Bollywood Blind Items aka Inside gossip - Page 93

Originally posted by: youknowme

I think it's pretty hard for Gauri to be all lovey-dovey with SRK, especially when she probably feels like a bit of a joke in that world where everyone knows that her husband is also husband in all but name to a man and there's nothing she can do about it.

Gauri strikes me as a proud woman. Shahrukh chased HER for years to get her to marry him & she did, trusting that it would be a marriage, a real marriage. She had said that she didn't want his movies to be a success because she feared what the life of a star would bring.

Poor thing, she found out.

It brought a man who had chased her around India and sworn to love her and be true to her forever, proximity to a beauty queen upon whom he'd had a crush since 1988 (Juhi)

It brought him access to the homosexual world of Bollywood about which Gauri probably knew little to nothing at the time.

Suddenly this man who had seemed to adore her, who had been worried that SHE wouldn't want HIM was ready to leave her because the wider world had opened and was welcoming him.

So Gauri's life & probably dreams were to be shattered so her one time adorer could go off with the beauty queen of his early dreams?

Jeeze, Aryan's arrival saved her marriage but could it do anything to rebuild the trust in SRK? Could it bring back the feeling of utter faith in his love? Probably not.

Wouldn't you start looking a little cold when you realized that there was no way to regain something like that...like your peace of mind and sense of yourself as being beloved by your spouse?

Gauri certainly didn't seem cold in the early days but just how many blows to the self esteem, pride, and self respect can a woman take?

I may be wrong but divorce doesn't seem to be as easy a choice in her melieu as it is in Hollywood. Gauri would probably have felt shamed to be discarded like that and wanted to hold on to "respectability" . No doubt she hoped against hope that time would heal her hurt and she and her husband could love each other again. Sadly there is almost no way to regain trust in someone who you now KNOW could drop you like a hot rock when something "better" comes along, and then the men started turning up...🤢

What do you do? Do you try to protect yourself by shutting down your feelings toward him, or do you just keep showering love on someone who is hurting you daily and not just with women but with men too?

Why should she act all dreamy over him. As even he said, she's proud. She's a proud woman with TWO CHILDREN and she isn't goint to give up the life style she's suffered so much for, but she didn't elect to take up a homosexual affair with Karan and she didn't go out with other women so I can see why she wouldn't be all that interested in trying to protect him by lying and acting all romantic. Hey, she's there and he has access to his children and hasn't been publicly called out about his habits.

She's done her part, as she does when she allows herself to be paraded on stages with SRK at Karan's craptastic "fashion" show.

She smiles and waves and does the bare minimum and probably wonders every night just what SRK & Karan are getting up to in another part of the house.

Why in HELL should she do more than that. I don't think she EVER wanted this kind of "marriage" or expected it when that handsome young man with the inch long eyelashes & gorgeous dimples first asked her for a dance.

i read the whole thread...my god i feel like puking....such cheap and dark bollywood is....can do anything for success even that is sleeping with actors/producers/directors or even breaking marriages and drugs getting pregnant and abortion and also womanising even being married.....how can one stoop so low....

I totally agree wth the points made here= totally. why should the star wives give up on marriages they have spent years making on account of a meaningless fling. I know people always say 'oh it is the designer labels that keeps them around' but no, it is alot more. It is the kids, families and pride. Why accept to the world that your husband has taken another partner for whatever reason so yes, I totally stand by them. And alot of the times, the relationships are just that- meaningless flings. Ok srk-KJO if true is a long standing one, Rekha and Amitabh is another. There is always room for alot of doubt especially with the media in this country. They really dont have a clue half of the time- just plucking out random bits of news without really checking it out. You never know.

i really wonder---gauri a proud woman who said on national TV that if srk fell for someone she d pray that she also found someone else; as opposed to susanne's answer that she wouldnt be able to go on...gauri stayed with srk in a one room apt with no utensils and furniture.....and in the same interviews ege KWK its been mentioned that when aryan was to be born, gauri's life was in danger--the doctor could either save gauri or aryan and srk chose gauri--and he said--how could i allow the woman I ve loved for so long to die---i mean if whats being said is true--he d have chosen aryan--and then be free to do what he wanted--and the sympathy he d get as the poor widower, if he was soo calculatinve and evi.....but ohh I guess that was conveniently forgotten.......and KJo twittered about how he was upset about not being with the girls on gauri's bday--so reallyyyy REALLY, she would consider him a part of her gang for the show-off, for saying oh look i m bff-ed to karan--really when she could go eb friends with anyoen else on earth....seriously, and srk has mentioned in interviews that gauri and karan were talking and the maid came up to srk and said--aap jante hai madam kya kar rahein thi--reallyy gauri would treat KJo like a girl she can have slumber parties with if he was really involved with her husband??SERIOUSLY?!?!?!?!

Originally posted by: shopaholicNY

i really wonder---gauri a proud woman who said on national TV that if srk fell for someone she d pray that she also found someone else; as opposed to susanne's answer that she wouldnt be able to go on...gauri stayed with srk in a one room apt with no utensils and furniture.....and in the same interviews ege KWK its been mentioned that when aryan was to be born, gauri's life was in danger--the doctor could either save gauri or aryan and srk chose gauri--and he said--how could i allow the woman I ve loved for so long to die---i mean if whats being said is true--he d have chosen aryan--and then be free to do what he wanted--and the sympathy he d get as the poor widower, if he was soo calculatinve and evi.....but ohh I guess that was conveniently forgotten.......and KJo twittered about how he was upset about not being with the girls on gauri's bday--so reallyyyy REALLY, she would consider him a part of her gang for the show-off, for saying oh look i m bff-ed to karan--really when she could go eb friends with anyoen else on earth....seriously, and srk has mentioned in interviews that gauri and karan were talking and the maid came up to srk and said--aap jante hai madam kya kar rahein thi--reallyy gauri would treat KJo like a girl she can have slumber parties with if he was really involved with her husband??SERIOUSLY?!?!?!?!

she mentioned she wanted suhana to look like srk, and she cried when suhana actually did--so she would actual;ly cry for a guy she felt nothing for??

just because she doesnt PDA at every single award function, just because she isnt a like on of the indian tv wives who have no dignity--how does that equate to having no affections...put up a pretense for years, YEARS, she isnt an actor, can any woman live like that?

anyways...all that can happen is speculation BUT all i know is--if people are terribly unhappy together then there is no way out but DIVORCE...i find gauri too proud to stay in a loveless marriage--and man the amount of money she d get as alimony and child support--that would be enough for all the designer labels on earth wouldn't it??

sorry but having the whole universe think ur husband is gay or bi or having an affair is waaaay more humiliating than divorce in my view...

Does anyone know when the romantic aspect of the relationship with KJo began? The two of them seem so joined at the hip even after years.

I guess It began just shortly after the release of Kal Ho Na Ho in 2004. Then SRK and SAK presented the Filmfare a certain number of times with all the Gay jokes and Brokeback Mountain references. And the fact Kjo only directs movies starring SRK and always practises his PR skills to promote SRK in a way (movies) or another (Fashion Kouture, Fashion designing).

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Originally posted by: Urmila ROXXX

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thy are a pair together and gauri doesn't mind with it

Originally posted by: rajdugggu

I totally agree wth the points made here= totally. why should the star wives give up on marriages they have spent years making on account of a meaningless fling. I know people always say 'oh it is the designer labels that keeps them around' but no, it is alot more. It is the kids, families and pride. Why accept to the world that your husband has taken another partner for whatever reason so yes, I totally stand by them. And alot of the times, the relationships are just that- meaningless flings. Ok srk-KJO if true is a long standing one, Rekha and Amitabh is another.

But what of Arjun and Srk- at the recent show, he was around them the whole time- even holding Gauri's hand in one pictue so it is all accepted if there is something there other than friendship between Arjun and Srk. I mean they socialise as couples all the time. Wouldnt that be too odd even for Bollywood?

But most end .Like for eg. IF Duggu and Kareena were a couple. Susanne stood by him for six years only to give up when he is a star- no way. Or if the stupid mori stories were true- why give up on a marriage when the girl would leave on a few months? But the Cannes appearance really puts doubts in my head about that too to be honest.

There is always room for alot of doubt especially with the media in this country. They really dont have a clue half of the time- just plucking out random bits of news without really checking it out. You never know.

I don't think there is any such thing as "just a fling" when the man in question is MARRIED.

You say Suzanne stood by Hrithik for 6 years. Now, I'm not saying that Hrithik-Kareena had an affair and that Suzanne shouldn't have stood by him, because I don't know what the truth is. BUT if Suzanne did leave him, it means she's standing up for HERSELF. She has no reason to STAND BY him when he has a fling with someone else. HE's not the victim. SHE is.

I'm not saying that star wives shouldn't stay with their husbands when such things occur. I just don't understand the reasoning you're giving.