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Posted: 2 years ago

I stopped watching this show as well after the wedding episode. After hearing Kunal say that he wasn’t being himself those few days prior to the wedding, all the apologies and concern he had for Vandu seemed like a joke and manipulation.

I agree. The unspoken themes for this show are poor and they degrade women in more ways than one. I’m assuming it’s unintentional but it needs to be re-evaluated.

The writers keep taking away Vandu’s voice… her singing voice and her voice in standing up for herself in marital relationships. At one point we see her strong and grabbing Kuldeep by the collar but then once in relationships she becomes the passive wife and in-law with her eyes wide shut. Also, she’s yet to focus on her dream because the sacrifice she keeps making for these toxic relationships knocks her off course.

Therefore, the show degrades women through…

  • Portraying women as rivals engaging in intense conflicts for a man's affection.
  • Presenting women as objects of desire rather than individuals with their own aspirations and agency.
  • Men using women solely for personal gain. Men exploiting women's emotions or manipulating them for their own benefit.
  • Assigning women stereotypical roles. Reinforcing outdated and harmful gender norms.
  • Contributes to normalizing disrespect and emotional abuse. Men are often seen demeaning or controlling women through anger and aggression.



Originally posted by: vish86


Don’t worry vandu will take care of their second child as well because she’s a nanny of kunal’s children’s 😂😂😂😂😂 baaba is correct vandu is aaya now writers go hell with stupid stories shame on you guys what you guys are showing on TV 🤮🤮🤮🤮

Edited by Aishwarrior - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Aishwarrior

I stopped watching this show as well after the wedding episode. After hearing Kunal say that he wasn’t being himself those few days prior to the wedding, all the apologies and concern he had for Vandu seemed like a joke and manipulation.

I agree. The unspoken themes for this show are poor and they degrade women in more ways than one. I’m assuming it’s unintentional but it needs to be re-evaluated.

The writers keep taking away Vandu’s voice… her singing voice and her voice in standing up for herself in marital relationships. At one point we see her strong and grabbing Kuldeep by the collar but then once in relationships she becomes the passive wife and in-law with her eyes wide shut. Also, she’s yet to focus on her dream because the sacrifice she keeps making for these toxic relationships knocks her off course.

Therefore, the show degrades women through…

  • Portraying women as rivals engaging in intense conflicts for a man's affection.
  • Presenting women as objects of desire rather than individuals with their own aspirations and agency.
  • Men using women solely for personal gain. Men exploiting women's emotions or manipulating them for their own benefit.
  • Assigning women stereotypical roles. Reinforcing outdated and harmful gender norms.
  • Contributes to normalizing disrespect and emotional abuse. Men are often seen demeaning or controlling women through anger and aggression.



But who’s going to listen viewers they are doing all this for TRP anyway hope for the best writers will see they will give the answer and of course TRp aunties will enjoy the story they like tolerating FL more 🙄🙄🙄

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Posted: 2 years ago

I can no longer root for KuVan. Kunal can never be worthy of V unless this whole post wedding crap is V's nightmare and not for real!


I hope CVs show V as strong. What BS i read that she was cooking and pammi ordering - like in vaibhav's house - she is not his wife per se (and even if she is) she has to learn to refuse.


Tara has a wealthy dad and now bio mom too - so V can get the heck out - be a mom to any number of countless poor orphan kids and make a successful career.


Unless they show this, I can't get back to the show. Can never want Kunal for Vandu ever again - all this after only reading updates...dont think i'll watch these episodes!


not sure what came upon them to ruin K beyond redemption!

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Posted: 2 years ago

Vandana I am so amazed about you. how could you behaved like this I know your not love to kunal and I am telling you girl do not love kunal please because he’s not deserve your love if you can please focus to your career and love to your music it’s better for your life and don’t think about kunal malhothra please 🙏

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Posted: 2 years ago

Someone please tag me if the show gets better so I can watch it. 😂

Happy holidays!

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Posted: 2 years ago

Totally disappointed! How can they ask Kunal's ex wife to stay in his bedroom? The script writers have lost it! Are they promoting bigamy?? Mindless creatures!

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Posted: 2 years ago

Oh wow! I definitely know that I won’t be watching this show unless something drastic changes. Writers have made Vandu look like a fool.


Even if Kunal doesn’t love Vandu, he should respect her. What happened to all of those promises he made to her and her father? Kunal is a liar.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Exactly! The storyline is regressive. Seems the scriptwriters forgot everything about Vandana's struggle to make it big in the music industry. They are moulding Vandana into another "Anupama"

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Posted: 2 years ago

Poor vandana she took the wrong decision for second time and kunal is lair he doesn’t care vandana he is up to something I can’t understand his feelings and I so sad about vandu that’s it I don’t care this stupid kunal 👹😡☹️

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Posted: 2 years ago

Hmm yaar I know the story is moving in Lilith depressive way since 3 episodes but plz yaar chill plz 🙏 Agar hum hi aisa bolengey tho baaki log will also think the same and again trp lay go down abd they may pull it off yaar kuch tho drama chalna chahiyena

What they have to show ?

We all r expected the entry of soniya right so kuch tho drama hona chahiye na bolo

Trust even I am not ready to watch but still fir kuvan

And they r definitely not sidelining vandana

They r showing that if this s*** is happening but still she is in her patience level

That's what her dad or kunal sister will show kunal

Definitely some one will give ear full to him

For that we need to be lil patience and should bare this on-going s***for some days

And Definitely even I will be anti if they show it for more days trust me

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