Kankar | Sanam Baloch & Fahad - spoiler pg 33 - Page 82

Originally posted by: 2direct.

Absolutely. In some scenarios men have the upper hand & vice versa. To maintain that equilibrium, things have been assigned for that purpose.

Originally posted by: 2direct.

Apna aqs dekhna kissi mein, issey mohabbat nahi junoon kehte hain woh kahe na kahe uski marzi log humein ishq kehte hain, hote hain uski baaho mein toh karte hain rashq nahi hote woh paas toh Najam hum unki yaad se lipate khayaal mein khoye rehte hain.

Originally posted by: starstruckk

but yeah, I agree!...and doesn't she have great, silky hair? I guess it's a Sanam thing.

Originally posted by: starstruckk

I think Arzoo just chooses not to believe the reality between Sikandar and Kiran. To her and her mother for that matter, whatever Kiran claims to say about Sikandar (abusing/hitting her etc) is all made up and Kiran is just being ungrateful to have a husband like Sikandar...after seeing next week's promo, I feel that's exactly how it is...because Arzoo father seems to question her asking and what if it's not a lie? I think that's in regards to what Kiran has to say about Sikandar. They don't perceive Sikandar to be like that at all as to them he's some prince charming who Kiran stole from them.

Originally posted by: starstruckk

I sometimes wonder where Sanam Baloch pulls out all these emotions from within her. When you look at the girl, she seems like this innocent, bubbly person who may just be suited for the girl next door kind of roles..but she literally can pull off anything and so convincingly. I guess that's why she's an actress, and a great one.

Fun fact for all that do not know. Saba Qamar and Mahira Khan were also considered for the role of Kiran before Sanam Baloch.

Agree with you all. Aarzoo is going blindly with her infatuation with Fahad. But, you know, I wonder, he did apologize sooo many times to Kiran, and her family, he even got his parents to apologize, and they promised it wouldn't happen again. So, my question is, do you think that 1) situation will not be repeated with Aarzoo, since they have all learned a lesson 2) kiran has pushed it too far, and will end up loosing a guy that really does love her, but needs maturing, time, and perhaps anger management or counseling. After all, his father and her father both changed with time.

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

What do the words in red mean? Did you write this?!

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

I was having this discussion with my mom just yesterday - and just out of curiosity wanted to ask you guys where you think women have been given the "upper hand" in Islam. If men and women are balanced in the rights they have given, when do women have the "upper hand" over men?

One example would be her post marriage rights, when a woman gets married and shifts to her Husbands home, if it is a joint family setup and the wife demands to have a seperate home, it becomes obligatory for the husband to fulfill that demand, nor is the wife obliged to take care of her husband's family i.e parents, siblings etc. That's the son's duty. If she does it on her own accord her own will then that's her own choice otherwise she isn't required to do anything of the sort.

The husband is also obligated to spend his earnings on his wife first and then his own Mother. She has the first right to his salary. Now you see so much of cultural invasion/influences, that people infuse it with our Deen and the lines subsequently blur.

Those are some examples, my knowledge of Islam is very limited so I have a lot to learn myself 😆

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

What do the words in red mean? Did you write this?!

Aqs = reflection
Rashq can have several meanings, envy, pain, jealousy that stems from posessing something you have or don't have. It can also mean "pride" which is what it means in my post above given the context.
Yep, I wrote it. Make feeble attempts now n then! :)

I always thought a husband has to keep it balanced between his wife and mother with his earnings and everything. I never knew if she demands a seperate home, then hes obliged to get one. Who takes care of the parents then? :S Since daughters leave their home after marriage, and if the son also moves out...wouldn't the parents be left alone?