Beautiful post dear .
I agree with everything..plus even Manisha chachi cares for abhira just bec she is a good partner to arman ..not as a woman or as a human ..whether it's madhav or Manisha, they desperately want arman to be tied to abhira but never care how she's treated in that house ..none have the influence or power to change anything so why would they pull her in the ditch? But they do ..knowingly & happily , at the same time emo manipulating her Into thinking how much these people love me ,this is the only family I have 🤢
I feel they dislike their fl so much that they write the worst for her ..
Just how could they make infertility track all about arman 🤢 in minutes they switched emotions , arman and abhira both ..upar se ruhi ka pagalpan jaane kyun hi daala..there also everyone blamed abhira , this is when the guy comes to her doorstep with baarat still they blamed her for phasoing arman 🤣
Your last sentence..that loving someone isn't enuf , that's the bitter reality for everybody..love actually isn't everything but ppl don't realize it till they fall into that ditch..coz a human mind yearns for the unachievable and when the goal is achieved it loses its sheen ..it loses its value.. then other things take precedence..that's how all relationships go downhill..
However , in changing times , I don't believe they're stuck in the decades old rut. Which couple would yearn for the family as toxic as poddars ? Nowadays it's so normal to switch to an independent house , specially when the girl and boy are financially independent ..itna emotional dependency kiska hota hai ?
Aisa kya miss karti hai abhira ke Mari jaa rahi hai family ke liye ? Meri ma marr gayi toh I don't want arman to be separated from his mom..arre fuddu uski bhi toh maa marr gayi thi , yours was with you till your adulthood ...
And arman..when he decided to leave the house for abhira twice , what's the big fuss now ? Vidya will come around if she wants to , tum apni zindagi shuru karo coz a newly wedded bride doesn't deserve this treatment, for your weakness she endured everything ab toh aa hosh mei
Did you see there was hardly any scene or moments for Abhira’s mental state about her infertility. It was all about Abhira crying for the lost love and no shadi. No connection with reality. The infertility dukh became the dukh of poddars and Armaan and Abhira trying to justify every time. It doesn’t happen like that. The girl especially someone like Abhira would be traumatized by the news.
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