don't tell me about blaming mini. Mini is blamed even for asking babita to take tablet for fever. She has no right to tell her mother how to keep fast. Babita ke emancipation me khatri aur Kammo ka bhi utna hi haath hai Sirf mini aur hs ka hi nahi. I don't understand the hate for her just because makers have decided to axe 2 other important characters instead of showing growth in them.LOL this surname argument seems to be on the backburner now since they are busy doing KC stuff.....mehh.
Babita ofcourse is busy in her "mera pati, mera suhaag, main aapki ho gayi puri tarhaan" blah blah stuff.....and HS ko obviously koi hosh nahin other than patni ji.....aise hi chalega until whatever "fallout" they have with Mini so that they can end these characters. Then suddenly they will bring up all these issues in one big scene again and show a big fight.....lol
Waise bhi they've skewed the whole surname issue faltu mein.....Babita is busy in her own delusions as usual.....supposedly some days back she thought HS-Mini are father-daughter....but they barely interact these days and Babita is 24/7 busy in playing coy wife.....lol so what supposedly mattered a lot once, doesn't matter anymore and sab bas chali jaa rahe hain......writing is all over the place.....one episode is barely connected to the next. Back then people created so much halla about how Babita is being lied to by HS and Mini....lol now it suddenly doesn't matter anymore cuz "cute" romance chal raha hai of Babita feeling puri tarhaan se HS ki, busy utaaroing his aarti daily....lol
I was watching old epis.....during the Preet ka rishta track, Babita and Mini have a conversation about Poonam for the first time and Babita says she lost touch with Poonam in trying to make her husband happy.....lol that convo felt so ironic to me seeing current delusional Babita once again......she's literally doing the same thing but people are justifying it cuz this time it's HS who's her husbandš......otherwise the Babita from that scene was totally agreeing with Mini (without any pressure) that Preet is not realizing how wrong she is in letting go of her own interests and life beyond her husband.
Conveniently everyone blames Mini here all day for supposedly taking Babita's choices away.....lol but it's obvious that at one time, Babita was independently viewing these things like this on her own level too.....she was happy about her first paycheck and talking about how it was hers AND Mini's shared hard work.....lol woh bhi "pressure" mein bola tha? Woh bhi "controlling" Mini forced her to say? Kuch bhi.
Wasn't it babita who said she wanted the her hisse ka poora aasmaan. Why did she decide to open a shop and expand her business. The amount she was earning with working from home catering was enough for her and Mini agar majboori thi to. Or did she do it to just show people like Ashok and khatri that she is something. Now that she has got HS and her so called married life to show off bhaad me jaaye business and uski and Mini ki mehnat.
She has not taken into account even once that mini also has a say over the business its not only her right. The decicion that they will not be dependant on anyone's surname and have their own identity was taken by them at the lowest point in their life when ashok had insulted babita so badly. Babita had so lovingly explained to mini that she is mini and she is babita and they are individuals first. Babita has now conviniently forgotten all that but mini remembers how it was a joint decicion between them. All the while babita has kept assuring mini that nothing will change between them after marriage, but she has not stuck to it. Though I don't think mini would have an issue with the surname thing if babita had not let go of her financial stability. You do not need to loose urself completely to prove that you love someone. I don't understand this skewed idea of love of babita and HS too now because he supports her. I would feel strangulated if I was HS. Babita did the same with ashok and now with HS too. It's a pity she hasn't learnt how to love without loosing herself.
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