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Posted: 2 months ago
#41

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

this suits her pride and ghamand raised against poddars. Today fufa said udaipur mein hum poddars ki khatirdaari tumne dekha na. She immediately said mussoorie mein aake pooch lijiye sharmas ki khaatir dari kaisi hi. Self respect is needed it should not turn to ghamand Or zidd Or pride. Ak raised this girl in full illusions wo telling any truths. And this girl won't accept any truth in her zidd and will not bend or adjust. She won't compromise on anything like Vidya said. Her swabhimaan is more than anything. Chachis words badlav ke liye bahut waqt lagta suits abhira too not only poddars. What if badlav may not come too. This is the foreshadowing done. 20240903_183647-COLLAGE.jpg

Thank you Tania for opening this thread.. I have a feeling that Abhira will dump Armaan at the mandap or at least gayab for a while before bride’s entry..

About dadi’s prenup agreement.. why didn’t she asked any of her bahus Vidya or Manisha to sign the contract or give to Ruhi at the time of RuRo wedding or Ruhaan wedding preps? Why was she shocked and refused saying humari family mein rishte pyaar se bandhte hi to fufa when he brought this idea before her. That thought was planted by fufa but she took the decision and made the papers seeing Abhira’s nature, her priorities, her choices and her aggressive behaviour from last 1 year

It’s already shown in janmashtami celebrations how much Armaan liked the kid and desperately wanting to have children.. though dadi is old school and her thoughts are so regressive, she never went wrong in guessing what will happen next. Elders have that wisdom.

Whether dadi is testing her or really trying to protect her waris from being taken away from father after divorce, whatever it is, this prenup should be a reality check for Abhira for not taking Poddar family for granted and doing her manmarzi all the time. Until now it’s only Armaan who is backing her all the time.. what happens when he flips and do family jaap again after the marriage.. without Arman’s support will she be able to manage her responsibilities and value her relationships in that family?


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Posted: 2 months ago
#42

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Tania ji ye reserve karke rakho will discuss on NFZ smiley41 iss baar we will do mock case of poddars representing destroyed family smiley36

Main banungi Abheera sharma.. ☺️☺️☺️

Posted: 2 months ago
#43

Originally posted by: Shineeeee

Abheera was not born at that time, so please bring the bhoot of Abheera's mom in that mock hearing smiley9

Edit: See Diya, this is why badaams are a must!

I was Akshara Sharma during the mock case.. 😆😆

Posted: 2 months ago
#44

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

Kaveri is bad , but a evil person like abheera deserves a person like kaveri. Afterall, "Zeher zeher ko katata hai."

Im excited to see if Abheera chooses career or Armaan. 🤩🤩

If she chooses Armaan self-respect and khuddari where??

If she chooses Career love where??

Posted: 2 months ago
#45

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Yes I felt like Kaveri is protecting Armaan’s rights as a father smiley36

Kya inka ugly divorce hoga? Agar ugly divorce hoga toh rishta ki paramapara hai ki father misses 5-6 years of their son’s life . Iss baat rishta ki yeh parampara toot jayegi

Msmain yeh soch rahi hun ki shadi hogi bhi ya nahi.. 😂😂😂

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Posted: 2 months ago
#46

Originally posted by: Susi26

Thank you Tania for opening this thread.. I have a feeling that Abhira will dump Armaan at the mandap or at least gayab for a while before bride’s entry..

About dadi’s prenup agreement.. why didn’t she asked any of her bahus Vidya or Manisha to sign the contract or give to Ruhi at the time of RuRo wedding or Ruhaan wedding preps? Why was she shocked and refused saying humari family mein rishte pyaar se bandhte hi to fufa when he brought this idea before her. That thought was planted by fufa but she took the decision and made the papers seeing Abhira’s nature, her priorities, her choices and her aggressive behaviour from last 1 year

It’s already shown in janmashtami celebrations how much Armaan liked the kid and desperately wanting to have children.. though dadi is old school and her thoughts are so regressive, she never went wrong in guessing what will happen next. Elders have that wisdom.

Whether dadi is testing her or really trying to protect her waris from being taken away from father after divorce, whatever it is, this prenup should be a reality check for Abhira for not taking Poddar family for granted and doing her manmarzi all the time. Until now it’s only Armaan who is backing her all the time.. what happens when he flips and do family jaap again after the marriage.. without Arman’s support will she be able to manage her responsibilities and value her relationships in that family?

how long she stays my mothers dreams and i need to fulfil. To fulfil that poddars are bent for her zidd pf deal jaap almost an year. Now another tamasha. She can hold only one relationship in hand any day either prioritize arman Or her mother any day. Prioritise ar is bend to dadi Or bend ar to her side. Every day is not same ar has to chose his family against her to balance them he has been doing a lot till now. Don't know when he can flip. Every day chugli karo tumhari maa tumhari dadi tumhara family and eat their food and live on their rehm. Vidyas words are right. Poddars have to bend to pacify abhiras swabhimaan and she won't care any rista in that.
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Posted: 2 months ago
#47

Since this thread was initially dedicated to hersmiley9

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Posted: 2 months ago
#48

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

mujhe samajh nahin aatha if she is so career oriented then shadi at the age of 23 is not good. Shadi ke baad zyada responsibilities aathin hai. Instead of saying let's get married now and then let's take responsibilities later why can't she say let's get married when i am 28 years old as i don't think i am ready. If it's matter of having just intimacy and no responsibilities then live in karlo. Ye kya shadi bhi karni hai career bhi chahiye and rasme nahi karni hai.

Many women now a days are choosing to marry after 30 to avoid compromise on their career. They are married to their goal. Idhar ab acts like i am the only person who has goal but mere ko ek mard bhi chahiye as without that i can not take care of myself 🥱

Aur tania ji aapke thread toh cha gaya accedpt edt and social media updates rarely iss forum main itne active threads dekhe kudos to you 🤗

Aise hi thread banathe raho aur apna pov rakthe raho. Warna ye forum boring hojayega 😁

Tania ji ke threads usually hit hi rehte hain .

My observation 🤗🤗

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Posted: 2 months ago
#49

Originally posted by: Susi26

That thought was planted by fufa but she took the decision and made the papers seeing Abhira’s nature, her priorities, her choices and her aggressive behaviour from last 1 year

though dadi is old school and her thoughts are so regressive, she never went wrong in guessing what will happen next. Elders have that wisdom.

Whether dadi is testing her or really trying to protect her waris from being taken away from father after divorce, whatever it is, this prenup should be a reality check for Abhira for not taking Poddar family for granted and doing her manmarzi all the time. Until now it’s only Armaan who is backing her all the time.. what happens when he flips and do family jaap again after the marriage.. without Arman’s support will she be able to manage her responsibilities and value her relationships in that family?

Green : Abheera's nature is that of a bully. There's no scarcity of ambitious and career minded people in the world but they don't go around reciting their career oath instead they simply let their actions prove for themselves.

If she is really ambitious then she better work on it , what's with this repeated proclaimation regarding love for career and bla bla....funny though she acts as if she is the only women in the world who has a job.

Majority of the population is ambitious and they do get married, have kids etc........but behaviour like that of abheera is bound to make anyone scared. Such aggressive behaviour signifies unpredictable nature and people are always left apprehensive and anticipating regarding what will trigger the opposite person. Added on top is her non humble self which doesn't even spare her partner.

Red : Yes , at the end of the day longevity , stability and health of the relationship are also important apart from attraction towards each other.

Posted: 2 months ago
#50

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

this suits her pride and ghamand raised against poddars. Today fufa said udaipur mein hum poddars ki khatirdaari tumne dekha na. She immediately said mussoorie mein aake pooch lijiye sharmas ki khaatir dari kaisi hi. Self respect is needed it should not turn to ghamand Or zidd Or pride. Who are sharmas how much big family is Or their ancestors are shown doing khatirdari Or having bonds in show. That sharma is an attached surname for orphans as family . What to boast of a family which has no roots no forefathers nor any carried legacy except lies and crimes. Ak raised this girl in full illusions wo telling any truths. And this girl won't accept any truth in her zidd and will not bend or adjust. She won't compromise on anything like Vidya said. Her swabhimaan is more than anything. Chachis words badlav ke liye bahut waqt lagta suits abhira too not only poddars. What if badlav may not come too. This is the foreshadowing done.

@bold : Thisss smiley32smiley32smiley32

Self respect mai and Ulta jawab de dene mai bahot fark hota hai. What she did was immature bacchi jaise ulta jawab de diya immediately ki lo tumne muje sunaya ab main bhi tumko ulta jawab de dugi types smiley36

Basically woh rude ,full of fake pride se bhari padi adult body mai teenager se bhi immature aurat hai jo boast bahut kuch karti hai lekin karti kuch bhi nahi. Khali bartan jyada awaz karte hai types!

Vidya was bang on yesterday that woh toh kabhi ittu sa bhi compromise nahi karti hai, and infuture bhi baki sabko he uske according chalna hai.

And abhira jo baat baat par sasural mai ek he line sabke mooh par bolti hai ki uski mummy ka sapna is her utmost priority above anything or any other relation uss hisab se baki sab ke mann mai yeh doubt ayega he na ki yeh toh sirf apna and apni maa ko he highest priority par rakh kar actions lene wali hai so inke ghar/family customs/paath/pooja/hawan/family events har baat mai yeh uska 2 rs career boast kane ke liye tamasha he tamasha karegi.

Jo case leke aate hai unko bhi bhaga deti hai ,jo tailor apna advance mangta hai usko bhi bhaga deti hai, socho yeh sasural mai apne and apni maa ki wish ko highest priority par rakh kar, lowest priority wale logo ke sath kya kya karegi and badnaam wohi log hoge jo bichare uski dictionary mai lowest priority par aate hai. An we know woh zero compromise and zero efforts mai maanti hai when it comes to customs/paath/pooja/hawan/festivals/family events.

Yaad hai apne comfort ke liye shaddi ke baad jo guest aye the unke samne pahadi kapde pehen kar gayi thi just to boast it that abhira sirf apne hisab se and apne comfort ke hisab se chalti hai.

Logo ke sath mil jhul kar apne comfort ke sath aadhe din ka yah kuch hours ka compromise kar ke kisi family event mai participate tak nahi kara jata itna bekar attitude hai.

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