LOVE |*:.Humsafar AT#23.:*| NEVER DIES. - Page 40

Originally posted by: -Kruti.S-

^^ LOL yeah us din sun li hoti uski baat ek baar toh aaj yeh naubat hi nahi aati...😆

but you see thats where Asher's ego came into picture...these both people are egoistic and they madly loved each other...probably asher loves Khirad more and thats why when the misunderstanding occured they both were broken from inside with the turn of events...and khiran ko aadhi raat ko nikaal diya when she was preggers with Asher's child...no woman can forget that pain

I dont know how Asher is going to react when he finds out the truth...he is going to be heart broken but this time he will not be able to face himself anymore..thats why we did not get any dialogue in the preview...they dont want to ruin any scene for us...they just gave us glimpses of the actual epi with some BG music...smart move by the HS team on that part...in a way even I am glad that they didnt show anything in the precap...I want to see it all together...

we still dont know about the confrontation between Asher and Fareeda...we are in for some surprise for sure..

Originally posted by: fairy17

Sid, that's the entire point..Khirad maaf kar degi to bhi Asher khud ko kabhi maaf nahi kar payega..it's the kind of pain, the guilt that will remain with him FOREVER. I can't see myself blaming either of the two. At times, life brings you to such points jahan you really can't blame each other, per bahut kuch hojata hai :S and somethings are just inevitable then *sigh*

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

yaar, to an extent i can blame him... because at that very moment, he shudn't have left her at khizar's place.. she was his wife..nikaaah mein thi... how cud he just leave her like that? she was, at the end of the day, his responsibility.. not his mother's, not khizar's... rather than letting his mom deal with it, he shud've dragged her back to his home..to hear her excuse/side of the story. instead he just left her there and he stayed out of home all night... 😕 shukr hai he didn't divorce her on the spot

I will agree with you here..to an extent, I guess we all blame him, well not all 😆 but I can...usi pal Khizer ke ghar..uska imtehan tha..Asher ka Khirad ke ooper bharose ka imtehaan...his fault was that he didn't hear her out..he didn't trust her enough to tell him her side of the story..and yeah, divorce de deta usi waqt to yahan tak kahani na pohonchti 😆 that was the only smart thing he did then..

he did it all rashly though..he was shocked.. cudnt think.. but thats the ultimate test of a man/lover/husband right? what he does at such times? zarf ek bande ka, his patience, how wise he is...

true true...that's the time when a man is tested..at least Asher was...and that's when he lost his mind completely...to the extent ke he just left...his zindagi, his zimmedari..everthing in the hands of his mom (jo ke maa kehlaane ke layik hi nahi hai)

but i know majority of hubbies wud've reacted this same way..he was too shocked. toh chalo, his actiion there can be excused since he was trapped. but what abt later on? she was his wife... she called him.. yet he didn't respond..he didn't even once attend her call.. the least he cud've done was to hear her out - for the sake of that love they'd shared.. he KNEW her..he knew she cudnt be like that.. toh if despite all that she "did" commit such a crime, she atleast deserved a chance to explain..? 😕

Wohi na...at that moment..it could be justified..after all "he was a guy" wala excuse and what not..per yaar baad mein KITNA kuch hua...she called him..cried out for him...while typing this I just recall the one scene I guess none of us would ever foget..Hareem's birth...Khirad needed him the most..the mother of HIS child needed him..and he was no where..he left her stranded...I mean he never heard her..that's the worse you can do to the woman you claimed to love...you close all doors onto her...so much that you don't even hear her? That's just.. *no words, honestly*

As you said, even if she did commit a crime, maafi maange ka, safai paish karne ka mauka to har kisi ko milta hai..milna chahiye,..Khirad se to woh haq hi cheen lia tha Asher na :(

so... i still maintain that asher is to blame in all this. he wasn't able to be there for her. his own ego was too much for him - he cudn't get over his own ego to get to see the real picture..😭

Originally posted by: fairy17

Twinoo, IPK ka haal bhi aaj kal yehi hai :|

The only 2 shows I am dedicated to :/

Originally posted by: fairy17

😆 Sunday ko chill kar lia karo... :P

Maine EHM pura week nahi dekha..aaj dekhungi, hopefully! 😆