YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 36 - Page 75

Originally posted by: Pinecone

The BTS of Abhira projecting her frustration and her own situation onto client is upsetting to watch because I expect better from her. This is the third time she's projecting her feelings on strangers who are in a situation thats too close to home for her- first was in Temple after Ar Ruhi past reveal and then in court when she saw couple eloping. But this time around she actually acknowledges in the BTS clip that she messed up and drove the client away. So at least she's acknowledging that she should not have done so. That's progress. Hopefully as she keeps working and growing professionally, she will be able to completely separate personal and professional. I look forward to seeing that shade of her as well.

Honestly this habit of hers of projecting her issues onto absolute strangers and giving them gyaan is immature and very irritating. The makers really need to stop writing such scenes.

Wanting PH and Kaveri approval and blessings does not mean Abhira is agreeing to everything unfair thrown at her in the name of bahu expectations

Kaveri had come around to accepting Abhira is career oriented already. So if she suddenly flips and says that she wants Abhira to have a baby and no more naukri for her, can't say that Abhira signed up for this when she chose to be with family. She did not.

She is signing up to a life where there will be khit pit with family members, there will be compromises etc. but there's a clear line of what she can and will tolerate and what she wont.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

What kind of rubbish writing is this ? Don’t professionals take time off for their weddings ? Abhira is still struggling to establish herself ..let us assume that there is about a week or two left for the wedding ..what are these hundred cases that she is going to fight and win in this time ? Why can’t she take time out to enjoy her wedding preparations ? I completely understand her steadfast refusal to sign a prenup that she feels is a slight to her self-respect ..I mean that’s entirely her call …but with re to her career, I find this entire present scenario a storm in a teacup ..secondly Abhira really needs to learn to draw a line between personal and professional ..this is the second time she’s missing out on a case because of her mixing things up and not learning to put a lid on her emotions in a professional space ..this does not a good lawyer make ..in KHKT, Sonakshi goes to shoot right on her wedding day ..while an exaggeration, she is a top actor and the team has to meet a deadline failing which there will be huge losses ..so that’s kind of understandable ..in the present scenario where Abhira’s career is still to take off, don’t see what the fuss is all about ..I would understand if hearings had been scheduled etc..but that is not the case …of course, if we are talking of her right to do what she wants, then of course Abhira is perfectly entitled to do what she wants ..but then she should stop chasing after the perfect bahu title …her problem is that she wants to have everything ..and no, that’s not how it works ..not in real life and certainly not on ITV!

Exactly agree 💯. There needs to be a balance on both sides and here both sides seem to be pulling at each other with poor Armaan being made the scapegoat.

The prenup issue is stupid, but I feel it will help resolve the baby issue as well as Abhira having a career after mrrg issue - That has never been addressed, coz even before during the deal mrrg, it was more towards allowing Abhira to study and become a lawyer - I am not sure if KV is still onboard 💯 on Abhira working after shaadi if she is to be the badi Bahu - that is what this track should address and hopefully resolve.

But even Abhira needs to tone down - she needs to understand that shaadi preps require a lot of bandwidth from the dulhan - even if you have an extended family. Yahaan she is alone and she has a function to prep as.well - she is going to face this issue now and after shaadi as well. She has to also learn to balance and put her points forward and not expect everything will fall in place on its own.

Originally posted by: mysticxmyth

Honestly this habit of hers of projecting her issues onto absolute strangers and giving them gyaan is immature and very irritating. The makers really need to stop writing such scenes.

I think it's realistic. She's not a flawless person who can never make a mistake. She is impulsive but she will get better with time.I hope that if they write such scenes they show her character growth and development and not simply as a filler. Today unlike earlier such scenes , in BTS she is kinda acknowledging that she messed up by giving unsolicited gyaan due to her personal issues and lost a client. Next time she should consciously take a deep breath, keep personal and professional separate.

Originally posted by: Shineeeee

Someone clarify this for me! Pratiksha was bad at acting from the beginning, whereas Garvita did some previous shows before entering yrkkh and it was quite decent from what I read.

Now my question is Ru's obsession arc is being stretched and was forcibly shoved in our throats.

So what exactly is the tiff here?

People hate Ru's constant annoying screen presence bad or People actually find Garvita's acting as bad?

I want honest/open response 👍👍

Pratiksha was very poor to begin with but showed a glimpse or two of genuine emotion here and there as time went by ..Garvita was good in her intro scene but her performance graph has been on a downward curve for the most part thereafter …I cannot comment on her earlier performances, not having seen any of those, but she’s rank bad here…..Ruhi is being written poorly as a character and that’s another issue altogether ..but Garvita’s lack of acting chops is not helping either

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

career ka C thak iske naseeb main nahi hai. Atleast other dkp fl nach gaana gaakar and tuntuna bajakar atleast they did showed those can be a career. idhar professional lawyer sare clients ko sudharne main lagi hai suna hai kanoon andha hotha hai idhar lawyer hi andhi hai jisko samajh nahi aatha lawyer should never differentiate between clients and ye Bahu Samstha ki adhyaksh hai who is ensuring her fellow member ko saas na sathaye

The funniest part is , she doesn't know who the girl is ...abhira madam seedha judge hi ban jaaye toh theek hai , woh bhi, judgement will be inspired frm the Incidents of her life at the current moment 🤣

Sometime bk bhaag ke shadi karne wale Client ko bhaga diya , then she was ready to do temple shadi with her lover. Wahan theek tha eloping. Yahan court mei jhol kiya phir arman ke muh pe paper maara , abhira bani bagheera🤣

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Is it out house??????

Abhira has been shown planning to take only certain number of days off for wedding and not several weeks. Everyone is aware of it too. So if they suddenly flip and say she needs to prioritize shaadi over work, aisa nahi hoga and conflict hoga. Abhira hasn't changed her stance, V and Kaveri have. They knew she would be working even in lead up to shaadi. They knew she is career oriented. So they cant suddenly expect that she will be sitting at home.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Mai bata rahi hun, you guys are going to miss this phase of Abhimaan because they are happy right now as per ITV standards. Ye toh choti choti arguments hai

Exactly - yaar abhi toh sab kuch bahut tame hai. Even the third angle is bound by marrg and can't do much except try to bhadkofy everyone. Enjoy this phase while it lasts coz it's going good for now

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

What kind of rubbish writing is this ? Don’t professionals take time off for their weddings ? Abhira is still struggling to establish herself ..let us assume that there is about a week or two left for the wedding ..what are these hundred cases that she is going to fight and win in this time ? Why can’t she take time out to enjoy her wedding preparations ? I completely understand her steadfast refusal to sign a prenup that she feels is a slight to her self-respect ..I mean that’s entirely her call …but with re to her career, I find this entire present scenario a storm in a teacup ..secondly Abhira really needs to learn to draw a line between personal and professional ..this is the second time she’s missing out on a case because of her mixing things up and not learning to put a lid on her emotions in a professional space ..this does not a good lawyer make ..in KHKT, Sonakshi goes to shoot right on her wedding day ..while an exaggeration, she is a top actor and the team has to meet a deadline failing which there will be huge losses ..so that’s kind of understandable ..in the present scenario where Abhira’s career is still to take off, don’t see what the fuss is all about ..I would understand if hearings had been scheduled etc..but that is not the case …of course, if we are talking of her right to do what she wants, then of course Abhira is perfectly entitled to do what she wants ..but then she should stop chasing after the perfect bahu title …her problem is that she wants to have everything ..and no, that’s not how it works ..not in real life and certainly not on ITV!

Bold : my exact same thoughts. Assuming their wedding is scheduled in another 1-2 weeks, why can't she take leave & enjoy her wedding. They have clearly showed, abhira can't handle pressure & messes up big time. The way she immaturely handles her cases I sometimes wonder on what basis dev mentioned her as the best intern. Few days back she was struggling to get cases & the one armaan suggested she denied, ab usko ek saath itne urgent cases milne lage kya that she can't afford to take leave 🤷‍♀️

don't think she is under pressure to repay the loan so went to court as jo clients aa rahe hain unko bhaga rahi hain, isse better ghar pe hi rehti, atleast itna toh bol sakti thi ke leave pe thi toh clients nahi mile ab court jaake clients bhagane ka kya matlab use hua 🤦‍♀️& it shows her inability to maintain work life balance. Btw if dress & jewellery selection plan was informed to abhira beforehand & still she went to court then it's her fault, but if it was sudden decision by vidya then poddars ki jai ho