Originally posted by: sharadrocks
Let’s consider an alternative scenario …the MS is stuck and a client comes to see Abhira ..she tries to untangle herself but gets impatient ..picks up a pair of scissors and snips the button off..seems unlikely ? So why is this a crime if Armaan does it for his mother ? When he realizes that he could break the MS in his anxiety to collect the meds, he cuts the button off his own shirt ..one way to look at it would be that he would harm himself rather than compromising on his relationship with either of them ….a more pessimistic way would be that Abhira would be left holding a part of him some day..the button being a metaphor for a baby ..isn’t that the story across the last two gens ..I’d like to look at it as the first scenario..
When Abhira’s heart could break over a random Manish Goenka disowning her, Armaan is not supposed to be shattered that the woman who has been singularly responsible for giving him an identity and making him the man he is has disowned him?
And yes, marriage does change things ..neither man nor woman feels the need to go out of their way to impress the other party ..because they start feeling secure in their relationship..and there is the implicit expectation that the other party will understand their compulsions
In my opinion, the honeymoon phase and being in la la land already got done during the pre-wedding days only ..now it is time for hardcore saas bahu business and that’s what’s coming ..romance can at best be the icing on the cake ..the cake is still going to be family conflict ..reality of ITV ..which is why those seeking romance quit post the wedding phase ..or the consummation or whatever !
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