Originally posted by: firewings_diya
I think ab is shown as someone who is kuve ka mendak. Tbh nobody in current gen will be like that. As kids now a days way too forward than their own parents. But for some reason the dkp's narrative is abhira is that kuve ka mendak who has no knowledge about how outside world is. She has no friends she does not know how other ppl are as mostlay ak faced them.
So she has no experience how things happen. Cloths even i felt she was feeling uncomfortable but everyone feels uncomfortable when they wear it for first time and eventually they will learn to be confident. She did it with her choice and nobody forced them. I feel because of kuve ka mendak mentality she had no experience on what she may face in that venue. If i think about it again in ab's hotel she does these tactics to keep her cutomer happy. Like immediate response to customer's demand is what she has learnt all these years so she may not think twice before doing it. But she did not expected the response to be that. Ideally ppl learn from their experience or exposure to outside world via movies or real time incidents but ab do not have that. I think it's also papi pet ka sawal hai. She had no money to have food. Dkp wanted to set this narrative that for food ppl goes above and beyond to earn money. Even many ppl are not comfortable in doing jobs which is considered as low job in outside world like sweeping, waiter job etc. But everyone are doing it for money and food. If a time comes where someone has to sell a tea in a stall and his family is dying out of hunger the person will choose to sell tea than dying out of hunger. So ab has to take steps to feed herself.
There is a movie called laagi chunri main daag where women get involved in prostitution to feed her family and to educate her sister. It was one of the good movie which shows how hunger and poority can make someone take steps even though they are uncomfortable with it.
She is shown as too naive who has no clue outside world as her world has only her mumma. She just tries something and it backfires. May be ak was too protective of ab after loosing abhir and abhimanyu. So she trapped her in her house like how rapunzel was trapped in the castle and had no clue about outside world.
I understand your point. But makers could have showed that party sequence without her wearing such dress or showed her wearing such dresses after party incident too. She wore such dress only during that time where she is clearly uncomfortable. It's not about dress being short. It's about her being uncomfortable in such dress. She very well knows why she was being sent to men's party.That was my whole point. At that time she was not in such situation where she needed money for food. She herself said she was going there to renovate her mother's farmhouse/ outhouse. She said if anything happens then armaan will save her. So what if armaan was not there to save her? Was it worth risking just for farmhouse money.
They didn't even focus on her trauma post that episode. That's different thing. It's makers who used such sensitive issue as a plot for leads scene.
If u see yhm, there you can see a scene where Ishita faced same kind of situation but she went to the party not knowingly. She was tricked. Her trauma was addressed properly. In rishta they showed just one scene and the next episode scene is abhira confessing her love.
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