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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: awida

I see it from Haidar's pov. He loves Sheila. He is religious guy too. so he hates to let her go away with disbelieving in Allah. it is like a father punishes his child for a mistake. Haidar did that slap out of love and care for Sheila. He doesn't want her to go to hell.

In Islamic rules there are some which punish a muslim if he says or does something against Islam. But this kind of rules are in some countries, and the punish should come from law, and the system. not by anyone.


What does it mean? Slapping out of love and care? This is the mentality which leads to honour killing.
Whether a person should go to hell or heaven is creator's decision. All the human beings have their own job to mind. They don't have to pass judgements on God's behalf. He is efficient himself.

Laws of the land (which includes punishment for the guilty) should be based on humanism, irrespective of person's faith. I can only accuse Shehla for not taking care of two innocent souls she gave birth to. (They were not in a position to take care of themselves whe she left them). But her faith is her choice.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: awida

I see it from Haidar's pov. He loves Sheila. He is religious guy too. so he hates to let her go away with disbelieving in Allah. it is like a father punishes his child for a mistake. Haidar did that slap out of love and care for Sheila. He doesn't want her to go to hell.

In Islamic rules there are some which punish a muslim if he says or does something against Islam. But this kind of rules are in some countries, and the punish should come from law, and the system. not by anyone.



Are you serious? Hitting a woman is not allowed in Islam. You cannot justify a man hitting a woman. Allah has granted that a man treat a woman with kindness even if he does not like her and here you are saying it's okay for Haider to do it out of love. The prophet (PBUH) stated that it is forbidden to strike a woman across her face or in general hit her.

Haider could have explained things to her without resorting to hitting her. My dad was in complete shock when that slap happened.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: canuck-umz



Are you serious? Hitting a woman is not allowed in Islam. You cannot justify a man hitting a woman. Allah has granted that a man treat a woman with kindness even if he does not like her and here you are saying it's okay for Haider to do it out of love. The prophet (PBUH) stated that it is forbidden to strike a woman across her face or in general hit her.

Haider could have explained things to her without resorting to hitting her. My dad was in complete shock when that slap happened.


I know that hitting a woman isn't justified. I was just trying to explain Haider's reason for hitting her. I am not defending him. But she said something really hurting (Kaun sa mazhab?) wasn't a beautiful thing to say about Islam.
Well. in Islam there are some ways for punishment..including hitting a wife if she is nashiz. I don't know how to translate it. but it is there in Quraan. Yes . it has to be a light hit. and not in face. coz prophet warned us against hitting on face . Any way Haider has no right even to meet Sheila , coz he is ajnabi.

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Posted: 7 years ago
This show can hurt the religious sentiments of the christian faith, they should be careful when choosing subjects like this.
If William has lived his Life as a christian, Shela should give him the space to choose for himself now, Its not like he left Islam, he never knew what his faith is.
and what is with the fluctuating accent of the maid/wife. Sometimes she talks normally and then at other times shes again in the jaahil mode.

I think just like they have a warning subtitles for cigarette scenes, they should have one for slapping as well.😡 I wish Shela had slapped him back.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: -shabz-

This show can hurt the religious sentiments of the christian faith, they should be careful when choosing subjects like this.

If William has lived his Life as a christian, Shela should give him the space to choose for himself now, Its not like he left Islam, he never knew what his faith is.
and what is with the fluctuating accent of the maid/wife. Sometimes she talks normally and then at other times shes again in the jaahil mode.

I think just like they have a warning subtitles for cigarette scenes, they should have one for slapping as well.😡 I wish Shela had slapped him back.



That's the thing though, Shehla did not raise William as a Christian. She didn't raise him with a religion at all. He did not live his life as a Christian. There are no symbols of Christianity in the place he was raised, and neither did Shehla ever take him to church or celebrate any Christian holidays. She simply told him to be a good human being. She essentially raised him to be agnostic.

I agree with you about Shehla giving him the space to choose for himself. He assumed he is Christian because people told him he was due to his name William and his mother being referred to only as Mrs.Peter. If Shehla has been feeling uncomfortable with her son adhering to Christianity then she should've sat down with him to discuss her feelings when she first found out.

I feel that William simply wants to be a little more religious, he has leanings towards following a religion and following the word of God. If Shehla had told William at some point in his life that she herself is a Muslim then I believe he would've started learning about Islam.

Haha yeah Rani's change in accent and way of speaking has really annoyed me. I mentioned it previously as well that there is not way her accent could change. This is the director's fault.
Posted: 7 years ago
Shehla deserved that slap more than Anmol in dillagi 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.

Shehla deserved that slap more than Anmol in dillagi 😆


Why don't we see more beautiful romantic shows like Dillagi? Oh ..that slap!😆
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.

IKR how can they ignore something which is so obvious! They could have just changed her appearance, they didnt need to change the accent.



Yes i agree about the accent...it should have been changed after passing few episodes
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: -shabz-

This show can hurt the religious sentiments of the christian faith, they should be careful when choosing subjects like this.

If William has lived his Life as a christian, Shela should give him the space to choose for himself now, Its not like he left Islam, he never knew what his faith is.
and what is with the fluctuating accent of the maid/wife. Sometimes she talks normally and then at other times shes again in the jaahil mode.

I think just like they have a warning subtitles for cigarette scenes, they should have one for slapping as well.😡I wish Shela had slapped him back.



Yes that slap was totally uncalled for 🤢 whatever Sheila did she is answerable to Allah directly...i just wished that they had skipped the slap...havent we seen enough abuse by Mansoor, Haider ka bhe koi haal nhe 🥱
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Posted: 7 years ago
Oh so finally Hina altaf entered , she is Noor...and i was thinking that she would be Haider's daughter...
Wese it would have been interesting to watch Hina as Ahsan's daughter after watching them as Imtiaz and Zebo 😆
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