Kankar | Sanam Baloch & Fahad - spoiler pg 33 - Page 90

Originally posted by: -Shenaz-

Off topic:

Sanam baloch got married yesterday and no I am not joking guys. Check her official page on Fb. They have pics together. Nikkah pics will be posted soon. hs name is Abdullah Farhatullah.

congrats to them

Originally posted by: avidwatcher1

I think that Sikander will stop the violence, but it's sad that Kiran couldn't be a part of his nature now.

I thought it was interesting how his friend reacted when he heard about the talaaq. He said, unless he was violent, she didn't have a right to behave so stubbornly. And it seems like Fahads eyes opened, when he heard that his friend also said saqkti, doesn't mean hitting her. Wish this conversation has happened before. 💔

I'm not sure how much happier Kiran is gonna be with Adnan. Looking at his condition, and what she has experienced. She did love Sikander, otherwise it wouldn't have bothered her that he moved on so fast, I wish she had given it some time, before asking for talaaq.

In the picture above, Sanam Baloch's husband looks like a vampire from like True Blood or the Twilight series or something. Weirrrd.

Finally watched until episode 9! They're married..

Episode 10 now:

I like the scene where they decide they'll call each other's mother ammi, instead of Aunty..I always feel that lacks in a lot of couples/families in our society..especially when it comes to guys referring to their mother in laws. It's just another level of apnapan when guys start calling their mother in laws ami...I FEEL! 😆

"Second best kyun doon, jab unhone apni zindagi ka best mujhe diya" 😳 Can Kiran get any cuter? 😳

-episode 12-

So..Sikandar asks his mom "what choice do I have?" when his wife talks back to him..or disrespects him, etc..
I was SHOCKED..what choice do you have? I mean...so YOU have no choice and you raise your hand, but what do you GET? Satisfaction that you're more powerful than her? I ask such men..what choice does the girl have in such a situation? 🤔

PS- I'm hating Sikandar's character, which goes to show how amazing Fahad is at this! :P
And the breakfast scene between Kiran and her mother in law..the morning after he slaps her..it was so emotional..her mother in law understood her turmoil..cause she went through the same exact thing years back.

-episode 13-

Mujhe aapse mohabbat hai. Lekin mohabbat khatam bhi hosakti hai

^ That's strong. And Kiran's expression were that of a strong willed woman, who isn't scared to look her husband in the eye and tell him that yes, I love you, but I will not tolerate abuse. When she says this, Sikandar was appalled..as in some deep shock. He doesn't know whom he's facing and even from here on out..the only "choice" he has is to slap her. What a fail in the name of being a man.

^ Sikander is a class act Fari nobody could've done this role the way he did, the scene that I posted in star's thread where he's thinking back to his childhood and the abuse his Mother suffered was beyond words.

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Haha, that's true - verbal communication may be limited, but in a marriage, it requires feelings, or rather it should require feelings or an attachment of some sort if not love, right? I think this poses some serious questions in our society about the desperation of women to please husbands and sacrifice their self respect to save a marriage in hopes that the husband will develop feelings for the wife. Most of the time, however, I think the girl just ends up emotionally attached and the devastation is greater when she gives her husband her everything and gets nothing in return. It is merely physical at that point - I think Aarzoo will experience something like that on the show (I had to take it back to Kankar so we're not going off on a tangent. Haha.)

I don't think there is a concept of "greater rights" especially if it's about drawing comparisons/differences between the rights of both male & female. They're all absolutely equal in the spiritual aspect. Women have been granted rights undoubtedly, but in some matters a man has a larger 'stake' meaning a greater responsibility in some issues, which doesn't mean bigger 'perks' there's a flip side to it in the sense that only he'll be held liable & accountable for it in the Hereafter & not his wife. At least that's my limited understanding of it. Regarding the questions you've raised? I wish I knew:) and those are valid questions.

Kankar has really gotten me thinking about so many different things that happen in our society, including domestic abuse, unfair treatment, etc. But something that especially made me pensive was how a divorced woman is treated by those around her. Everyone wants to sympathize with the girl and badmouth the guy just to gossip more, but when it comes to bringing that same girl home as your daughter in law, you're the first person to turn your back towards her. You can't even put that girl and respect in the same sentence anymore. Why? 🤔 Because of the stupid, silly divorce tag? Why such hostility towards someone who has experienced such an incident, which wasn't exactly by her choice either 🤔 Oh our hypocritical society! -_-

Finally all caught up.