So, that's it - Page 4

Originally posted by: shivu01

And if I watched the show everyone else watches then I believe it’s Akshara who said that they both had a rough childhood. yes, you can have a full support of the family but when you see your parents fighting everyday it’s not easy and they does creat impacts on your mind. And even by surrounding everyone you feel lonely just like what Abhir is feeling now. Agree he lost his father but seeing parents always in fighting zone and torturing his mom did left impact on him as well

Thx..it precisely explains why akshara married abhinav. And why abhir had a comfortable, safe , secure , happy childhood...well..uptil now..

That is not why Akshara remarried. 🤓 Akshara married becos her ego took a huge hit when ppl failed to acknowledge her mahaantha on WD. Lmao no one said anything close to the hurtful things she hurled at abhi. Akshara couldn’t believe Abhi chose his family’s pain over her stupidity . (Not supporting the divorce) she had a pretty stable house and family to call hers instead of boarding buses and calling random stranger as father. Did we have any alternative parallels confirmed by Makers if AK had chosen to stay back in Birla house and Abhir witnessing the “fights”!?

Originally posted by: Criticiser

Of course being an orphan and mentioning in every dialogue is clearly the only sympathetic thing isn’t it! Cancer, illnesses, abuse, mental health clearly don’t exist now do they! Just because someone has both parents and is wealthy it doesn’t mean that their life is automatically rainbows and sunshine!

In my opinion witnessing your mother being a victim of DV and getting abused daily by your own father is a suffering! Imagine seeing such traumatic stuff at a young age and unable to do anything about it! I think abuse and DV in a marriage is more than ‘unhappy’ but that’s just me! So many kids in the world are witnesses to their parents being abused daily but are helpless and as a result become mentally disturbed from this trauma and affects their life! Is this not a major childhood suffering! Just because someone loves you it doesn’t make them a jovial saint same goes with abusive parents!

Just because he lives in a huge house with his big family and servants doesn’t mean that his childhood is perfect! Clearly his family members are all useless his uncle is a busy surgeon and his aunt is a selfish woman who never cared about her own sister and grandparents were probably dead so there was no emotional support from any relatives! Is that not suffering having a dysfunctional family with selfish family members but unable to do anything!

Clearly characters like Aarohi who lived an aishon aaram ki zindagi are a spoilt brat but of course that doesn’t count cause she’s an orphan! I agree that losing parents is one of the worst things that can happen to anyone and it’s something that no one should ever experience but it doesn’t mean that other pains and sufferings in the world don’t exist!

I honestly couldn't care less about this show, it’s characters or Abhira but I do find it shocking how suffering from childhood trauma is seen as a joke all because someone is not an orphan!

Don’t really write such long posts but this really triggers me and I couldn’t resist!

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Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Did he say that in today’s episode ? I know he didn’t have a smooth childhood like others .because of the unhealthy relationship btwn his parents ..it’s not easy for a kid to go through that trauma and pain but rest everything was ok..both his parents loved him and he also have a big family.. except Mahima everyone genuinely loved and cared for him . His Tauji is his biggest pillar of support Anyway that didn’t affect his studies or career ..he also topped in his medicine too ! so i don’t understand why he uses this victim card for his convenience though!

@ Bold ,u r right ..now after all the love confessions to Abhinav and rejections to Manyu …this show and the reunion will be illogical and a joke !

Originally posted by: Indira1211

his parents had an unhappy marriage but he was spoilt rotten..that’s a fact.’ abhimanyu is a spoilt brat that grew up to be a rude arrogant selfish man. I’m,not blind or delusional so I see his true colours 😂😂😂.. as for children coming from homes where their parents have an unhappy marriage. Well that is fairly common nowadays..as divorce is very high

Originally posted by: shivu01

Akshara didn’t married for that reason at all. She married because she wanted to take revenge and she was angry since Abhi didn’t pick up her phone.

Initially, her maternal grandparents also did not supporting her. It was completely different scenarios.

If she really wanted to give secure childhood and if she knew Abhi is bad then in first place why she had a relationship with Abhi and became pregnant. Abhi didn’t rape her it was her choice in spite of her knowing that it was critical for her to conceive.

That won't put aside the fact that abhimanyu choose to be with his ma than be with his wife. Priorities dekha diya tha vaise aur agar revenge k liye ho shadi ki hoti toh aaj b manyu jail mei hi hota aur abhir k maan mei abhimanyu k khilaf zehar bhar deti. If all this what she said this many years is what you all call is as revenge then I much say ap logo ne aise fl ko dekha nhi baki shows k jo kaise kaise revenge le chuke hei ml se.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

his parents had an unhappy marriage but he was spoilt rotten..that’s a fact.’ abhimanyu is a spoilt brat that grew up to be a rude arrogant selfish man. I’m,not blind or delusional so I see his true colours 😂😂😂.. as for children coming from homes where their parents have an unhappy marriage. Well that is fairly common nowadays..as divorce is very high

Noway is he a spoilt brat!!!!

He is the most responsible person in S3!!! Respects everyone, Down to earth person! Loves everyone, he's straightforward, no BS person!!!

Not sure if you have seen S3 from beginning!!! Abhi is the most rational person!!!

If having a unhappy childhood is common, then as a society we should be ashamed of ourselves for not giving a child a happy and safe environment.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

he’s selfish and full of self pity.. ‘ oh my childhood was so bad’…my father didn’t love my mother. But I kicked out my pregnant wife.. I led my sons adoptive father to his death.’and now my son is in depression. 🤦🏻‍♀️..oh gosh..😂

Lol!!! If he played victim, instead of Akshara, he would have caught a bus and married a random stranger. But he chose to be the support for his family!!! And he never showed his miseries or pain to anyone!!! And that's not called self pity!!!

Originally posted by: Anu234

That won't put aside the fact that abhimanyu choose to be with his ma than be with his wife. Priorities dekha diya tha vaise aur agar revenge k liye ho shadi ki hoti toh aaj b manyu jail mei hi hota aur abhir k maan mei abhimanyu k khilaf zehar bhar deti. If all this what she said this many years is what you all call is as revenge then I much say ap logo ne aise fl ko dekha nhi baki shows k jo kaise kaise revenge le chuke hei ml se.

Why should abhi leave his mom?? She is alone and divorced. And thanks to Akshara abhi is the only son she has now!!!

Also, I have seen many shows and Akshara jaise ghatiya FL Maine nahi dekha hai.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Rightly said. Agreeing that childhood trauma needs healing. If only Abhir could go through this tunnel and come out as good human being considering his entire childhood so far has been traumatic, thanks to his mom! Hopefully he can heal and be a better person as an adult!

Sorry ab tak bacha childhood accha hi tha jab se custody ka hua tab se heu i won't saw its because of Akshara or abhimanyu but their elders and these two didn't stop. Even after knowing nav is not his father that child was ok but him getting away from his parents is what he had to go through some torture again that was also overcome but then that child got traumatised because of nav death with time he will come out of it.