@nishta - fantastic post! i love the discussions that are spurring in this forum! thanks to such amazing posts like this one!
@ raee- i absolutely agree! they are both as unfrotunate as the other... well, i think bindya is a little more unfortunate, but ill elaborate on that later. *giggle* but all in all, great post!
@narangi_77 - u said if bindya had any self dignity, she would have left long ago. well, lets not forget the kind of character bindya is. She is as selfess a person can get.. and we know that from the past two episodes and also from wha)t we've been seing of her. But the most important point is to remember her conversation with vinay. (i think it was vinay -- or maybe it was someone else, correct me if im wrong *blush* She did tell him that she cannot get out of the marriage, because from where she comes, for a girls marriage to break is the biggest disgrace, for her and her family. Again, she so selflessly sticks to this realationship, just for her families sake. So we can't expect her to walk out, except ofcourse, if vinay does something henious, then ill be the first when to yell RUN!!! :D
@ sana --- oiiii, its soo great to read your posts! we've been away from this forum for so long, its great to be back and reading such amazing commnets! absolutely agree with everything you said. Just like you said, i also wish vinay would find out that this shaadi was just as forced on bindya as it was on vinay. if he realizes that, a lot can change between them. The saddest part is that bindya knew before hand that her wedding was going to be forced, but he was so helpless... she hopelessly sat at that mandap! if only vinay would realize that bindya is just as much as a victim as him, i think their realtionship could go SO many paces! and also, i dont think bindya has fallen in love with vinay yet.. SIGH! not after all the yelling that guy does! haha, but i do think that she has accepted him as her husband. I think she had accepted him the moment they finished their saath phere...but if she is falling for vinay, i think she's beeing quite realistic. She does understand that vinay has not accepted her, and it will take AGES for him to do so. also, about the lead pair being seperate! HAILA!!! the creatives are totally cashing in on it! they KNOW we want to see them together, and we wont stop watching until they do! haha! so theyre keeping that track running!!! but i think i really like this though! i love that it is taking time, so we get to see all the litte nuances in between!
@foram123 - heya there! welcome to the BV forum! we all hope to see much more comment from you! excellent post by the way. I do feel bad for both vinay and bindya... they are both such helpless victims of this cruelty... but i do think that bindya is less fortunate~ like you said, she does have her families support, but all she wants is vinay's acceptance...and that she is not getting! she gets insulted again and again in front of family, she sleeps in a cowshed - how much more unfortunate can someone get. She has to deal with the truth about the sinha family members wanting to kill her ...atleast no one is plotting to kill vinay!! with the kind of behavior people have with bindya, i bet she feels like a burden, how much of that guilt can someone deal with? Also, bindya can't speak out... atleast vinay gets to vent his feelings! Bindya keeps it all to herself! Well, most of the points i was going to make, you alread did! hehe! so thats about it! :D
excellent posts everyone! love this kind of discussion! KEEP IT UP!
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