Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan
You have made it sound it is no big deal. But if majority of people are unaware then albeit it is a big deal specially if they are hearing for the first time.
And I have not a whole lot of knowledge why divorces are stuck in the court but I suspect the contention is mostly when kids are involved and no prenup will ever fast track them.
Abhira the lawyer heard it for the first time ?
Contention is mainly the money & terms of divorce settlement . One of our family friends , their dil filed fake dv cases on them & took away a lot from them as divorce settlement..this is when the girls side didn't spend a penny on the marriage ..the boy got married the second time & same situation was repeated ..a lot and I mean it , a lot of cases I've known in which the girl got married to the boy, refused to consummate , filed divorce after 1 yr or even 6 months or 3, took away half of the boys wealth ..the family has to oblige paying the girl a lot of money to save their respect , plus if she spread false rumors about the boy or family , his second marriage is also in doubt ..even if thr marriage lasts for a month , the girl must be paid as divorce settlement . If it's mutual she can also say I want nothing but aisa hora kam hai
It's messier when the kids are involved.
I know max families don't even consider it ..but they will soon ..if the boy and the girl can be transparent about everything reg their marriage future & families , why not the finance ?
Edited by Krinya - 1 months ago
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