his grandmother to a certain extent when it comes to that. Just like KP, when he sets his mind on something he gets it, but he also makes sure he has exhausted all the normal avenues before he resorts to ultimatum. When he broke marriage with Ruhi, he knew very well the family wasn’t going to accept Abhira, despite that he declared he was going to bring Abhira back in his life. When he decided to leave the house, he knew other than KP the rest of the family would be heartbroken, yet he still decided to leave. When he convinced Abhira to marry after infertility track, he knew there was no way he could convince Vidya or KP, so he took the decision to get married with or without their permission. It was never about his ability to make strong decisions or go against his family, his biggest flaw is his belief and expectation that people would and should accept his decisions without any rebellion even after they have clearly expressed their opinion.

It would be so easy for him to pacify Vidya right now. What caused Vidya’s reaction now, it’s not anger or ego, it’s the sense of betrayal by her son. Even when KP has always reiterated Rohit is the heir to the house, it was only her relationship that tied Armaan to this family. She was the one who always tried to convinced Abhira to keep Armaan tied to this family. She supported him to the point that she didn’t hesitate to betray her presumed-dead son’s memories by getting his wife married to Armaan. Even when she repeatedly claims she can’t be a grandmother, it’s indirectly Armaan’s wish for a child. When people feel betrayed they go into revenge mode, which is exactly what Vidya is currently doing. Reasons why Armaan is and never will be angry with her. He knows exactly how he can convince Vidya, all he has to do is accept that she is right, his decision to marry Abhira is wrong, that’s all he needs to do to get her forgiveness. Armaan wouldn’t do that because he knows what will happen next, he will lose Abhira forever, either by Abhira leaving him by herself or Vidya will do the honors. Armaan is okay with dealing with all the pain Vidya is serving him, yet in his own stubborn way is waiting for Vidya to accept his marriage with Abhira rather than give into her demands.

Abhira - I honestly don’t believe she is trying to compensate for Vidya’s place in Armaan’s life. She has tried to talk to Armaan, has tried to both emotionally and physically connect with him, all of which has earned her no results. She is trying to connect to him with the only relationship he understands now, Vidya. Other than the initial days of the marriage, I don’t believe she directly tried to engage with Vidya to pacify her. All of her efforts have been for Armaan to connect with her. Honestly at this stage I feel she is scared. She is scared to accept that her marriage is hanging by a thread, with a nonexistent husband metaphorically. She is scared her fears that Armaan might eventually regret his decision is coming true. She is scared if she too gives up on their marriage, there’s no going back and their marriage could be truly over. The first time she accepted this marriage, it was her individual decision. The second and third time, including the infertility track, she convinced herself to give this relationship another chance against her best judgement. She knows in her heart all her chances are exhausted. There’s only thing that can break her free of this pain, Armaan, either when he decides to finally come back to their marriage or finally free her from this marriage.

well written. Ar and vidya both are ziddi. Vidya wants ar to chose his maa to get his baap ka sukh . Ar is ziddi not to bend but not giving any emotional support to abheera too. If he assured her don't worry let's both stay together in this ignore everything and wait for maa ka blessings. But he is taking maa as priority to chose him. If vidya had no love on ar she could not have cried today in bed. But hurting him through words and actions to bend to her.Once vidya told abheera tum kaha jhukti ho hume hi jhukna padega har baar.This only can happen so she is not stepping down at all. Everytime it's shown she took ar ki kushiya as priority. It will not change a real maa or sauteli maa. If a real mom is angry not talking to son then also same scenario. Her existence of a mother which she gave that place to him through heart above rohit this is where she is hurt as he is not choosing his happiness against abheera. It's not jealousy on abheera also it's like a mother who is in pain with his sacrifice for kids. This is what ruhi too said everytime you are giving kurbani for abheera and not caring for yourself. Abheera had 2 fears one is because of rohit dadi accepted that rista and if something happened between them she can't take the blame. Might be this accident of ruhi is the blame as of now. Which ruhi will clear next as she fell on her own. Second fear is aa dadi vidya are right in their piv for kids Any day their rista mah become weak and broken. She wanted to go back to mussoorie but ar and manish both stopped her though vidya asked her to go away. Vidya in mandir gave a bangle of less size and fit in her hand forcibly on haldi day asked her to not to marry. She said she won't fit in that family. Ar can be happy to marrying her let go his happiness for her as his son is very good. But Abheera has to think of ar ki kushi. This is the force fit married life now through vidyas intrusion and anger on them. When ar can go against family to take decisions of what he wants he should not expect everyone to do dance after him. As it's his decision alone he should stand for that shadi and work on it instead of earning for maa ka pyar or maa ki gussa kum honi hi. What's the need when he himself told 100 times I just need Abheera in my life to be happy , Abheera meri kushi hi, jinko ana hi shadi mein ayiye nahi toh nahi. Any day he took granted either the family against abheera or abheera against family. When he got his happiness in life which he earned for boasted as rom rom pyar to ruhi why can't he take it ahead. Immediately his version overnight bewda avatar and mere maa ke bina jee nahi pavunga. The way he treats abheera it all looks she married him in force 🤣 and he is bechara struggling for family love. Problem with ar is flipping from one to another not standing on one side. This is his chore character trait I feel.

And what all drama done through ar against abheera or Viceversa does abheera not know it's all because of her Non acceptance by those people. Why will they go against their son any day unless there is a reason for it. Can't she figure out maa ka gussa on her chosen by ar not on ar. She is thinking maa ka gussa kum kardungi donom ka set karungi cake se party se etc. It won't work it will burst or subside for a temporary time till erupts with a major khaane again. That's why ar is telling her maa ka gussa kum nahi hoga aur bhadega.

Do post your pov daily it's really amazing to see another version from you.

Originally posted by: Aadi04

Yeah rishta is proving sautela is sautela .. if she was seriously hurting .. she would not have been dancing and singing..

Bhai meri kaku hi acchi thi .. even Akka saheb was better ..possesive older aunts are better than step mothers

Pehle baar kisi ne meri Akku ki taarif ki Woh jaisi bhi thi, she loved someone else’s son as her own, even more than her actual son

This Vidayan should copy her good traits rather than her bad ones.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Pehle baar kisi ne meri Akku ki taarif ki Woh jaisi thi she loved someone else’s son as her own even more than her actual son

This Vidayan should copy her good trays rather than her bad ones.

No Rao Saheb disliked Chinu ..

Akku was impartial.. she was scared of mentioning her son to Saheb… 😂😂

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

In ITV Dussehra mein Ravan ka vadh nahi hota balki Ram-Sita ko dukh sehna parta hai

Remember akshay tritya ke pawan awsar par mangalsutra toda gaya thaa aur sindoor mitaya gaya thaa?? Dussehra mein shayad Abhira ko laat maar ke ghar se hi nikal de

Actually that will be true liberation of Abhira

She was desiring something … Armaan’s love .. she got that .. then she desired dadi blessing for marriage after a long wait she got that

Now she knows she will never get Vidya’s blessing .. she thinks she is infertile .. but Abhira and Armaan are behaving like illiterates..

The whole Piddar clan are behaving like cave dwellers who have never heard of assisted pregnancies

Armaan and Abhira have not had a conjugal relationship so how can they even assess whether Abhira can get pregnant..and it is better they don’t .

Let them both meet after 5 years .. let Armaan get married someone his family choses for him

And let Abhira get married to some one else .. who is educated enough to know that there are many other ways to have a child ..

but by fluke Abhira gets pregnant on her own .. so when Armaan n the Poddars meet Abhira probably at Manish Goenka’s funeral .. they meet her with a man and their kids ..

Wrong post...sorry...