Anupamaa 11th May 2024 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 9

Prayaas se kya matlab hai Ab kya anupama eent Pathar dhoye kya majdoori kare to show Prayas ?.

Anupama ne youtube channel mein apne haathon se khud khaana Bana ke video upload Kiya apne haathon se khud tea masala peesa dance academy jaati hai shikhane ke Liya ab Kaun se Praysas ki baat ho rahi hai

Rahi baat Devika ke financial help ki when u start from zero to shuru mein sabhi financial help karte hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Prayaas se kya matlab hai Ab kya anupama eent Pathar dhoye kya majdoori kare to show Prayas ?.

Anupama ne youtube channel mein apne haathon se khud khaana Bana ke video upload Kiya apne haathon se khud tea masala peesa dance academy jaati hai shikhane ke Liya ab Kaun se Praysas ki baat ho rahi hai

Rahi baat Devika ke financial help ki when u start from zero to shuru mein sabhi financial help karte hai

Baaki log Jo kaam karte hain woh mehnat nahin hain?

SAPNE kiske the? Anupama ke.

Kya kya sapne the: Dence Ecedemy ka, Amreeka jaane ka, jaane aur kitne?

Amreeka pahunchaya Devika ne, job apply kiya, interview diya, accommodation ka negotiation kiya, visa apply kiya, visa ki bhaagdaud ki, tickets ka jugaad kiya (may be through a travel agent). Haath me papers rakhke diye aur upar se jaane ko convince bhi kiya financial help ke saath.

Amreeka me bhi Dance Academy me introduce Yashdeep ne karaya.

Toh Jo kaam Devika ne kiya woh Anupama karti Toh prayaas hota. Agar Anupama ka YouTube channel itna hi bada tha aur woh financially independent thi, toh woh insab ke liye khud ke paise lagati.

Dance ka shauque Anupama ka hain, agar itna hi shauque tha toh dhoondhti ki aap paas kaunsa Academy hain, koi Indian hain ya nahin yeh sab khud office hours ke baad karti. Yeh prayaas hota. Khud ka ek ghar dhoondhti office hours ke baad, khud rent, utilities, groceries, transport, laundry manage karti. Toh prayaas hota.

Sapne Anupama ke hain toh prayaas aur risk bhi Anipama ko uthana chahiye. Sab kuch haath me laakar dena prayaas nahin kehlata.

Acha Jo apme haathon se khaana banaya restaurant mein serve Kiya woh Prayas Mehnat nahi hai ?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Acha Jo apme haathon se khaana banaya restaurant mein serve Kiya woh Prayas Mehnat nahi hai ?

Woh uska kaam hain. Ab Restaurant me prakat hone ke toh salary dega nahin koi. Ab office me haazir hone salary thodi na hoti hain.

Anupama ke toh maze hain, Salary hi nahin accommodation, food sab kuch muft me mil raha hain. Off office hours, office resources use karke food "experiments" bhi karti hn madam, batao. (Example: Leela ke saath guftagoo me confrss jo kiya tha)

Kaise. Sub muft mil raha hai ? .she use to pay rent to yashpal it was clearly shown that yashpal told ki iska karaya lagega and anupama agree to pay rent for store room

Ab emergency ke time agar anupama yssdeep ke Ghar Riki to use kiraaye li jaayega ?

Aur ab kya toshu bhi kiraye lega

And more over anupama is paying half rent where anupama is liv8ng eitb co staff in rent house

Ab anuj bhi anupama se kiraye lega kya matlab anuj khud bulaaye anupama matlab log khud bole mein mere Ghar mein aao ya phir choti ke Dekh bhaal ke liye khud hi anupama ko invite bulaao aur uske kiraye bhi lo

Phir to anupama ko bhi paise maagne chahiye Jo maid ki Tarah anuj ke Ghar kaam kar rahi hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kaise. Sub muft mil raha hai ? .she use to pay rent to yashpal it was clearly shown that yashpal told ki iska karaya lagega and anupama agree to pay rent for store room

Ab emergency ke time agar anupama yssdeep ke Ghar Riki to use kiraaye li jaayega ?

Aur ab kya toshu bhi kiraye lega

And more over anupama is paying half rent where anupama is liv8ng eitb co staff in rent house

Ab anuj bhi anupama se kiraye lega kya matlab anuj khud bulaaye anupama matlab log khud bole mein mere Ghar mein aao ya phir choti ke Dekh bhaal ke liye khud hi anupama ko invite bulaao aur uske kiraye bhi lo

Phir to anupama ko bhi paise maagne chahiye Jo maid ki Tarah anuj ke Ghar kaam kar rahi hai

Insaan ko independently rehne ke liye:

Rent, utilities, maintenance, groceries, transport, laundry (if not owning a washer-dryer) par kharcha karna padta hain. Insaan Inmese kisi cheez ka upayog without payment kare toh use muft hi kaha jayega.

Anupama storeroom me rehne ka Kirana toh de rahi thi but baki sab ka kya, utilities, jo food experiments restaurant ke kitchen me karti thi?

Emergency me baki staff toh nahin gaye Unke ghar rehne. Tabhi Katie se bolkar shift ho jati.

Anupama ko doosron ke bharose, sahare rehna nahin chahiye na. Yeh kaisa Independence hua?

Rahi baat Anuj ke bulane se aane ki. Why did she even agree to come? Agar uska koi rishta nahin hain, use Anuj se koi lena dena nahin hn, toh mana hi kar deti. Ya phir kahe ki Adhya ko mere Ghar (jaha bhi woh reh rahi hn) waha bheje.

Added later:

Pick-up and drop service to and from Kinjal-Paritosh's, food supply from Restaurant (none of the other, even Indian staff were offered these privileges), food conducive to Leela's taste.

Man is social being insaan poori Tarah independent nahi ho sakta

Baaki sub yashdeep ke paas isliye rehne nahi gaye kyonki unke paas already Ghar they

But anupama being new in America uske paas turant Ghar available nahi that that is why stay anupama there few days that too when yashdeep ask for nut after ward she stay at kinjal house but muft mein khaana peeve ko nahi but to help kinal

And now she is paying half rent

Aur koi jaroori nahi serial mein anupama ko Ek ek cheej ke liye anupama ko paise dete dikhaya jaaye

Even when she is staying at yashdeep house she is still preparing food in open garden and providing tiffin services

She is preparing food providing tiffin service so I don't know independent hone kya matlab hai and yes poori Tarah koi independent nahi Hota hai

Anupama is putting herself in a dependent spot for no reason. Store room se Dhillons ke yaha, Kinjal-Paritosh ke yaha move karna hi nahin chahiye. Agar Anupama ka apna residence hota toh woh "help" ko restrict kar paata ki kitna kar payegi, kitna nahin.

Anupama koi bachchi nahin hain ki kisine bulaya aur woh chal di. Kisine kuch kaha aur woh maan gayi.

Har kisi ko apna ghar khud hi dhoondhna hota hain. Efforts toh daale. KOI BHI naye shehar me jaata hain toh hafta 10 days (jitna bhi afford kar sake) kahi temporary accommodation leta hain aur phir khud ka thikaana dhoondhta hain. It is in their own best interest.

Aur tiffin services or whatever else, is her job. Waise toh yeh bhi Anupama ne khud bola Vikram aur baki sab deliver karne jate the apne apne ghar se clients ke ghar tak. Apna kaam use karna hi hoga isme koi bhi badi baat nahin hain.

Madad me aur ehsaan fark hota hain. Man, the social being, madad karte hain.

Independent tab kehlati jab woh apne liye khud zimmedar hoti. Jaise baki ke employees. Kisi aur ke ghar par mehmaan bhi zyaada reh jaye toh achcha nahin hota.

To saara kaam anupama akele kare ?

Akela Chana bhaada nahi phod sakta

Yeh samajh nahi aaya ki tiffin service is her job ? Jub anupama ne socha ki use independent hai life mein khuch hat ke karna tabhi to woh yeh job kar rahi hai Otherwise why She will do job if she don't want to be independent

Originally posted by: surabhi01

To saara kaam anupama akele kare ?

Akela Chana bhaada nahi phod sakta

Yeh samajh nahi aaya ki tiffin service is her job ? Jub anupama ne socha ki use independent hai life mein khuch hat ke karna tabhi to woh yeh job kar rahi hai Otherwise why She will do job if she don't want to be independent

Kaunsa saara kaam kar diya Anupama ne?

@bold: matlab?

@underlined: Samajh nahin aaya.

And exactly what would she do in life if not for some form of work (Job or business whatever the case may be)?

She was working in a restaurant as housekeeping staff, staying the store room.

She shifted to Dhillons after the fire broke out. Due to constraints they started delivering the food made in their house kitchen so that they can resume operations after restoration and keep their customers.

Ab delivery bhi Vikram ka kaam toh tha nahin he was doing that. There is NO FREE SALARY. You HAVE TO WORK to EARN. Phir woh job ho ya business. And it is no Ehsaan on ANYONE. If anything, it is a good will of someone who is either giving you an opportunity.