Kankar | Sanam Baloch & Fahad - spoiler pg 33 - Page 83

Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.

I always thought a husband has to keep it balanced between his wife and mother with his earnings and everything. I never knew if she demands a seperate home, then hes obliged to get one. Who takes care of the parents then? :S Since daughters leave their home after marriage, and if the son also moves out...wouldn't the parents be left alone?

You can still look after the parents and fulfil their rights living seperately from them Hinna 😆

Yea it's mentioned in the Bukhari Hadees I read and enquired about.

Hinna, the emphasis isn't on how the son will take care of the parents, rather on the fact that the daughter in law isn't obligated to do so. In our society, mother-in-laws make it a rule of thumb, rather call it a gunah, if a daughter in law is hesitant to take care of them, or live together, etc etc. But according to Islam (which is what's being discussed here), then kids only have obligations towards their own parents, not of their spouses. A woman has full rights to have her separate home. Now, it's another story how the woman uses/abuses this right because let's face it, when woman are aware of this right, their demands also reach skies, regardless of the financial capability of their husband, which isn't quite right either.

If a woman leaves her home and her parents to get married, then I see no problem in a man doing so as well. It helps make it equal, and I think the hatred that gathers in mother in law and daughter in law will also be reduced.

I know but I was saying when parents get old or when they are ill, wouldnt they need someone to live with them? If the wife wants to live seperately, then is the son obliged to send them to a nursing home? :/

In that case, technically a wife could be understanding enough? I mean that's about the relationship she shares with her husband and is a personal thing rather than the matter having a religious ruling (as far as I know).

Thats the thing, in our society its not just men who are misusing their rights but also women🤔 that's if they are given the rights in the first place by their husband, because nowadays I just see the emphasis on men's rights after marriage. Noone talks about womens rights.

Marriagee happening

It's like a re-do of Kiran's marriage 😆

BTW anyones knows who Kiran/Sanam will get married 2.

^ I heard the same from Meeph because she read the story it's apparently based on.