Anuj is a despicable man

When Anupamaa returned to her house after saving every one involved in the accident, instead of asking Anupamaa about her well being first, the insensitive man accused her of not being able to let go of her past baggage. But, five years after divorcing her, he invites her ex-family which he once called baggage to his second wedding. He did not invite his sister or his cousins to his wedding, but invited her baggage. He had done the same thing in the three years they were married to each other. He asked her to create boundaries many times but each time he was the one who crossed the boundary first. He accused Anupamaa of being a slave to Baa, but he said to Baa that she had become cuter over the last 5 years. Instead of complimenting his fiancee at their sangeet, he was busy requesting Bapuji to not leave the USA so soon.

He accused Anupama of saving Pari before CA, but he gave Toshu a job and bailed him. Anuj is more obsessed with Shahs than Anupamaa ever was.

He accused Anu of not being happy with CA, but he himself said that, "Mein Beti Ke Liye Ghut Ghut Ke Jee Raha Hoon, Kya Mujhe Apne Liye Jeene Ka Haq Nahin?" Imagine your father saying that your presence suffocated him. He does not care that his daughter is missing school as she is busy plotting and scheming. He does not bother to have a heart to heart conversation with her but has all the time in the world to gatecrash his ex wife's competition.

He is most definitely the worst human being in the show right now. Anupamaa atleast never neglected her bio kids and their father. But, he neglects his daughter, his fiancee, his sister. Vanraj may be a bad person but still he is the best person in this show.

He is a spineless man who is just behind his Anuuuu like a love sick puppy while his Anuuu doesn't even give him a damn n show him attitude as if he cheated her..Both Upma n Anuj are despicable people..He only cares for his Anuuu so why did he adopt a child n ruined her childhood for his upma's obsession?

Anuj blamed shah family for their failed relationship. Anuj should hate shah family. But he invited only them in his engagement party. Him bailing out that criminal toshu was disgusting . Him being lovey dovey with baa babuji. How will anyone justify this behavior of anuj.

Before leap ,it was anupamaa who was blamed for anuj being shah slave. But now Noone is blamed apart from anuj himself. Malvika ,ankush ,barkha are not in his engagement but this despicable family is.

Anupamaa is bad but anuj is worse.

Totally agreed. Even I have said many times that Vanraj is a far better father and son than Anuj. Also, Anupama is a hypocrite and many things but atleast she has her priorities sorted. But this awara majnu abandoned everyone for a woman who did not even think 5 minutes before deserting him and the kid whom he claims as his daughter. His daughter does not wanna keep any relationship with the Shahs but this shameless creature will purposely force her to be good to them. Atleast Anupama fights for her kids when they are treated badly by anyone but this awara puppy doesn’t know anything other than meri Anu who is apparently not his, never was and never will be.

Anuj is just a cheap version of Anupamaa (herself a cheap, third rate copy of Shashi from English Vinglish)

No one forces him to do chaploosi of shahs and yet he does so. His daughter is growing up in such a negative environment, his fiancée is pained but all he cares about is running after his ex wife instead of getting help for former and being frank with the latter. No hope left for this halfwit.

Glad there's absolutely no one in his life apart from shameless shahs, as he could never stand for his own sister and almost ruined her life. Gave up the family business also and now roams around looking like a trashy airhead. Why does he keep bothering Anupamaa Vanraj Shah and trying to forcibly interject himself in her life anyhow and then trying to compete with her on being mahaan. Doshu got his (was never his) 'Meri Anu' sent to jail and this fool bailed Doshu out????

Pata nahi har baar kya majboori rehti hai iski. A spineless, inept person who gets one good dialogue in a year. Ye table ko jaldi nikalo.

Slightly twisting Maaya's dialogue: 'Tum marr kyun nahi jaate Majboor'

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Anuj is just a cheap version of Anupamaa (herself a cheap, third rate copy of Shashi from English Vinglish)

No one forces him to do chaploosi of shahs and yet he does so. His daughter is growing up in such a negative environment, his fiancée is pained but all he cares about is running after his ex wife instead of getting help for former and being frank with the latter. No hope left for this halfwit.

Glad there's absolutely no one in his life apart from shameless shahs, as he could never stand for his own sister and almost ruined her life. Gave up the family business also and now roams around looking like a trashy airhead. Why does he keep bothering Anupamaa Vanraj Shah and trying to forcibly interject himself in her life anyhow and then trying to compete with her on being mahaan. Doshu got his (was never his) 'Meri Anu' sent to jail and this fool bailed Doshu out????

Pata nahi har baar kya majboori rehti hai iski. A spineless, inept person who gets one good dialogue in a year. Ye table ko jaldi nikalo.

Slightly twisting Maaya's dialogue: 'Tum marr kyun nahi jaate Majboor'

It would have been so good if majboor had died in the plane crash on the way to India to meet some clientele instead of Shruti's parents. Then adhya and Shru could have lived with Shruti's parents with legal ownership of Anujs wealth rightfully belonging to Adhya being the heir.

Kavya goes back to being single mother and then finds a suitable partner.

Ma and Vannu can then marry bachon ke khatir , bachon ke bachon ke khatir, blah blah,etc.

Drama ends where it started, anu happily serving cute baa and bapuji

Oh the only way to legitimately critique Anuj's parenting skill is to covertly blame it on Anupamaa.

Otherwise, every other day a preteen's preoccupation with her father's love life is a TrAUmA REsPonSe caused by Upma that Anuj has no control over. Lol.

I can't believe it but I agree with you , that Vanraj is actually better then Anuj

Vanraj is actually family man

What they done to his character

I am shock

I will pray the devil’s advocate

I remember when Abuj left Anupama for CA , everyone accuse him of leaving his true love “pela pyar” for a child he forced on her just few months ago. Anupama was called a fool for looking and running after him and his love. Today, it’s the opposite, yet, the name calling and accusations are still the same. There will never be a win for them.

Shruti is not a victim. A victim would have been manipulated into marrying Anuj without knowing his truth.
when your husband to be wake up in the middle of the night with fever calling out his ex’s name, saying “you can’t leave me”, why is your A*s still there?
it’s been clear to her that Anuj is obsessed with Anupama, so what do you really expect from him? How can he move on with you. What Anuj and CA need is therapy not Anumapa replacement. If she really loves them as so claims, she wouldn’t be pushing for marriage.

CA is a sick child who needs therapy. I don’t blame her for hating Anupama. She had always begged Anupama never to leave her, yet Anupama left after just one fight with her husband. She has always focused on her blood children no matter how bad Vanraj treated her when they were kids, no matter how evil those kids treated her. But since CA has always been only Anuj’s daughter to her that’s why it wasn’t impossible to leave her. She why would we expect CA to be kind to her? What I don’t like is the rude behavior in public and with her dad too. I don’t like the forced marriage on her dad. That’s not in Kid’s place. She is crossing the line.

Was Pakhi (who was a soon-to-be tween) forcing Anupama and Vanraj to stay under the same roof (which they eventually did) if they couldn't stay married or plotting with Leela to separate Vanraj-Kavya because she wanted a family, both parents' love and care correct? Was it her place to be?

Lets not even get to her public display of attitude and rudeness.