YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 23 - Page 77

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Hainnn, will they be copying the movie Badhaai Ho now

Copy right dalo 😅

Originally posted by: Fortnight

"Armaan Abhira ko pregnant hone ke liye dil se ek hona padega". Shayad maine hi biology galat padhi thi

"Armaan aur abhira itne kareeb nahi aaye hain ke woh log biologically ek baby conceive karna ja process kar sake"

Itna ghooma phirake bol rahe hain

Originally posted by: elizamerin

He did promise her he will not hide anything from her.lets see he will keep it or not.

One promise of putting her above everything had gone to drain

I think Armaan is going to overcome other ML's of rishta soon in terms of promises.

Who is currently in first position?karthik?

Not sure, I haven't watched previous generations.

@bold : bolega toh sahi rahega, else dadi dusra ppt leke aayegi for abhira Or atleast if he clearly draws the boundaries tabh bhi teek hain.

But we are talking about armaan, & when it comes to his guilt, I don't trust him

Originally posted by: Krinya

Mili my issue with abhira is her self respect claims and how her stance changes in every episode ..

She's been sitting on the fence for quite sometime.

When she divorced arman , she was struggling for 1 time food & there , she didn't demand alimony which was legit her right ..

If this is self respect then what was she doing with her fil in armans mother house and then their outhouse? ..like if they continued the same narrative ,madhav should tell her she is still his dil & she can take her time to decide if she wants to get bk with arman after recent developments. But after rejecting arman vehemently & taking a vow in the temple, shifting to his outhouse was insane ..I mean when she cud manage with 1 biscuit packet & feel proud, why can't she convince madhav n manage on her own ? Madhav as adoptive father could continue to help her financially & provide her accommodation till she earns as opposed to bringing her to his outhouse n let his mother and sanjay trample on her self respect everyday .

Again, contemplating over this marriage doesn't make sense as she already made up her mind & made herself clear that she can't deal with his baggage...it's as simple as moving out and filing divorce, it should be easy for her she's a lawyer.

Arman can make her trust him , cut himself off from ruhi , make abhira come to his bedroom & become ruhis agony aunt again so what will abhira do ?

What I'm trying to say is , she fell in love with an asshole , a red flag from head to toe & now she's crying he's an asshole & not worthy of her trust , at the same time contemplating if she should be bk with him as the offer is quite provocative with his family and what ? Green eyes ? 🤪

These 10 months what is it that attracted her to arman ? He was letting her bhabhi/friend interfere in their shadi , he let ruhi bully her , he supported dadisa over her , he was a spineless guy incapable of his own thoughts and burdened by his family. So what majorly changed now ? Did arman turn better from worse or like abhira claimed , worst from great?

Imo he turned better as he got the courage to stand up against his dadi & reject ruhi on the altar & choose his love over his family's respect..Rest , no marriage is without challenges..vidya was fighting with a ghost for 20 yrs , it was not worth a fight ..Nobody is asking abhira to pick arman but I know she can't move away ..so I want CVS to stop this fizool ka narrative and pseudo feminism ..it's of no use when she her actions contradict her words

Charu, thank you for your explanation about Manish GoenkaToh yeh past generations ka gripes hain? I won't get into it as people seem to have strong opinions, and I am not privy of details. However, in this generation as much as I have seen of him, he seems like a reasonable grandfather figure to Ruhi . Yes, he can't control Ruhi. I would have been the first one to blame him if it were 2 years ago. Meri teen daughter ne mujhe kuch aur sachai dikha di, ki, now I totally understand his inability to control or stop Ruhi from doing the infamySo, I won't blame him for that and he is being supportive to her, so I am OK with him. No teers and talwars on me please Mujhe kuch nahin maloom.

Ok, as for Abhira and her intentions to stay in the outhouse and contemplate about her marriage. I will just give you my point of view, not to refute you my friend. You and I were always in agreement that our opinions are shaped by our experiences, so this is how I am looking at it.

In real life, if this is my sister, or my friend, I would bring her home and advice her exactly like what you said. This guy is not worth it- He let his SIL/ex interfere in Abhira's life and eventually both of them were successful in making her life a living hell. Now, he says I am even more guilty and continue to do the same, except now I love you. I will not be sensitive to your feelings, BUT, you understand my guilt and my engagement with my ex.Not cutting it for me.

I am not one who would find joy when the FL disparages the vamp in the ML-FL- vamp equations. Thankfully, the show made her question the ML about his involvement and not the vampas it is both of their responsibility to keep the relationship strong, not the third person's.

With regards to self respect, I am all for not taking alimony. I don't think you meant that too, I feel like you are saying it would have been practical. When Abhira herself had labeled it as a deal marriage and Armaan washed her off as an unwanted burden, a mistake and that he got cornered in a majboor situation, I don't think any self respecting person, let alone a FL would demand alimonyIn practical terms, in the real world if someone is strapped for cash, yes that would have been her right.

The way I looked at her current situation is that she told Armaan that all problems solved with maa-papa and so she should leave. She agreed she loves him, she also agreed that she is finding it difficult to trust him and what her problem is. But then circumstances changed, now they are faced with non-divorce. That means to let go of Armaan, along with fighting with her heart, she has to take another major step-divorce. I don't find her in the wrong if this puts her in a confused and contemplative mode. She now is facing the conflict between her heart and mind- one wants to stay with him, trust him and love him and the other is afraid of what she will have to face. I like it that she is not passive aggressive and is upfront with what she wants. So, again, if she had family, I wouldn't have minded if she wanted to go and clear her mind. Now, she is staying with her adoptive family who is giving her some moral support.

I think we will take the financial equations out of the way, as I don't think that is such a big hurdle at the moment.

As to what attracted her to Armaan, probably the initial personal equation he had with her? She fell in love. But, I am going to say this, even after the fact, the fact that he had actually made plans with his SIL for after her divorce should have put her offcompletely, love or not. The video shown by Kaveri should have been a final nail in the coffin for Armaan. This is my opinion. Unfortunately, the narrative given by the show is completely different. They still haven't explained why he did what he did.

OK, Charu, that is it from my end, my friend I hope you have a good day!

Originally posted by: Fortnight

https://twitter.com/typicalteazz/status/1811064873830195254?t=S-qxMsU5u9K4zEQMF_WVyA&s=19

I guess this is after he comes home late

Abhira ek-do mukka maar hi de.

Originally posted by: Fortnight

"Armaan Abhira ko pregnant hone ke liye dil se ek hona padega". Shayad maine hi biology galat padhi thi

Baby wala scene Kaha se Aaya??

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

Not sure, I haven't watched previous generations.

@bold : bolega toh sahi rahega, else dadi dusra ppt leke aayegi for abhira Or atleast if he clearly draws the boundaries tabh bhi teek hain.

But we are talking about armaan, & when it comes to his guilt, I don't trust him

Abhira is not alone with her trust issues

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Baby wala scene Kaha se Aaya??

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Abhira ek-do mukka maar hi de.

Waise this is after Vidya and her conversation so maybe patni mode activate karlegi apna

Makers can bring out ab and goenka’s relation.Par nahi unhe love triangle jo dekhani,hai and apne favourite sirat ki natin ko ss jo dena hai.