Originally posted by: ItvDrama
Am I only one disturbed that they make every important track about the ML here? I know it’s a novelty in itv that a ML is given importance in a story as MLs mostly are just bystanders in their own story for the most part, but this seems unusual and rather disturbing even by itv standards.
Where they should have focused on IR between Abhira and Ruhi, they focused on Armaan and Rohit return/reveal, at least that was an eventuality. Where infertility track should mostly have focused on Abhira or at least both, they made it all about Armaan’s fatherhood, why? He still could have a child right, why make it all about him? Even now, they have made the whole drama about Armaan with him crying over a fact which he has been cognizant of throughout his life. He made the decision to get married with or without his family’s permission, not once but twice. Abhira on the other hand isn’t allowed to have any leeway in this relationship, her feelings are either irrelevant or she has to be self reliant, because no matter what this whole family is ever going to see her as a woman or human.
My issue is not that they are focusing on Armaan, but my issue is that why are Abhira’s feelings always made insignificant in every track. There is not a single character who is shown to empathize with how much she is going through in all this, except random manisha chachi scenes. Yes Armaan”s family is messed up and they treat him worse, but at least he has some emotional support from his family. Agreed as of now Abhira doesn’t have any family, so all family drama is focused on the ML’s side, but why not acknowledge her feelings as a human at least. Even during the infertility reveal, where they spent 2 days of drama on ML’s pain, not a single episode was shown where someone actually addressed or asked how she was doing, including Armaan. The very next day he came and gave an ultimatum, but not one word as to how she felt over the loss of motherhood or at least after the cruel way his family behaved.
They have just time and again only proved the point that as long as she is in this relationship and this house, she will never be happy. I don’t know if makers are smart enough to show this, but my realistic take is probably they are implying how someone loses themselves and their identity eventually in such a relationship. A girl who was strong enough to leave at an instance when her mother was insulted, is now at a point where she is so used to all the abuse all in the name of love. What other option does she have, if she leaves now, she will be called selfish and if she stays she’s is eventually going to lose herself. I guess that’s the point of the whole story, how sometimes even when you love someone and that other person loves you too, it’s still not enough.
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