Soory but I found Aadhya damn irritating

I know Aadhya is not wrong but her language and her tone is soo irritating and way to aggressive for a 12 year old kid .. I can't tolerate her behaviour

Better than pakhi whose behavior was worst when she was a teenager

She got everything served on a platter, had a normal childhood, amazing parents and a perfect family

Truth is always bitter!

Whatever Aadhya is saying is 200% true about Anupama and Shahs, hence people are not liking it.

Sad when elders are behaving so immaturely that a child has to step up into parents’ shoes, and same Aadya used to be applauded as Choti Anu when she used ti sacrifice her childhood for Pari and Baa’s khichdi or pack tiffins for her mummy

Atleast she is not a criminal like upma ke khoon ke bacche..She was abandoned,left on her own,adopted so her mind is in that trauma..abandonment is a big issue n so is the mental health which chacha is unaware of n is just busy showing international maid services of Maaaa..

Aadhya is having depression and panic and anxiety attacks because of her past and because shahs and anupama came in front of her shes scared same may repeat again in her life

Something similar to what Malvika had before

And after 5 years this mental disesae becomes more horrible if untreated like for adhya

A mother leaving child at 9 years is traumatic for kids that too suddenly

Full kapadiya family leaving anuj and CA is also even more traumatic

Anuj actually has never been a good brother or father to Malvika or CA

Anuj is just a good lover to anupama and son in law to shahs thats all all life

Hes failed in all other roles like brother to malvika and ankush, son to his adopted parents, father to aadhya, uncle to sara or adhik, friend to devika etc

He left Malvika alone 10 years to face trauma alone and now last 5 years hes left adhya to her fate and on Shrut head

Shruti does not know how adhya was treated before by anupama or shahs so she will not know why adhya behaving like this

Originally posted by: Muskie

Better than pakhi whose behavior was worst when she was a teenager

She got everything served on a platter, had a normal childhood, amazing parents and a perfect family

Vanraj and Anupamaa are amazing parents and perfect family?

Vanraj literally mentally and verbally abused Samar all his life. Upmaa parentified him where her child had the onus of protecting her all his life

Upmaa had no standing in that household to discipline her children or protect them from internalising shitty patterns.

Toshu and Pakhi internalised Vanraj and Leela's misogynist behaviour so much so that she didn't recognise Adhik's grooming as a college kid and then stayed with him despite him beating her.

Those are not traits of good parenting. Vanraj and Anupamaa love their respective children a lot. They are NOT good parents. Anuj loves Adhya a lot. Rather he is obsessed with her.

But that a 12 y/o is obsessed with her father's love life and has the gumption to call anyone a golddigger is a failure of parenting.

Abusive husbands/boyfriends do not make good fathers. Abusive women too do not make good mothers. Survivors themselves can make shitty parents if they haven't dealt with their trauma themselves.

None of these people are good or even half-decent parents. Everyone perpetuates a cycle of abuse. Rakhi Dave is the only good parent on the show lol.

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

Vanraj and Anupamaa are amazing parents and perfect family?

Vanraj literally mentally and verbally abused Samar all his life. Upmaa parentified him where her child had the onus of protecting her all his life

Upmaa had no standing in that household to discipline her children or protect them from internalising shitty patterns.

Toshu and Pakhi internalised Vanraj and Leela's misogynist behaviour so much so that she didn't recognise Adhik's grooming as a college kid and then stayed with him despite him beating her.

Those are not traits of good parenting. Vanraj and Anupamaa love their respective children a lot. They are NOT good parents. Anuj loves Adhya a lot. Rather he is obsessed with her.

But that a 12 y/o is obsessed with her father's love life and has the gumption to call anyone a golddigger is a failure of parenting.

Abusive husbands/boyfriends do not make good fathers. Abusive women too do not make good mothers. Survivors themselves can make shitty parents if they haven't dealt with their trauma themselves.

None of these people are good or even half-decent parents. Everyone perpetuates a cycle of abuse. Rakhi Dave is the only good parent on the show lol.

Anuj was obsessed with Malvika called her bacchi

Everyone knows he left her alone with vanraj and walked off when he knew vanraj will take advantage of her no

Anuj is only obsessed with anupama actually not with anyone else not even CA or adhya as they call her now

If you are saying obsessed because he went to mumbai behind CA and maya, thats because circumstances forced him. Maya was not a normal human with normal mental health no father would leave a 7 year old daughter with such woman and sit in his bungalow. Any other father would go to mumbai to ensure his 7 year old child safety. He never went there to have love affair with Maya but ensure his 7 year old baby girls safety. you will say he knew maya loves him yet stayed with her. Thats only few days when her voilence scared CA. And someone may love us in school, college, office that does not mean i am responsible for that person love for me. Why should it bother anuj that maya loves him he never loved her. If he loved maya he would be wrong

How is rakhi a great human? She used to talk so crass with everyone. Yes she correctly judged Toshiu and Shahs but kinjal ran away and married him.

Why anupama never sent Kinjal home when she ran and came to Shah home? Where was anupama values than? Does not Rakhi as parent have rights to decide who marries her daughter? How one sided anupama decided to marry Kinjal without bothering about kinjal parents

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Anuj was obsessed with Malvika called her bacchi

Everyone knows he left her alone with vanraj and walked off when he knew vanraj will take advantage of her no

Anuj is only obsessed with anupama actually not with anyone else not even CA or adhya as they call her now

If you are saying obsessed because he went to mumbai behind CA and maya, thats because circumstances forced him. Maya was not a normal human with normal mental health no father would leave a 7 year old daughter with such woman and sit in his bungalow. Any other father would go to mumbai to ensure his 7 year old child safety. He never went there to have love affair with Maya but ensure his 7 year old baby girls safety. you will say he knew maya loves him yet stayed with her. Thats only few days when her voilence scared CA. And someone may love us in school, college, office that does not mean i am responsible for that person love for me. Why should it bother anuj that maya loves him he never loved her. If he loved maya he would be wrong

How is rakhi a great human? She used to talk so crass with everyone. Yes she correctly judged Toshiu and Shahs but kinjal ran away and married him.

Why anupama never sent Kinjal home when she ran and came to Shah home? Where was anupama values than? Does not Rakhi as parent have rights to decide who marries her daughter? How one sided anupama decided to marry Kinjal without bothering about kinjal parents

You know even if a family member fostered my kid for a few months and refused to let them go with me or followed us to another city, I would call the cops on them. Period.

He is a billionaire who could afford lawyers who could bury Maya in a family court and could afford doctors for her.

There is no defence for him to blame his wife for his life choices, verbally abuse her for having biological children when he willingly chose to not start a family of his own, whether biological or adopted, in his youth.

There is no defence for how he abandoned his wife without any care to the point that she was suicidal to go play home with his foster-child-baby-mama.

And, Upmaa did not do the same to him. They are divorced. He would have dealt with her lawyers and knew her whereabouts. Upmaa punished herself for five years *check notes* for saving a helpless toddler and pregnant woman before a nine y/o who could understand instructions. Anooj played house with Maya lol.

There is also no defence for what he is doing to Shruti in the name of fatherhood. But this forum crucified Upmaa for being shellshocked after her son's death and for not coddling a 45+ manchild instead. Let's not forget that time when her concern for her daughter being abused was invalidated because Pakhi is unlikeable or some shit. The way this show as well as its audience weaponise parenthood to justify shitty, abusive behaviour

Goes for both Upmaa's maa hoon ne and Anooj's pops shtick.

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

You know even if a family member fostered my kid for a few months and refused to let them go with me or followed us to another city, I would call the cops on them. Period.

He is a billionaire who could afford lawyers who could bury Maya in a family court and could afford doctors for her.

There is no defence for him to blame his wife for his life choices, verbally abuse her for having biological children when he willingly chose to not start a family of his own, whether biological or adopted, in his youth.

There is no defence for how he abandoned his wife without any care to the point that she was suicidal to go play home with his foster-child-baby-mama.

And, Upmaa did not do the same to him. They are divorced. He would have dealt with her lawyers and knew her whereabouts. Upmaa punished herself for five years *check notes* for saving a helpless toddler and pregnant woman before a nine y/o who could understand instructions. Anooj played house with Maya lol.

There is also no defence for what he is doing to Shruti in the name of fatherhood. But this forum crucified Upmaa for being shellshocked after her son's death and for not coddling a 45+ manchild instead. Let's not forget that time when her concern for her daughter being abused was invalidated because Pakhi is unlikeable or some shit. The way this show as well as its audience weaponise parenthood to justify shitty, abusive behaviour

Goes for both Upmaa's maa hoon ne and Anooj's pops shtick.

Anuj was in Mumbai for max one or two months and after coming back he told Anupama that he was wrong. He said sorry to her and was ready to deal with maaya. He knew that he was wrong and said sorry but did Anupama ever said sorry for not telling him the truth of choti’s reason for going with Maaya or not giving him time after that.

Anuj didn’t knew about her whereabouts as it was shown in the show. Anupama didn’t punish herself for anuj or adhya but it was vanraj who banished her from shah’s life. She was not allowed to go shah house or her bio kids by Vanraj. It was not her own wish. Her bio kids didn’t tried to find her for once.

No one was in Pakhi’s side because of Anupama’s double standards in Pakhi adhik marriage. When Pakhi was the abuser she was bimar and in need of treatment but when tables turned Adhik had to go jail. We can see Anupama’s double standard every time.

In Samar death track no one except her to not morne for Samar but for once she can tell anuj that he is not at fault for Samar death. She was looking him like he murderd Samar. She got normal with him after her bio kids betrayed her and Vanraj gone mad. That time anuj just needed few lines of trust from her and she felled to that. She was behaving normally with everyone except Anuj.

I legit screamed Hah at my TV when I heard Shruti say that if Anupamaa had been a gold digger, she would not have left without taking money from Anuj. Well, she doesn't know about the lacs that her beloved AK has given as alleged loans to her spawns at different points in time, most of which they never paid back.